09/15/2026
๐๐ค๐ข๐๐ฉ๐๐ข๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐๐ก๐๐ข ๐๐จ๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐ค๐ง๐จ๐.
Itโs you.
Horses are mirrors. They are a direct reflection of what weโre feeling, what weโre thinking, and what weโre doing in the saddle.
If Iโm nervous, my horse feels it.
If Iโm bracing, my horse feels it.
If Iโm looking at the barrel, my horse knows exactly where Iโm asking them to go.
And then we get mad at the horse.
I watch people brace for a turn all the time. Theyโve hit that barrel enough times that they can already feel their kneecap getting sliced, so they brace for impact instead of sitting down and riding their horse through the turn to their spots.
Now the horse braces too.
They get stiff through the rib cage, lose their shape, and either hit the barrel or pull off it wide.
Or someone looks directly at the barrel and their horse takes their chest straight to it.
You canโt be mad at your horse for doing exactly what your body told them to do.
You didnโt say it out loud.
But your body language did.
I see it with nervous kids all the time. The kid gets nervous, the horse gets hot, the kid gets tighter, the horse gets hotterโฆ and now theyโre feeding off each other.
Then someone else gets on the same horse and suddenly that horse walks around like itโs on a trail ride.
The horse didnโt magically change.
The rider did.
When my students look down while riding, I always ask:
โDo you want to go down there?โ
โNo.โ
โThen look where you want to go.โ
It really can be that simple.
Your horse is constantly reading you: your hands, your seat, your eyes, your shoulders, your tension, your confidence.
So before you blame the horse, ask yourself:
What am I telling them?
Because sometimes your horse isnโt the problem.
๐๐๐๐ฎโ๐ง๐ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ง๐ง๐ค๐ง.