10/21/2025
This past weekend I buried my dad and even during it were moments God highlighted for me of peace in the midst of some of the chaos.
Silent whispers of the saying “This too shall pass”
And, “let the weak say, I’m strong,” echoed down in my spirit as once again, life was lifing again for me.
Because I am private person with my personal life I felt myself from time to time withdrawing and then suddenly I felt in my spirit God say no, not this time.
He said that there are so many other prophetic people and women just like yourself with great callings and anointings that are going through the same thing and show u p for everyone else as if they aren’t bleeding. But, not this time.
Sitting here today having to lose both parents five months apart could be tough, however, within me, I feel the energy to still choose to think of others and the prophetic calling that is on my life.
How many times have you decided to block out your feelings just to stay busy and never deal with your own challenges?
I believe that there are too many prophetic leaders and women that doesn't show this side enough of vulnerability to others and it can hinder that deeper connection with others.
Yesterday, I decided to do so.
I opened up my private time from my background to the world and I showed them how I was picking back up the broken pieces to my life by taking one of my dad’s casket sprays and creating some more beautiful things out of it to look at.
It brought me peace, comfort, and a time to reflect on the goodness of God and his blessings for giving me such great parents.
I felt my strength rise and it gave me a whole new revelation on how to find purpose even in my pain.
I pulled out old journals that I created that’s on Amazon and the title words on them spoke back to me saying, “Count your blessings for God is good, She’s still here because God kept her, Her pain became her power, She declares it and it is so, and Trouble don’t last always!”
Little did I know at that moment God was using again creativity made from out of pain to remind me that I’m just passing through and I will tell this story too in victory.
Grief is different for everyone however when you are chosen by God you understand that it’s part of life and that if your loved one died in Christ they aren’t dead but alive in heaven and you shall see them again.
5 Ways How Prophetic Women Leaders Grieve:
1. They cry and mourn but they know that joy comes in the morning.
2. Draw near and closer to God through meditation, spending time alone with God, and prayer.
3. Being around others who are going through with you by being each other's support system.
4. Choose not to isolate yourself for this can be the devil’s playground to mess with your head and keep you stuck in mourning leading to depression which is a slick way of robbing you of your purpose and destiny.
5. Journal your thoughts. Spend time writing it’s therapeutic and brings healing to your soul.
6. Go for walks in the sun, park, or around the neighborhood. Stay connected to society.
7. Read your Bible for in it are tons and tons of passages of casting your cares unto the Lord, angels helping you during this time, prayers, prophetic declarations, and the holy spirit comforting you in every area where you hurt.
Kingdom woman remember you can find triumph in tragedy, purpose in your pain, testimonies out of your tears, and new beginnings in life when old ones end.
Today what will be your grief-to-greatness story?
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