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This is what happens when a woman stops shrinking to be digestible.Own It Society isn’t about becoming someone new.It’s ...
18/12/2025

This is what happens when a woman stops shrinking to be digestible.

Own It Society isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about owning who you already are your voice, your confidence, your boundaries, your brilliance.

This space was created for women who are done waiting for permission. Women who are ready to move differently, speak clearly, and take up space without apology.

If you’ve felt the shift…
you’re already one of us.

✨ Own It Society ✨
Where confidence becomes culture.

Comment OWN IT to be first to know when doors open.

Baby, it’s cold outside…but I’m stepping into this season warm, focused, and unbothered. ❄️🤍Winter energy hits different...
15/12/2025

Baby, it’s cold outside…but I’m stepping into this season warm, focused, and unbothered. ❄️🤍

Winter energy hits different when you know who you are.

A woman can be ambitious, spiritual, stylish, and still deeply present in her OWN life. I don’t chase, I ALIGN. I don’t ...
08/12/2025

A woman can be ambitious, spiritual, stylish, and still deeply present in her OWN life. I don’t chase, I ALIGN. I don’t perform, I BECOME. And I don’t rush — I RECEIVE.

Here’s to soft-ish life, success, confidence, and rooms that match my energy. 💕💕

06/12/2025

Day 22 🎉🎉

I’m setting the tone for my whole day before the world even gets a chance to interrupt it.

One thing I’m learning is this:

If I don’t take authority over my mood early, somebody else will.
So I check in with myself before I check in with messages, notifications, or energy that isn’t mine.

I’m choosing how I want to feel today before I let anything or anyone tap in.
And if something tries to shift my peace?

I’m tapping out before their energy taps in.
Period.

I’m no longer waking up and immediately absorbing stress, opinions, attitudes, or chaos that didn’t belong to me in the first place.
My morning sets the tone — not other people.

And TODAY?
The tone is: JOY + VIBES + VOCALS. 🎤🔥

Because tonight I get to live out my childhood fantasy and go see Brandy & Monica: The Boy Is Mine Tour!!!
Do NOT call me, text me, or ask for serious conversation because…

I will be singing to the top of my lungs.
All the old school hits.
All the teenage heartbreak anthems.
All the harmonies my dramatic younger self used to perform in the mirror, at school and on the bus.

I’m gonna have a whole entire BALL.
Excited, nostalgic, loud, emotional, and fully committed to every note 😂

Day 22 is all about protecting my mood, enjoying my life, and creating moments worth remembering with no guilt, no stress, and no interruptions.

Peace in the morning.
Vocals at night.
Energy protected all the way through. 💕

05/12/2025

Day 23🎉🎉 and let me tell you something……

Being a grown woman is just waking up every morning with a whole strategy… and then remembering your body said, “Ma’am, we’ll do 2 things today and that’s it.”

I’ve accepted that:

• I make my to-do list at 8AM
• My motivation kicks in at 11AM ish
• My energy disappears at 3PM knowing I have to go sit in the car line in 15 mins to pick up Nia
• And my brain clocks out at 6PM without notifying me 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

But guess what — grown woman wins still count even when you don’t feel like Wonder Woman every day.

If I showered, drank water, answered one email, didn’t snap on my kids, ate protein, a piece if fruit and a vegetable, and minded my business?

That’s success. That’s victory. That’s adulthood.

Day 24🎉🎉Umm yes, I missed yesterday (and a couple more days lol) And guess what? I’m not beating myself up about it.I di...
04/12/2025

Day 24🎉🎉

Umm yes, I missed yesterday (and a couple more days lol)
And guess what? I’m not beating myself up about it.

I didn’t scroll much
I didn’t “keep up.”
I didn’t check every post or comment.
I just lived.

Because sometimes, social media overstimulates me.
The news, the chaos, the opinions, the endless content…it can become a lot when your mind is already full.

And I’m learning that I don’t have to always be in the know.
I don’t have to see everything in real time.
I don’t have to show up online every day to feel present in my real life.

