06/22/2025
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At we touch on some topics that tend to go unaddressed. This is one! YES! MEN ARE EMOTIONAL, BUT MOST JUST DON’T FEEL COMFORTABLE EXPRESSING THOSE EMOTIONS. Men need emotional intimacy too!
Let's TALK about a MISCONCEPTION!... and that is MEN AREN'T EMOTIONAL. That's far from the TRUTH! The REAL TRUTH... is that MEN AREN'T COMFORTABLE expressing or sharing their emotions, thoughts and feelings – especially in the climate of social media.
Imagine a woman being in the “mood” and the man says.... “baby, can you just hold me?” or “can we just cuddle up?”. Best believe her eyebrow is going up and probably some suspicions. let it go more than one day. It's thunderbolts and lightning about to flash! (Men are EPECTED to ALWAYS be in the mood - pretty much!) It can just be a lot that he's carrying... and he never knew it's perfectly ok - to put that weight down.
You don't really hear men wanting or NEEDING this type of space... but yes they do NEED it sometimes. No, this isn't a battle of the sexes post. (Others do enough of that). This post is about getting women to process – a little differently. Understand and really embrace - that he has some feelings, emotions and needs he may not be sharing.
Most of the time when there's a relationship that seems as if it's taking too long to get to that next level, it's pretty much a given that the man is wrong, dragging or even wasting the woman's time... when actually what's happening is – the man is being patient. Yes! I said it! YES LADIES... the problem really could be you! Have you considered that? He's actually waiting on HER to become better, make some improvements... or to date him more. Ouch! Never heard that right???
MEN ALSO WANT TO BE DATED... MORE! They just don't say it. That could be reflected in the woman... “making sure he knows he's appreciated (not just with s-e-x), giving him compliments, having more engaging conversation about what he has going on (not just how was your day today, but see if he's reaching his individual goals), have some spontaneity, be flirty... overall – make sure you're dating him... THE WAY HE WANTS TO BE DATED. (This is probably where the posts will feature words like “sassy” or something of that nature).
Here's the problem that THE MEN HAVE! They don't like expressing their emotional needs! It doesn't feel good. A lot of times it doesn't sound good. So what happens??? That man ends up sharing those thoughts and feelings with ANOTHER WOMAN.. (because it's easier for him, but shouldn't be)... then a connection begins. Most men don't cheat because they are just “dogs” or looking for new “va-jay-jay”... it's the filling of a void, one that should be resolved “in-house”.
I did a survey of 20 women that had been involved with a man that had a woman already. I asked the question... “did the guy just came out wanting to get with you or was the connection stemming from a real, organic, friendly conversation. Guess the answer. It came from the latter – A FRIENDLY CONVERSATION! No, I am not condoning that action nor excusing it... I am just sharing what really happens – far too often. If you can get to the space where your man can be open, honest and free to express himself... LADIES... you will have reached RELATIONSHIP HEAVEN!
Now what you do with this info is on you!
Are you open to hearing from your person... and does he know that you are?
