03/19/2025
One of the great pleasures of Douglas's life as a writer was his contact with his readers, by letter, e-mail, or in person at book signings. People shared their thoughts and feelings about the books, discussed their favourites and, with a candour that was surprising and deeply moving, confided that reading the Bolitho series inspired and influenced them, sometimes in life-changing ways. Douglas was often called "the Royal Navy's best unpaid recruiting officer", and a startling number of people have cited Kent or Reeman novels as the reason for their decision to serve. Others, in the armed forces and in civilian life, have learned valuable lessons in leadership and management techniques from Richard Bolitho and his nephew Adam. Neither would have regarded himself as a role model or a mentor, and would be slightly uncomfortable at the suggestion, and the man who created them even more so. But the values which have inspired generations of readers flowed from the author himself, who laughingly used to call them "OLQs" (officer-like qualities). And here they are, in these difficult times and in remembrance of Douglas, who lived by them.
"Always know their names. Sometimes it is all they possess." A lesson the author and the young Richard Bolitho learned early in their naval careers.
Show respect. "Remove your hat in the mess. It is the men's home." The respect of others does not come automatically. It has to be earned.
Loyalty goes both ways.
Humour, where appropriate, is a great ice-breaker.
Show your humanity. Compassion and empathy are not weakness but strength. Praise when appropriate, and mediate wisely in disputes. Hear all sides of the story. Allow others to present their views, and don't be afraid to ask for their opinions.
Look beneath the surface and recognize an individual's unique qualities. Captain James Tyacke is so much more than a disfigured face.
Know when your people are right and stand up for them. Recognize bullying and mistreatment, and deal with it promptly.
Honesty. Be up front. Acknowledge your own mistakes or those of your people, and act accordingly. Learn how to apologize.
Never take out anger or resentment on others who can't answer back.
Recognize the inevitability of conflict sometimes, but don't sacrifice unnecessarily. Winning is not everything. Know when it's over.
Honour is not an excuse for self-seeking tyranny. With courage and truth, it is part of a code of ethics by which to live. Practice it and respect it in others.
Recognize and accept the loneliness of command. The ultimate responsibility is yours.