
08/03/2025
I stumbled upon The Nine on an unusually quiet evening. I was scrolling through audiobooks, searching for something that felt real, something that would break the numbing scroll of news and repetition. I paused at the title because it was simple, almost too quiet for the weight it clearly carried. The subtitle hinted at survival, and I pressed play. What I didn’t expect was Juliet Stevenson’s voice. She did not simply narrate, she carried the pain, the urgency, and the strength of nine incredible women who lived through the unspeakable. By the time the first chapter ended, I found myself sitting still, phone in hand, listening more with my heart than with my ears. Gwen Strauss, who is also connected to one of the nine women, writes with a sense of duty and deep love. The story unfolds like a recovered memory, and as I listened, I realized this was more than history. It was a wake-up call. A lesson in courage, friendship, survival, and the sheer will to live in a world that had turned dark. Below are eight unforgettable lessons I took with me from the audiobook. Each one stayed with me long after Juliet Stevenson’s voice faded from my headphones.
1. Ordinary Women Are Capable of Extraordinary Courage: As Strauss introduced each of the nine women, I was struck by how normal their beginnings were. They were not born rebels or soldiers, they were students, secretaries, and mothers. Yet when the time came, they chose resistance. Listening to their individual stories, I realized how bravery often wears an ordinary face. This lesson reminded me not to underestimate the quiet strength in those around me. It helps readers see that courage is not reserved for the extraordinary but forged in everyday decisions.
2. Female Resistance Fighters Deserve More Recognition: Throughout history, so many women’s stories have been tucked away in the footnotes. Strauss refuses to let that happen here. She brings the women to the center and gives them the space they always deserved. As I listened, I felt both admiration and quiet anger. Why had I never heard of these nine before? Their sacrifices and brilliance challenged every stereotype I had unconsciously absorbed. This lesson helps any listener realize the urgent need to correct the historical record and give voice to those long silenced.
3. True Friendship Can Be a Lifeline in Darkness: The most powerful thread in the book was the bond between the nine women. Their friendship wasn’t sentimental, it was survival. They held each other up, quite literally, through forced labor, starvation, and death marches. At one point, one woman carried another on her back just so she wouldn’t be left behind. Listening to this, I thought about the meaning of loyalty. This lesson makes you ask yourself, who would I carry, and who would carry me? It teaches that in the worst of times, human connection is not a luxury, it is everything.
4. Resistance Comes in Many Forms: Not all the women were armed or aggressive, yet each resisted in their own way. Through small acts of defiance, code work, sheltering others, or simply refusing to give in to fear, they resisted. Strauss makes it clear that resistance is not always loud. Sometimes it is simply the decision to remain human in an inhumane world. This lesson helped me rethink what it means to stand up for something. It encourages anyone who listens to never think their voice is too small.
5. Memory Is Fragile, But Truth Finds Its Way: Strauss had to piece together this story from bits of testimony, archives, and the fading memories of survivors. And yet, the truth still came through. What struck me was how the women themselves sometimes struggled to remember or to speak. Trauma blurred lines and silenced certain parts. But even so, something in them needed to be known. This lesson helped me appreciate the importance of listening before stories disappear forever. It is a call to preserve, to ask questions, and to honor the fragments.
6. Dehumanization Begins Slowly and Disguised: One of the most chilling parts of the book was how easily cruelty became normal in the systems the women endured. It did not happen all at once. It was gradual, systematic, and wrapped in rules. Strauss does not dramatize it. She lays it out in chilling detail, and as I listened, I could not help but draw lines to modern patterns of prejudice and apathy. This lesson teaches vigilance. It urges us to speak up before silence becomes complicity.
7. Survival Requires Both Luck and Grit: The nine survived because they were resourceful, determined, and unbelievably strong. But Strauss does not romanticize it. She tells the hard truth that some of their survival was also luck. The right moment. The right guard. The right direction. That tension between effort and chance hit me hard. It reminded me to never judge the fallen, and to be deeply grateful for what I sometimes take for granted. For every survivor, there are those who did not make it. This lesson humbles the heart.
8. Telling the Story Is an Act of Justice: Perhaps the most enduring message of The Nine is that remembrance is not just about history. It is justice. Strauss carries this story with reverence, but also urgency. Listening to her words, spoken so vividly by Stevenson, I felt as though I was being entrusted with something sacred. This lesson reminds us that every time we tell a true story like this, we push back against forgetting. Against erasure. And in doing so, we allow these women to live again, not as victims, but as fighters.
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