Messy on Purpose

Messy on Purpose Welcome to Messy on Purpose! �� Forget perfect. Messy on Purpose is about doing life and business unapologetically—mess and all.

Hosted by Fylisha Kruse, this podcast brings you candid conversations with entrepreneurs, leaders, and everyday people who are choosing growth, owning their stories, and finding purpose in the chaos.

09/17/2026

**Some phone calls absolutely could've been a text.**

But some conversations absolutely **shouldn't be.**

We've gotten so used to communicating through screens that sometimes we forget how powerful it can be to simply hear someone's voice.

Especially when somebody is going through something.

A thoughtful text matters. Checking in matters. But sometimes what someone really needs is an actual conversation—not another notification.

Here's your reminder:

**Don't let convenience make you bad at connection.**

Call your people.

Check on the friend who's been a little quiet.

Have the conversation that deserves more than three sentences and an emoji.

You never really know what someone is carrying, and a few minutes of genuine human connection might mean more than you realize.

Sometimes the answer to *“Why are we making communication so hard?”* is pretty simple:

**Pick up the damn phone.** ❤️📲

🎙️ **The Weekly WTF #14: 📲 Why Are We Making Communication So Hard?**

09/16/2026

**Excitement will get you started. Your WHY is what keeps you going.**

Inspiration feels incredible.

A new idea hits. You're fired up. You can't stop thinking about it. You're ready to go all in.

But eventually that feeling fades.

It always does.

And that's when you need something deeper than *“I'm excited about this.”*

You need to know:

**Why does this actually matter to me?**

Because when it gets boring, difficult, frustrating, or the results aren't coming fast enough, your why becomes the reason you keep showing up.

Here's your reminder:

**Don't build your goals on feelings that were never meant to last.**

Enjoy the motivation when it's there.

Use the inspiration when it hits.

But dig deeper and find the reason you'll still care when neither one shows up.

**If you want something strong enough to survive the hard days, you better know WHY you're fighting for it.** ❤️‍🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/16/2026

**A bad day does not mean you're on the wrong path.**

Sometimes you don't want to go to the gym.

You don't want to make the phone calls.

You don't want to work.

You don't want to keep showing up for the thing you swore you wanted.

Welcome to being human. 😂

The mistake is taking one s**tty day and turning it into a reason to question the entire direction of your life.

Sometimes you don't need to quit.

You need to rest.

Redirect.

Change your approach.

Do more of what actually moves the needle.

And then **keep fu***ng going.**

Here's your reminder:

**You don't have to feel motivated every day to stay committed to where you're going.**

Give yourself permission to have the bad day without making a permanent decision because of a temporary feeling.

Adjust when you need to.

Learn when you need to.

But don't give up on something you genuinely want just because today was hard. ❤️‍🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/16/2026

Sometimes your ego has a hard time accepting where you are because it remembers where you **used to be.**

The bigger project.

The bigger opportunity.

The bigger audience.

The version of you that felt further ahead.

But moving differently today doesn't mean you've moved backward.

Sometimes growth is being able to look at your life and say:

**“Here's where I am right now—and that's okay.”**

Here's your reminder:

Stop letting your past accomplishments make your current season feel insignificant.

Do the work in front of you.

Finish the thing.

Put it out into the world.

Let people judge it.

Let yourself be a beginner again if that's what it takes.

**Your ego wants you to protect the old version of yourself. Growth asks you to build the next one.** 🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/16/2026

Comparison will have you questioning your entire life based on someone else's highlight reel.

“Why are they further ahead?”

“Why did they get the opportunity?”

“Why not me?”

But you don't know their full story.

You don't know how long they've been working.

How many times they've failed.

Who they met along the way.

What they've sacrificed.

And most importantly, **their timeline has absolutely nothing to do with yours.**

Here's your reminder:

**Stop measuring your potential by someone else's progress.**

Talent means nothing if you don't use it.

Potential means nothing if you don't work for it.

So instead of spending your energy watching someone else win, put that energy into becoming the person capable of creating your own win.

Work your ass off.

Feed your purpose.

Stay on your path.

And remember: **a bad season doesn't automatically mean you're on the wrong road.** 🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/16/2026

Ever notice how life keeps handing you the **same lesson in different packaging** until you finally learn it? 😅

Different person.

Different situation.

Different season.

Same damn problem.

The hard seasons can feel like you're being tested—and maybe the real test is whether you're finally willing to respond differently.

Here's your reminder:

**Stop asking only, “Why is this happening to me?” and start asking, “What is this trying to teach me?”**

Look for the pattern.

Own your part.

Change your response.

Take the lesson with you so you don't have to keep repeating the class.

You can't control every hard thing life throws at you.

**But you CAN make sure you don't walk away from it without growing.** 🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/16/2026

Sometimes the mistake isn't doing something badly.

It's saying **yes to something you never should've said yes to in the first place.**

Not because the people were wrong.

Not because the opportunity was bad.

But because it didn't mean anything to YOU.

And when your heart isn't in something, eventually it shows.

Here's your reminder:

**Your time is your life. Spend it accordingly.**

You don't know how much of it you get.

Stop filling it with obligations, projects, relationships, and expectations that don't align with the person you're trying to become.

Say no when you need to.

Make room for what matters.

And when something DOES matter to you?

**Go full fu***ng force.** 🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/15/2026

It's really easy to spend years building a life around **what you think you're supposed to want.**

The work you're supposed to do.

The things you're supposed to create.

The version of yourself you think other people will understand or approve of.

And you can even be successful doing it…while still feeling completely disconnected from it.

Sometimes that lack of excitement isn't laziness.

**Sometimes it's a sign that you're creating for everyone except yourself.**

Here's your reminder:

Pay attention to what feels meaningful to **you.**

Not what looks impressive.

Not what makes the most sense to everyone else.

Not what you've always done just because you've always done it.

You get one life. Make sure at least some of it has **your fingerprints all over it.**

**Stop building who you think you're supposed to be and start becoming who you actually are.** ❤️‍🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/15/2026

Life has a way of convincing you that **where you are is who you are.**

You get older. Plans don't happen on the timeline you imagined. Life hits you a few times. And some of that wonder you had when you were younger starts disappearing.

But your circumstances are not your identity.

And the hard s**t you've been through doesn't have to make you bitter—it can make you **resilient.**

Here's your reminder:

**You get stronger by doing hard things, not avoiding them.**

Every time life knocks you down and you choose to get back up, you're building proof that you can handle the next thing too.

Don't lose your sense of possibility because life hasn't looked exactly how you imagined it would.

Find the wonder again.

Keep pushing.

Keep becoming harder to break.

**Your struggles may have shaped you, but you still get to decide who they shape you into.** ❤️‍🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

09/15/2026

There is no magical mountaintop where suddenly you've figured everything out.

No moment where you finally arrive, hit the Superman pose, and think:

**“Yep. I'm done growing now.”** 😂

Life doesn't work that way.

You heal something and uncover something else.

You accomplish one goal and start questioning what's next.

You become more confident while still having days when you wonder if you're worthy of the life you're building.

Here's your reminder:

**You don't have to become some perfectly healed, completely confident version of yourself before you're worthy of a good life.**

Keep doing the deep work.

Keep learning yourself.

Keep growing through the things that challenge you.

But don't spend your entire life waiting for some imaginary version of yourself to finally be “enough.”

**There is no mountaintop. There's just the next step. Take it.** ❤️‍🔥

🎙️ ** #99: 😈 Fight Your Inner Bitch Voice**

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