Big Sal Cranium - Bully Awareness

Big Sal Cranium - Bully Awareness This is an anti-bullying awareness Page. The name used is a nickname/alias and does not represent a real individual.

This Page is for education, commentary, and advocacy only.

Stephanie Barkley says, "But that's proof enough that it's a scam."I have to disagree. In my opinion, asking people to d...
06/03/2026

Stephanie Barkley says, "But that's proof enough that it's a scam."

I have to disagree. In my opinion, asking people to donate anonymously is not proof of a scam. Asking people to protect their privacy is simply common sense when there are individuals openly discussing donor information and documenting who gave what.

The real question is: Why would anyone be concerned with tracking donors in the first place?

Stephanie even asked, "Because they fear that people will contact family members of the elderly that have donated to the scam?" To me, this is another manipulation tactic. By framing the question that way, she is planting ideas in her followers' minds and encouraging them to think along a specific path.

So yes, I am concerned for those who have donated. Not because I know anyone will be contacted, but because no donor should have to worry about their name, their family, or their personal affairs becoming the subject of online discussion. No one—and I mean no one—should be harassed over a donation they voluntarily made.

By suggesting anonymous donations, we are trying to protect people from unwanted attention, criticism, harassment, or having their personal information become the next topic of conversation. Adults have the right to make their own financial decisions without worrying about being singled out online.

What I find concerning is how quickly protecting someone's privacy is being twisted into "proof" of wrongdoing. That kind of thinking can be used to manipulate people into believing a narrative without asking questions or considering alternative explanations.

In my opinion, what Stephanie is also doing here is attempting to be intimidating. Statements like these can send the message that if someone donates, they may find themselves being discussed, scrutinized, or having their information tracked. That can discourage people from exercising their own free will and making their own choices.

If someone chooses to donate, that is their choice. If someone chooses not to donate, that is their choice as well. But no one should feel pressured, intimidated, monitored, or targeted for making a personal decision.

Privacy is not proof of a scam. Sometimes privacy is simply protection from people who refuse to respect boundaries.

I am not going to discuss the donation situation yet, or maybe ever. However, I do want to share some words of wisdom fr...
06/03/2026

I am not going to discuss the donation situation yet, or maybe ever. However, I do want to share some words of wisdom from my friend Rose:

IF YOU CHOOSE TO DONATE, PLEASE DO SO ANONYMOUSLY.

One thing that caught my attention is that Stephanie has publicly stated that she is documenting donation information. That raises a lot of questions. What information is being documented? Donation amounts? Donor names? Social media profiles? Other publicly available information? I honestly don't know, and that's exactly why people should be cautious about protecting their privacy online.

We all know how much information can be gathered from a social media profile in just a few minutes. That alone should be enough reason for people to think carefully about what information they choose to make public.

While I personally do not feel the need to donate to anyone on the internet, that is my choice. I do not believe it is my place to pressure others into making the same decision. Adults are capable of deciding for themselves how they spend their money.

What I find interesting is that some of the same people who spend countless hours accusing the baker of being a scammer are now collecting and documenting information about donors. Why? What is the purpose? What legitimate reason is there for keeping records on people who voluntarily choose to donate their own money?

Those are fair questions that deserve answers.

No matter where you stand on this situation, protect yourself. Protect your privacy. If you choose to donate, doing so anonymously may be the wisest option. Do not allow yourself to be pressured, intimidated, or manipulated by anyone on either side of social media drama. Think for yourself, ask questions, and make your own decisions.

06/01/2026

The mentality of the hive and Fraud Awareness has become very clear over time. These groups do not simply disagree with the baker and move on. Instead, they have become emotionally invested in tearing her down. Many of them spend countless hours watching, reposting, criticizing, mocking, and searching for anything they can use as ammunition against the baker and her family.

At this point, it seems less about accountability and more about obsession. When people become consumed with hate, they stop thinking rationally and begin operating off emotion, anger, and groupthink. That is why we constantly see the same behavior repeated over and over: dogpiling, body shaming, mocking illness, involving innocent children, encouraging calls and reports, and trying to publicly humiliate someone at every opportunity.

The hive mentality especially creates an environment where people stop thinking for themselves. Instead of looking at facts objectively, many simply follow whatever narrative is being pushed by the queen bee or Fraud Awareness. The more hateful the post, the more validation they seem to receive from each other. It becomes less about truth and more about belonging to the group and participating in the bullying.

One of the saddest parts is how dehumanizing the behavior has become. The baker is treated less like a real person and more like entertainment for angry people online. When a group becomes comfortable mocking someone’s appearance, family, health, parenting, or painful life situations, it shows just how much hatred has clouded their judgment.

Healthy and emotionally secure people usually do not dedicate large portions of their lives to obsessing over hurting strangers online. People who are truly happy do not build communities centered around negativity, humiliation, and harassment.

This page is not about pretending the baker is perfect. It is about bringing awareness to the mentality and behavior of online bullies. The hive and Fraud Awareness continue to provide example after example of how groupthink, obsession, and hatred can completely consume people and push them into cruel behavior they justify as “awareness.”

I read this comment and immediately wanted to get furious. But after a bike ride on the beach to clear my mind, I decide...
06/01/2026

I read this comment and immediately wanted to get furious. But after a bike ride on the beach to clear my mind, I decided there was a higher road I wanted to travel with this one.

