11/28/2025
Brian takes us deeper into the Formation Gap by exploring why instruction—good and necessary as it is—can’t carry the weight of true spiritual transformation. He invites us to think about the actual people who shaped us: parents, friends, mentors, coaches, and the Spirit Himself. Those relationships, not lectures, formed our hearts. So why does modern Christianity elevate instruction above time, habits, community, and intimacy? Brian turns to The Critical Journey to unpack six stages of spiritual growth and highlights the Wall—an unsettling but essential season where our assumptions crack open, and God invites us into deeper trust.
From there, Brian gets brutally honest about how churches tend to avoid the later stages of formation because they’re slow, messy, and inefficient. Marshall and Payne’s Trellis and the Vine becomes the backdrop for his central point: institutional structures often overshadow the personal, relational work that actually changes lives. When we hit the Wall, we don’t need more verses texted to us—we need people willing to sit in the dark with us. Instruction has its place, but silence, presence, and “withness” often do far more to heal and form us.
Check out "What Lies Beyond the Wall" on the Soil and Roots Substack page: https://vist.ly/4gcu9
Instruction's Limitations in Our Spiritual Journeys