06/11/2026
In March 2006, Mary Winkler shot and killed her husband Matthew, a minister at the Fourth Street Church of Christ in Selmer, Tennessee, then drove away with her three daughters before she was arrested. Within days, the story was the preacher's wife who had killed a man of God.
Matthew Winkler was mourned publicly as a respected church leader. That framing arrived fast and it held. What Mary had described inside that marriage, the physical control, the emotional punishment, the sexual abuse, did not fit the image the community had of him, and so for a time it was treated as secondary.
At her 2007 trial she testified to what the marriage had actually been. The jury heard her account and returned a verdict of voluntary manslaughter, not murder. That distinction mattered. It meant they credited her.
She served only months in confinement. She then fought a separate civil case against her husband's parents to regain custody of her children, and she won that too.
The scrutiny she carried was specific: she had shot a preacher husband, and the public had already decided what that meant. The jury sat with the actual evidence. Two hundred million people did not have to.
They needed someone to blame.