I have to ask, what has happened to this lady to make her act this way? While her actions do not need to be excused, what makes someone so full of hate? To call someone the names she is calling the baker and to hope another person rots in hell, I find very disturbing.

I wanted to blast this woman with the same hate she is showing here, but then I looked at her profile and immediately felt sadness for her. How lonely and miserable it must be to live in that much anger and bitterness. Life is not always fair, but that does not give us an excuse to become cruel and evil toward others.

But like I said, let’s not excuse her behavior, because she definitely is not capable of excusing anyone else’s behavior.

This is a perfect example of what we are fighting against on this page and why bully awareness matters. This lady’s behavior is very typical of many hive and Fraud Awareness members. They think with anger, bully, body shame, pick on innocent children, condemn others, and spend countless hours searching for any ammunition they can use in their war to bully.

The bullies also like to call for wellness checks on the baker’s child, yet this is a great example of the kind of hateful and concerning behavior that truly deserves attention. Maybe someone should routinely check on this lady for the sake of her mental health, because normal, emotionally healthy people do not obsess over strangers this way or spend their time wishing suffering and hell on others. At some point behavior like this makes you wonder if a person could possibly become a danger to themselves or others if that much hate is allowed to consume them.

That behavior is not right, and it is definitely not excusable. At some point people need to stop letting hatred control their minds and start remembering there are real human beings on the other side of the screen.

Fraud Awareness has once again proven their competence for running an “awareness” page. A quick Google search could have...
05/31/2026

Fraud Awareness has once again proven their competence for running an “awareness” page. A quick Google search could have helped them understand the difference between “Author” and “by Author.” This is a prime example of thinking before you speak.

As an awareness page, you should post facts and let others form opinions based on those facts. Instead, this group continues to prove it is nothing more than the hive rebranded, created for the purpose of bullying the baker.

I am actually going to thank the Fraud Awareness page for making my posts easier today. I know who both of these ladies are that they are talking about, and I can say knowing the FACTS that they are two different people.

I do not have to twist narratives or encourage others to dogpile on the baker over profiles and speculation. I simply state facts and let people think for themselves.

When you are so full of hatred, you can allow that hatred to control your mind. Bad intentions do not make good decisions, and this is a perfect example of that.

The people who jump on the bandwagon without even knowing the truth are showing a mindless groupthink mentality. Instead of thinking for themselves and looking into facts, they simply follow along with whatever narrative is being pushed because hate and bullying have become more important to them than truth.

Let me correct the crime he was sentenced for, because I previously used the wrong term. Under Kentucky law, wanton murd...
05/31/2026

Let me correct the crime he was sentenced for, because I previously used the wrong term. Under Kentucky law, wanton murder refers to actions showing an extreme indifference to human life. In cases involving drunk driving fatalities, the courts recognize the devastating harm caused not only to the victims who lost their lives, but also to the families left behind to grieve forever.

And no matter how anyone chooses to label the crime, it was still committed and it was still wrong. Nothing about discussing compassion, forgiveness, or the emotional impact on families changes that fact.

No one should ever minimize that pain. The victims in Lester Cook’s case mattered. Their families mattered. Their lives were permanently changed by tragedy, and that sadness will always exist.

At the same time, people also need to recognize that punishment extends far beyond a courtroom sentence. Lester Cook has spent roughly 25 years of his life in prison. The majority of his life has been spent behind bars reflecting on the consequences of his actions. His own family has also suffered emotionally for decades. Relationships were lost, years disappeared, and entire generations of family connection were missed.

Some people may feel that no amount of prison time could ever be enough, while others may believe that after 25 years, an aging man whose life is essentially nearing its end has paid heavily for his mistakes. Both opinions exist, and people are entitled to them.

What should never happen, however, is innocent family members being bullied, harassed, and publicly targeted over crimes they did not commit. No one has the right to dogpile a family online, weaponize a tragedy, or encourage harassment in the name of “justice.”

In reality, behavior like that only creates more pain for everyone involved — including the victims’ families who may also be forced to relive heartbreaking memories over and over again. Compassion, humanity, and respect should still matter even in tragic situations like this.

Let’s flip the script for a moment, because no one is trying to diminish the crime Lester Cook committed. The victims an...
05/30/2026

Let’s flip the script for a moment, because no one is trying to diminish the crime Lester Cook committed. The victims and their families suffered unimaginable loss, and their lives were forever changed by the actions of a drunk driver. Nothing can erase that pain, and nothing should minimize it.

But acknowledging the tragedy for the victims should not automatically turn into hatred and bullying toward people who did not commit the crime themselves. Two things can be true at the same time: compassion for the victims and compassion for innocent family members left carrying the emotional aftermath.

This is not about pretending the crime did not happen. It is about recognizing that tragedy spreads far beyond one single moment. Victims suffer. Families suffer. Children suffer. Entire lives are altered forever on every side of a situation like this.

The problem comes when people stop caring about justice and start focusing on cruelty. When online groups begin targeting someone’s daughter, encouraging harassment, or trying to publicly shame people who had no control over the crime, it stops being about victims and starts becoming about bullying.

Encouraging large groups of strangers to write letters to a parole board or make calls about a situation they are emotionally dogpiling only adds more sadness and stress for everyone involved. It does not heal victims, and it does not bring peace to either family. In many ways, it only complicates an already emotional and difficult process.

There is enough sadness attached to this situation already. More hate will never heal it.

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