The Black Sheep Survives

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Conflict Analysis & Resolution, M.S. Conflict Consultant

06/18/2025

I’ve been thinking about this for weeks and I think I’m done with this space. I reached as far as I could with it and I feel like it’s done. I’ll leave it up for people to take what they need.

Just call me a B and get it over with. I hate toxic positivity type of people with the wish you love and blessings. B pl...
06/18/2025

Just call me a B and get it over with. I hate toxic positivity type of people with the wish you love and blessings. B plz.

*blocked* toxic positivity ppl gotta go. I can’t have you in here wishing me love and blessings AND calling me delusiona...
06/18/2025

*blocked* toxic positivity ppl gotta go. I can’t have you in here wishing me love and blessings AND calling me delusional. I rather you call me a b and get it over with.

I slept with the fan next to my face and now I’m all congested
06/17/2025

I slept with the fan next to my face and now I’m all congested

06/17/2025

Plenty of hurt people don’t, and there has never been more resources and information about changing abusive behavior. ⁠

This is more for YOU than it is for them.

06/16/2025
06/14/2025

I love it when people call me entitled, because what they really mean is that they have come across someone with standards, and they can’t stand it.

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06/14/2025

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06/14/2025

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06/14/2025

If we — their supposed safe space — can’t handle their boundaries, how will they ever believe they’re allowed to have any?

Of course, their “no” won’t always be convenient or appropriate. But that doesn’t mean we dismiss it.

We can hear it. Hold it.
Then guide. Explain. Invite them to explore the why — with time, with information, with connection.

What matters most is that they don’t feel bad, rude, or wrong for disagreeing with us.

Because kids who are shamed for speaking up… learn to silence themselves.

And kids who feel safe to speak their truth — respectfully — build the confidence and clarity to do it when it matters most.

Let’s teach our children that boundaries are not rebellion.

They are strength.
They are safety.
They are self-respect.

And it all starts at home. ❤️

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Who Am I?

Hi! I’m Roxanna.

Ever since I can remember, I enjoyed helping others and providing them with advice specifically tailored to their needs. I practiced counseling throughout my life. I utilize the gift of active listening which is a fundamental element of my work in advice giving.​

Since 2016, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that hold them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. Allow me to help and assist you in developing more effective ways to handle these issues that are standing in the way of your goals.

I am a wife and mother to two rambunctious twins. I have my Masters of Science in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University. I am also moving forward in my pursuit of obtaining my Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis and Resolution this upcoming year. I am a certificated mediator in Texas.