06/24/2026
Teen's Sharp Words Expose Family Divide, Sparks Homeschooling Debate
Backstory: my mom died when I (14f) was little. She had been sick for a while and before she died she set everything up so I would go to her best friend, Katie. My uncle, Nick, fought for custody of me after my mom died because he thought I should be with family. Katie has custody of me and adopted me but I spend one weekend a month with Nick and his family, although lately it’s been a little less because of competitions. The visits to Nicks house aren’t court ordered Katie just wants me to have a connection with my bio family
Nick and Katie are very different parents. Katie and her husband are both doctors. Nick is a cop and his wife is a preschool teacher.
I’ve been in private school my entire life and my school is 1-2 years ahead of the local public schools, which are also some of the best in the area and are ahead of the public schools in other areas. Nick and his wife homeschool their kids (10, 14, 16), mostly for political reasons.
I do competitive cheerleading through my school and I do competitive dance through a studio. I also play piano I used to do clarinet but I just quit to have more time for cheer. Nicks kids go to church youth group and youth choir and don’t do any other activities. Katie also makes me earn my allowance. I have to work and she’ll match whatever I make at the end of the month and Nick just gives his kids money whenever.
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