04/22/2025
This is something I’ve been ruminating on for a long time — and it isn’t set in stone. This conversation is one I’ve been having with dear friends and loved ones for a long time — it’s an active conversation and I am interested in hearing what you have to say.
In the last years, I have more and more watched solidarity be thrown to the wayside and experienced harassment and shaming from so many members of my Jewish community with the claim that “you need to care about your own” when I post about immigrant rights, solidarity with other marginalized groups, and of course, solidarity with Palestinians…
This idea of ‘betraying my community” by standing in solidarity with other oppressed peoples forgets that my communities are expansive: I am the child of immigrants. My partner is the child of immigrants frequently and constantly targeted by ICE. I am chronically ill; I am neurodivergent; I am q***r; our identities are so much more; we are so much more.
�And this isn’t to say that I face the struggles of every community or that I am in every community; of course not. I am part of many communities and in order to take care of every member, I must be vigilant against the threats they face.
I am constantly thinking of James Baldwin & his words, “The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this may be incapable of morality.”
I think to the private messages people send me in response to me sharing the news of children murdered by the IDF (in Gaza, the West Bank, on the holy soil of Jerusalem) $ know that morality has fled their hearts. I think of how you disdain my heartbreak for the child of immigrants who took her own life because of bullying regarding ICE and know that you have taken in the ideology of oppression into your heart & made it your own.
I am devastated, but I will not lose hope. Even if you took in the rhetoric of “circling the wagon and only protecting your own”, you can let it go as you expand to remember that our communities are forever intertwined: and so is our liberation.