Focus on the Family
"Instead of intimidating all your daughter’s potential suitors, raise a daughter who intimidates them just fine on her own.
Because you know what’s intimidating? Strength and dignity. Deep faith. Self-assuredness. Wisdom. Kindness. Humility. Industriousness. Those are the bricks that build the wall that withstands the advances of Slouchy-Pants, whether you ever show up with your Winchester locked and loaded or not.
The unsuitable suitor finds nothing more terrifying than a woman who knows her worth to God and to her family."