Becoming a Biblical Trophy Wife

03/22/2026

Covenant and becoming a biblical trophy wife.

When my husband and I first got married we made the decision that divorce was neither an option nor part of our vocabulary. It is not something to use as a threat or to be tossed around casually. While our marriage has gone through some pretty wonderful ups we have had some downs that nearly led us down a path that we never conceived of.

But God had other plans.

Our covenant to God and each other is what drove us to move our marriage toward a strictly biblical, patriarchal Ephesians 5, way of life. This is working for us because we are finally learning to follow Gods good design for marriage. I am learning to be a submissive wife, I put my husband and our relationship first before every thing else. I honor him and try to always speak well of him. There is more but if you are experiencing difficulties and hardships in your marriage please don’t give up. Reach out to a trusted friend, woman at church, or other married couple for help. Therapy isn’t always what’s needed but actual good counsel. If you reach out to me I will tell you what we are doing that has moved us from almost doing what we never thought we would, to beginning to thrive. Have we arrived? Haha absolutely not, we still struggle, but we are working on it with intention and first and foremost, with God.

Be strong, be grateful, and always be a prize. ❤️🙏🏻

03/19/2026

Sometimes I need these reminders ❤️
How about you?

03/13/2026

Made some super yummy Pineapple Rum Keto Marshmallowy Fluffy Stuff! It’s like Cotton Candy for people who don’t eat…Candy!

Comment Recipe if you want to know how I made it!

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03/10/2026

When you practice consistently, you will see results! Time varies for everyone but 3 years ago I could barely walk, or squat, or move. I have, read that again, HAVE Osteoarthritis, plantar fasciitis, chronic migraine, every excuse you can come up with. But…movement heals! Get up! Move your body, do it consistently, and watch the changes!

Dick Van D**e recently turned 100 and when asked what keeps him young his response was that he never stopped moving! Don’t stop moving! If you did stop, start again! Movement is healing!

03/09/2026

Are you stuck or don’t know where to begin? Start by building consistency!

Today’s challenge: take a walk!! Make it a daily habit and build consistency! Comment with a picture of you on your walk!

Be strong, be grateful, always be a prize!!

03/05/2026

Choosing our words can be hard, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that when we choose the words wisely and deliver them with respect it can be edifying, comforting, encouraging, or even rebuking when done with respect and at the proper time. But, our words can also be damaging, hurtful, embarrassing, and controlling if we don’t take care to pray before responding or even delivering news we could cause pain that doesn’t need to be there.
As husbands and wives our primary goal is to learn to be more like Christ and to help our spouse to also grow closer to Christ and become more like Him. Our marriages should reflect the trinity with God at the center. Equal in value but with different roles. Remember that as you go about your day and strive to glorify God in how you speak to and respond to your husband.

03/04/2026

Something that I feel isn’t probably talked about enough especially since the virus that shall not be named came on scene, and that is the topic of appearance. Contrary to popular belief, appearance does actually matter! You are willing to get dressed to go to the office, out with friends, on a date, but what about every other day when you are home? Are you dressing for your husband?

So often it’s the husband who suffers. We are often so willing to go above and beyond for others that they get left feeling like they get the leftovers. We should not be treating our husbands this way! They deserve our first and best! If you have ready Proverbs 31 or Ephesians 5 then you know that wives are to show their respect to their husbands. I take this to also mean in not only how we treat them in public and in private, but also in how we represent them whether we are with them or not in how we present ourselves to the world.

What do you think? Do you agree that women should dress for their husbands before dressing for the world?

03/03/2026

Amen!!!

This is for the wives! You can only control your obedience to God. You can’t control what your husband does. But what you can do is get on your knees and intercede.

03/02/2026

Getting stronger is the key! It’s never too late to start gaining strength, better mobility, and enhancing your longevity. Becoming a biblical trophy wife means to care for your body so that you can be around for a long time to care for the ones you love.

Getting stronger expands to more than just your body (arms, legs, abs, etc) we must also become stronger in our minds. Reading Gods word and holding to its truth, teaching the younger women to care for their minds and bodies too, listening to and obeying our husbands and leaders. These are all important aspects of strength training.

What are you doing to build strength in your body, mind, or soul?

Always remember to be strong, be grateful, and always be a prize! 🏆

03/02/2026

Happy March 1st!! I wanted to take a moment to reintroduce you to what I believe being a biblical trophy wife means!

To me becoming a biblical trophy wife means that I obey God and my husband. I do my best every day to be the best daughter of the most high, wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend.
🤓It means that I take educating myself and my children seriously in ensuring they know what relationships should look like.
🏋️‍♀️I take my health seriously so I workout and only eat healthy Whole Foods (mostly beef, bacon, butter, and eggs)
⛪️ I take my faith seriously and lead a devotional with my children every morning and pray with them before school in addition to my personal studies.

There is more to this but it’s not about being perfect now, it’s about becoming the wife you want to be.

Be strong, Be grateful, always Bd a prize.

02/25/2026

Wow! My husband and son took some time while I was at the office yesterday for work to clean, organize, and prepare my workout space so that I can keep building and getting stronger.
Becoming a biblical trophy wife is more than just doing a study or reading the Bible everyday. It’s about becoming disciplined in caring for my body (working on that marriage bod), it’s about learning from mistakes and accepting correction, it’s about my children and family being my greatest ministry. It is about becoming mentally strong in Christ to ward off feminism and its effects not only to teach my daughter but to show my son what a good Christian wife looks like and how she interacts with and cares for her husband and family. When a wife is obedient and shows submission to God and her husband she shows Christ to the world and her family and is blessed.

“For man does not originate from woman, but woman from man; for indeed man was not created for the woman’s sake, but woman for the man’s sake.”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭8‬-‭9‬

02/12/2026

Sometimes I forget where I was and where I am now. Sometimes it’s hard to see the progress. That doesn’t mean it isn’t happening! Progress over perfection means that in some way progress is still happening. Progress can look different for everyone, but for me it has looked something like this and all of this is over time! Sometimes weeks of zero weight loss but other changes are happening so pay attention, some of these changes may be true for you too!

Things that can remind you change is happening during a health transformation:

✅ weightloss
✅ inch loss
✅ skin is healing
✅ less inflammation (arthritis, pain, etc)
✅ more muscle tone
✅ pants fit better
✅ food fuels better (less lethargy and more energy after eating good Whole Foods

This is NOT a complete list and these may not happen all at once but pay attention to the little things my friends and dont give up! You didn’t get where you are overnight and you won’t have changes overnight either! Keep pushing and strive for progress and not perfection!

“Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