05/12/2026
This is not about pity but just how life works..
Life can be tough.. It is packed with so many challenges. Some challenges that will absolutely blindside youā¦ I donāt think thereās one day that goes by that itās easy.. But I always try to take a negative and turn it into a positive. Even though the pain still hurts, there are reasons why we are to grow in areas we didnāt know were a weakness. You cannot control everything, and you certainly cannot control people; theyāve got to want change. It may hurt to watchā¦ But it's not something you want to watch that one single word by them could've changed everything... But loyalty lay elsewhere..
I never want anyone to fail, and it sucks to watch them, caught in a webā¦ But there will always be love and compassion for themā¦ Even when those days were dark.. If you didnāt care about that person, you wouldnāt put so much hard work and effort into building them into a better person or breeder or even building a friendship.. Everything was done selfishly, with never expecting anything in return.. Just wanting to see beautiful growth and the joy that took place in watching that beautiful garden that just needed a little weeding and a little TLC. And let the love and passion take over and do all the magic with their hands..
Lifeās rules: You have to get up, keep a roof over our heads, and food on the table. And at the end of the day, everything comes after. Not a single personās challenges are ever discounted. Their work is always their best. As long as it is given our all!!! So never let the weight of the world steal your joy or even your passions EVER. Everything is temporary. And life will keep going on.. And our hobbies are something that brings Joy back to us at the end of the day when every day expects us to get up and do that 9-to-5 job or that hard-working stay-at-home parent that takes care of everything, including the children.. We gotta get up, brush ourselves off, and go forward..
There is a lot of heaviness in our community that feels completely beat downā¦ During these times, we make some really bad choices, and a lot of hurt comes from it.. Zero communication, Severed relationships that were years long, assumptions, hurt feelings, misunderstandings, the list can go on.. We shouldnāt do that, because we will look back and realize that we were in a bad place that was temporary, and we made a permanent decision based on that. My heart hurts when things couldāve been avoidedā¦ If only there were real communication.. With truth and honesty..
This is not AI filtered. This is straight from my heart as I do not believe in AI filtering thoughts and opinions, and taking away the rawness of emotions..
