11/03/2025
My father-in-law had no pension. I cared for him with all my heart for 12 years. With his last breath, he handed me a torn pillow and said, "For Maria." When I opened it, I couldn't hold back my tears...
I am Maria. I became his daughter-in-law at 26. At that time, my husband's family had already gone through many hardships. My mother-in-law had died young, leaving my father-in-law, Tatay RamĂłn, to raise four children alone. His entire life was spent growing rice and vegetables in Nueva Ecija; he never had a job with benefits or a pension.
By the time I joined the family, almost all of Tatay RamĂłn's children already had their own families and rarely visited him. His remaining life depended almost entirely on us, my husband and me.
I often heard neighbors whisper:
"How awful! She's just the daughter-in-law, and she already seems like his servant. Who takes care of their father-in-law for so long like that?"
But for me, I saw it differently. He was a father who had sacrificed his entire life for his children. If I turned my back on him, who else would care for him?
Twelve Years of Trials
Those 12 years weren't easy. I was young and often felt tired and alone. When my husband went to Manila to work, I was left alone to care for our young son and Tatay RamĂłn, whose body was already weak. I cooked, did laundry, and stayed up all night monitoring his breathing.
Once, exhausted, I said to him: "Tay, I'm just your daughter-in-law... sometimes I feel a heavy weight on my chest."
He simply smiled silently and took my trembling hand: âI know, daughter. That's why I thank you even more. If it weren't for you, I might not be here anymore.â
I never forgot those words. From then on, I promised myself to do everything I could to make his life easier. Every winter, I bought him thick shirts and blankets. When his stomach hurt, I made him rice congee. If his feet hurt, I gently massaged them.
I never thought about receiving anything in return or what he might leave me someday. I did it because I already considered him like my own father.
The Last Moment
As time passed, Tatay RamĂłn grew even weaker. At 85, the doctor at the provincial hospital told us his heart was very weak. Days before his last night, he used to call me to his bedside to tell me stories of his youth and repeat to me over and over again that his children and grandchildren should live with honor.
Until the afternoon of his departure arrived. Breathing heavily, he called me over and handed me an old pillow, its edges almost torn. His voice was barely a whisper:
âFor... Maria...â
I hugged the pillow, not understanding it at first. A few minutes later, he closed her eyes forever.
The Secret Inside the Pillow
That same night, during the wake, while sitting on the terrace, I opened the torn pillow. What I found inside left me completely speechless...Read more in Comment or Most relevant -> All comments đ
