Marshaun Olaniyan

Marshaun Olaniyan Shift Relationship Strategist - Helping professional Black women relax boss mode and embrace love with ease - without losing their power.

How grateful are you on a daily basis?Research shows showing gratitude increases happiness and life satisfaction, reduce...
09/03/2025

How grateful are you on a daily basis?

Research shows showing gratitude increases happiness and life satisfaction, reduces negative emotions & boosts resilience!

The question is: What are you grateful for?

Check out my article this month to take a deeper dive into gratitude.

This article is a powerful reminder for high-achieving Black women that gratitude isn’t just a feel-good habit—it’s a transformative tool for emotional clarity, relationship healing, and personal growth. Through real client stories and personal reflection, it explores how shifting from negativ...

08/20/2025

What happens when two ex-partners sit down to have the conversation most people only dream about?

In this candid and unfiltered discussion, my ex-husband and I open up about our 9-year relationship (7 of them married) — the love we shared, the loss we experienced, and the lessons we learned along the way.

This isn’t about blame, shame, or finger-pointing. It’s about:
� Telling the truth about why our marriage ended
� How we processed love and loss differently
� What accountability looks like after divorce
� The lessons we wish we had learned sooner
� Why it’s okay to walk away without hate
� How to find closure through honest conversation

Whether you’ve experienced divorce, separation, or the quiet unraveling of a long-term relationship, this video is for you. It’s proof that healing and growth are possible, even when the relationship itself doesn’t last.

Stay tuned until the end — we also answer audience questions about love, healing, and moving forward after divorce.

� If you’ve ever wished you could have “that one conversation” with your ex, this is the space for you.

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Join myself, Relationship Coach Marshaun Olaniyan and Leadership Coach,  Candice Miles for a real, relatable conversatio...
07/03/2025

Join myself, Relationship Coach Marshaun Olaniyan and Leadership Coach, Candice Miles for a real, relatable conversation on how ambitious Black women can dominate in the boardroom and soften in their love life.

We’ll unpack what keeps you stuck in “Boss Mode” even after hours, how that impacts your relationships, and simple shifts to help you embrace your feminine energy without losing your power. It’s time to know when — and how — to switch gears.

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I used to explain my “no” too much.I used to think I had to be less to be loved.Now?I say “no” with no guilt.I say “yes”...
06/15/2025

I used to explain my “no” too much.
I used to think I had to be less to be loved.

Now?
I say “no” with no guilt.
I say “yes” with my chest.
And I know that the right love doesn’t ask me to shrink—it meets the real me where I am.

This is for the woman who leads by day and craves real connection by night.
You don’t have to choose between being powerful and being loved. You just have to be you. 💼❤️

📢 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: We’re Going LIVE in San Diego, CA! I’m SO excited to finally share something special we’ve been work...
05/28/2025

📢 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: We’re Going LIVE in San Diego, CA!
I’m SO excited to finally share something special we’ve been working on behind the scenes...

Sis, introducing the Workshop Series You Didn’t Know You Needed... Until Now.

🔥 Powerful at Work, Soft in Love 🔥

Powerful at Work, Soft in Love is not just a cute concept—it’s a transformational experience for professional Black women who are done choosing between success and softness.

Because let’s be real...

“Dating isn’t a game. It’s a reflection of your healing, your standards, and your strategy.” – Marshaun Olaniyan

“Leadership’s a roadtrip, not a race. Your identity will always be your GPS—so don’t let folks reroute you.” – Coach C

These two truths are at the heart of what we’re bringing you.
This workshop series is where career-driven women learn how to:
* Lead boldly without losing their sense of self.
* Love deeply without shrinking or hardening.
* Balance softness with strength in every space they enter.

You’ve mastered your career. Now, it’s time to feel just as powerful—and safe—in your romantic relationships.

In this series, we’ll guide you in how to:
*Reconnect with your feminine energy without compromising your leadership.
*Heal from outdated relationship patterns that no longer serve you.
*Date with clarity, confidence, and emotional intelligence.
*Own your identity without apology—in love and life.

This is your permission slip to be all of you: ambitious, soft, smart, sensual, and in control of your vision.

📌 Details are dropping soon
🎯 Click the link to be the first to know & get early access → bit.ly/powerfulandlove

💍 What does commitment mean to you? Our final conversation in this series is about views on commitment and marriage. It’...
08/09/2024

💍 What does commitment mean to you?

Our final conversation in this series is about views on commitment and marriage.

It’s essential to discuss your views on commitment and marriage early in the relationship. Ask questions like, “What does commitment mean to you?” or “How do you envision your future when it comes to marriage and family?”

Understanding each other’s vision for the future is key. 💕

🎯 Aligning career and life goals is essential for a harmonious future. To avoid having resentment in your heart, it’s im...
08/08/2024

🎯 Aligning career and life goals is essential for a harmonious future.

To avoid having resentment in your heart, it’s important to have a conversation about your career aspirations and life goals early on.

Ask questions like, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” or “What are your priorities when it comes to work and life balance?”

Have this conversation with your partner to ensure you’re moving in the same direction.

👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏾 Family dynamics can make or break a relationship. How many questions have you asked regarding how involved your...
08/07/2024

👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏾 Family dynamics can make or break a relationship.

How many questions have you asked regarding how involved your partner's family members are/ will be? Will mom be his top priority or you? Is it expected that you attend every function when you like your me time? Who does he need to ask before making a decision?

Discuss your partner’s family expectations early on. Ask about their traditions and how they see you fitting in. It can help you prepare for what’s to come and set healthy boundaries.

💸 Money matters! Our second crucial conversation is about Financial Transparency. Trust me, it’s better to discuss finan...
08/06/2024

💸 Money matters! Our second crucial conversation is about Financial Transparency.

Trust me, it’s better to discuss financial habits and debts upfront. I remember my client Keisha, discovering her man, Derrick’s debt only after moving in together, which caused so much stress and eventually a breakup.

Be open about your finances and ask your partner about theirs. It’s all about building trust and setting common goals. 💪🏾

Before diving into a new relationship, it’s crucial to have some deep conversations. Let’s start with aligning your valu...
08/05/2024

Before diving into a new relationship, it’s crucial to have some deep conversations. Let’s start with aligning your values. Understanding each other’s core beliefs can prevent future conflicts.

I had to learn this the hard way, SO you wouldn't have to.

Take the time to ask your partner about their principles. It might save you from heartache later. 💖

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Marshaun Olaniyan Consulting LLC

As a result of my clients completing my courses they are releasing their baggage, discovering what they want, need and desire from themselves first and they are becoming their true authentic self. I am currently looking for clients who are sick and tired of jumping from relationship to relationship, they want to know the secrets of experiencing a healthy relationship and they are ready to take the leap to do things the correct way this time around. Who do you know that is ready to love unconditionally, attract their forever date or reignite the spark back into their relationship and wants some straight forward guidance?