10/24/2025
Brian Fisher wraps up his exploration of intimacy—the fourth element of spiritual formation—with a heartfelt reflection on what it really means to know and be known by God. He reminds us that true intimacy isn’t about trying harder or putting on a polished spiritual front—it’s about receiving love, uncovering our hidden ideas and desires, and allowing God’s Spirit to transform our false selves into something whole and authentic. As Brian writes, intimacy requires authenticity. God is always honest with us, but we often hide behind fear, control, and performance.
Drawing on Scripture, C.S. Lewis, and his own experiences, Brian points out that God’s intimacy isn’t “safe” in the way we’d prefer—it’s transforming. Like Aslan, He’s not tame, but He’s good. And while vulnerability with everyone isn’t wise, deep trust with God and a few trusted friends can reshape us from the inside out. As Brian prepares to move into the fifth element of formation—instruction—he leaves us with this invitation: to keep pursuing authenticity, even when it’s messy, and to let God’s deep love become more than a belief—an experienced reality.
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