06/05/2025
For nearly five decades, Kelsey Grammer carried a wound the world never fully saw. Behind the fame, the laughter, and the Emmy-winning roles, lived a brother haunted by a single, brutal night in 1975—one that tore his world apart. Now, at 70, he's finally ready to let us in.
Grammer’s new book, *Karen: A Brother Remembers*, isn’t just about grief—it’s a raw, aching tribute to the sister he lost and the pain he’s lived with since. Karen was just 18 when she was abducted, r***d, and murdered in Colorado Springs. The tragedy wasn’t just horrific—it was life-shattering. And for years, that pain stayed buried beneath a polished exterior. But not anymore.
He told his wife Kayte first. Then he poured everything else into the pages. What emerged wasn’t just a retelling of violence—it was a resurrection. Grammer brings Karen to life again: a wild-hearted, loving spirit whose story deserved more than a headline. He doesn’t just mourn her death—he revives her memory.
And yet, this book is as much about Kelsey as it is about Karen. Through the trauma of losing their father to gun violence, the collapse of their family, and the loneliness that followed, the bond between brother and sister was the thread that held him together. Losing Karen didn’t just take his sibling—it stole the sense of joy he once had.
But something happened as he wrote. The weight shifted. The grief, once unbearable, became a doorway. Not an escape from pain, but a reckoning with it.
Freddie Glenn, Karen’s killer, remains in prison. And while Grammer speaks of rhetorical forgiveness, make no mistake—he is unflinching in holding Glenn responsible. “It was deliberate,” he says. “You’re not going to get out of paying for it.”
The book ends in Colorado Springs, where Grammer retraces Karen’s final steps—a pilgrimage not for answers, but for peace. And when it was done, when the last word was written, he finally looked up.
His wife said, “I’ve missed you.”
And maybe, in some way, he missed himself too.
*Karen: A Brother Remembers* releases May 6. It’s not just a memoir. It’s a confrontation with darkness—and a fight to find the light again.