10/11/2025
๐ช "๐ง๐ต๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต ๐'๐บ ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐ ๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐'๐บ ๐ฏ๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ณ๐๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐."
A 16-year-old in foster care shares her story of learning to advocate for herself โ originally published in Represent by Youth Communication .
๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ท๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐:
- Entered foster care at 12
- Bounced between homes, facilities, and back to mom
- At 15, chose to stay in foster care for stability
- Was misclassified as "therapeutic" when she was the "good kid"
- Over 100 placement attempts failed because of this label
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐:Her lawyer Caroline taught her rights she never knew:
โ Access your own case files
โ Speak to the judge yourself
โ You should receive clothing, food, hygiene products (she'd been paying herself!)
โ Every youth gets a team: lawyer, case planner, life coach, caseworker
๐ฆ๐ต๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ธ: Got psychiatric evaluations, corrected false reports in her files, changed her classification and is now waiting for placement with a foster mom she knows and trusts.
"๐'๐๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐น๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฒ. ๐'๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐บ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐น๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐ฎ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ต๐."
Real youth agency = a teen deciding their life is worth fighting for. ๐ฏ
Read her full story โ https://youthtoday.org/2025/11/never-too-young-to-be-an-advocate/