10/16/2026
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My daughter turns eleven in about six weeks, and she has been pleading with us for a Nintendo Switch. Due to her dropping grades and poor attitude, my husband and I decided we won't get it for her. Money isn't the issue at all; it is her ongoing unacceptable behavior.
She acts exceptionally entitled on a daily basis, and she's lying left and right about mundane things. I just don't feel this is an appropriate time to reward her with a new gaming console. We have been trying to correct this trajectory, but she continues to push our boundaries.
The main incident happened on Easter when we visited my husband’s aunt and uncle at their house. They have two adult children, and one of them is mentally delayed, whom I'll refer to as Cousin. She functions at roughly a ten-year-old level despite being in her early forties.
Cousin lives in an assisted living apartment, and she maintains a job where she gets paid around five dollars weekly. Because of this limited income, she doesn't get many upscale items unless they are given as a gift. She treasures the few nice possessions she manages to acquire.
Recently, Cousin saved up her small earnings for a long time to buy an old Gameboy. She brought it along for Easter and was happily playing it while we were visiting the relatives. Eventually, she set the device down on a table and joined us for a board game.
Meanwhile, all the kids were running around the house playing their own games and burning off energy. This is exactly where the afternoon went sideways and the situation took a horrible turn. My kid decided to make a terrible choice and grabbed the unguarded Gameboy when nobody was looking.
She snuck the stolen device out of the house by asking if she could go out to our car. She claimed she needed to look for a book she had brought for the ride. Once outside, she stashed the Gameboy securely in the glove box of our vehicle.
She proceeded