It’s okay to step back.
It’s okay to unplug.
It’s okay to choose peace over pressure.

But let me be honest for a second…

Sometimes I get scared to take breaks.
Scared I’ll miss a casting call.
Miss a speaking engagement.
Miss an opportunity that was “supposed” to change everything.
Scared that being offline means being overlooked.

But God had to remind me AGAIN……

What is for me, I will NEVER miss.
Not because of the algorithm.
Not because of timing.
Not because I decided to rest.
Not because I wasn’t online.

If God has something with my name on it, it’s already prepared, already waiting, and already aligned.
He will release it when He is ready…
whether I’m scrolling or sipping tea in silence.

And honestly?
That’s my prayer going forward:

God, blow my mind without me having to put unnecessary pressure on myself.
Let the right opportunities find me: in peace, not panic.
In alignment, not anxiety.
In your timing, not mine.

I’ve even been thinking about taking a longer break soon….. not out of avoidance, but out of intention.

I want to work on what matters behind the scenes.
I want to be “in” the moment, not just posting about the moment.
I want to feel life in real time not through a screen.

Here’s to Day 24 honoring my peace, protecting my mind, and trusting God to deliver every blessing meant for me…with or without an app. 💕💕

01/12/2025

Day 28… and today feels big in the best way.

I’m officially diving into the last stretch of my classes and also starting a new professional development course that’s going to elevate my career even more.
It’s giving focus, discipline, and grown-woman follow-through. 📚

But what makes this moment so meaningful is this:

I’m finally finishing what I started.
It took me a while because I chose to raise my family first to be present, to show up, to build, to pour into my kids and our life.
And I don’t regret a second of it.

But now?
It’s my turn.
And it feels good to keep a promise to myself that’s been sitting on my heart for years.

What makes this even sweeter is the timing:
My son graduates college next week.
My daughter graduates high school in May and heads off to college.
So yes — I’m planning to graduate BEFORE her. 😂We love a motivated household.

It feels good to grow as a family…
to elevate together…
to show my kids — and myself — that it’s never too late to complete the things that matter.

Here’s to Day 28…
finishing what I started, honoring the season I’m in, and walking confidently into my next level. 💕💕

29/11/2025

Day 29 🎉🎉

Ready to live out every dream, knock out every goal I’ve set for myself one by one.

What I’m learning in this season is that I don’t have to attack everything all at once. That “strong Black woman do it all in one day” mentality?
Yeah… she’s retired.

I’m finally giving myself permission to break things down, pace myself, and focus on one goal at a time without guilt, without pressure, and without feeling like I’m behind.

Because the truth is:
💕consistency beats chaos
💕progress beats perfection
💕and tackling things one step at a time keeps me from burning out before I even start

Today I’m celebrating discipline.
Celebrating small wins.
Celebrating the version of me that’s committed to the long game.
And celebrating the mindset shift that says:
“You can do it all… just not all at once.”

Here’s to Day 29 focused, intentional, and knocking these goals out like a grown woman with clarity and a plan.

Day 30 🎉🎉And today feels like a “quiet build” kind of day.I’m at a place in my life where I’m not rushing anything anymo...
28/11/2025

Day 30 🎉🎉

And today feels like a “quiet build” kind of day.

I’m at a place in my life where I’m not rushing anything anymore not my healing, not my career moves, not my joy, not my elevation.
I’m learning that the best things don’t have to be loud… they just have to be aligned.

So while the world is shouting Black Friday, I’m over here choosing intention. God has been downloading, I’ve been building, and I can feel something powerful shifting in me.

I’m creating something for the woman who’s tired of pouring from an empty cup…

Who wants structure without burnout…

Clarity without chaos…

Elevation without losing herself.

No — it’s not dropping today.
But just know… it’s dropping soon.
And when it does, it’s going to require you to rise.

I’m proud of myself for building in silence until it’s ready. Here’s to alignment, maturity, and stepping into this next decade with purpose. 💋


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