05/11/2026
Some things should never be rushed past.
Things like grief, loss...
And burying a child.
There are words people reach for in moments like that—
easy ones, tidy ones, the kind that try to wrap suffering up too quickly.
“Just move on.”
“Everything happens for a reason.”
But the people who are actually helpful in those seasons?
They don’t try to fix it.
They sit.
They listen.
They stay.
They understand that love this deep leaves a silence that words can’t fill.
Sometimes the most faithful thing you can do is not speak at all—but to weep with those who weep.
This conversation reminds us what real presence looks like.
Listen to the full episode of the Plain Values Podcast wherever you get your podcasts.
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