Hi, I’m Paul Bauer—certified master life coach, master NLP practitioner, and the guy men call when they’re done playing nice and ready to take back control. Whether you’re stuck in a sexless marriage or trying to get over the woman who walked out on you, I help men fix the root problem—not her, you. That means reprogramming your mindset, rebuilding your masculine presence, and learning how to lead
                    
                                             again so women respond to you with desire and respect. If your wife treats you like a roommate instead of a man—or if you're obsessing over an ex who already made her decision—you're in the right place. My one-on-one coaching is built around transformation, not talk therapy. I use hard-hitting Red Pill truths, neuro-linguistic programming, and brutally honest feedback to help men break free from nice guy conditioning, stop begging for validation, and become men their women want to f*ck again—or regret losing. I’m also the host of the Come On, Man podcast—available on YouTube and Spotify—where I drop actionable strategies for men who want to lead in relationships, business, and life. I was also a panelist on the Red Pill show Rule Zero alongside legends like Rollo Tomassi and Rich Cooper, where we break down the praxeology of male-female dynamics. So whether you’re trying to save your marriage and reignite the desire, or you’re done chasing someone who left and ready to rebuild from the ground up, I’m here to help you fix your frame, reclaim your power, and become the f*cking prize again.