Dear Abby

Dear Abby, In response to your letter to "Snoring and CPAP keep couple up at night." I'd like to share our experience. My husband uses a CPAP. It has created more restful nights for both of us. If his mask is on properly, no leaks can be heard. If leaks are heard all he has to do is move his mask a bit. I just touch him and tell him he's leaking. Problem solved. The pulmonologist needs to be consulted for dealing with the issues. Clarksville, TN

My mother is in the care of hospice. I am putting together photos from her life in a video to be shown at her funeral. My brother thinks she should see it while alive. I'm not sure that's a good idea...I think it may make her very sad knowing she is dying. What do you think? Thank you.

In today's paper was an article about stacking your dishes at the restaurant table as you finish your meal. My family has done this all our lives. And lately even had some of the waiters/waitresses thank us. It makes their life easier, they don't have to take the time to restack dishes to clear them.

Why do I need an account and password to write to Dear Abby? Going to dearabby.com doesn't seem to work. I wanted to comment on questions in the Midwest about taking shoes off.

If it's ILLEGAL for employers to ask, what makes YOU think its obligatory to be asked? Don't go out to eat, move out of state, stay home forever. People do not need to live in fear constantly. Why should people who've had covid get a DNA jab? This topic is dividing & turning people into Nazi's. Celebrities like you need to stay focused.

In response to putting dog p**p in my garbage can: When my garbage is picked up twice a week, the garbage collectors just take out the large white kitchen garbage bags. The container is not dumped. When the owners leave their dog p**p it remains in their small bag at the bottom of the pail. The garbage pail is returned to my garage and I am left to deal with the little bundle of p**p marinating in the garbage container in my garage.

The recent column where the man complained about his friend being so rude he was loosing friends, the person being complained about sounds like a high functioning autistic(Aspergers). Please take some time to research it, very interesting

And of course there's Peeping Tom. Jay is not the sharpest crayon in any box.

Start October off with a mind freak by reading this new crime thriller. It's sure to seep into your dreams at night. Photography has never been more dangerous.

Dear Abby My daughter hasn't been in our home going on 3 years. She only came on Christmas before then. She only wants to meet out in a restaurant for us to buy her lunch and usually just on birthdays. Her Dad recently had surgery and she idn't even call him. When I let her know he was having surgery she asked me to let her know how it went. I did and she has only messaged me once in 3 weeks to ask about him. She is always posting about how she is doing all these things for older clients she cleans for. My husband and I are both disabled and I could have used some support/help. We are in our sixties. She is the only child and I am disappointed and hurt. She is in her late 40's. She was raised where we always visited my mother and had her over for dinner often and hosted holidays. We also visited my Grandmother regularly. We were close with my husband's family and saw them frequently. She has shut me out of her life several times for months, for really minor things. Example: I told the grandkids about some kids teasing her in school. Can you please give some insight on this situation? Her kids are grown and also have nothing to do with us. When they were small they spent the weekends with us frequently and we helped her financially with them. We are at a lost...

So sad...

I read Dear Abby everyday I want to ask you for advice when I go to dearabby.com it sends me somewhere else and doesn't give me any way to do that what the heck is going on here so how did people actually communicate with you or do you just make stuff up