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06/18/2024

And this one

06/18/2024

This one definitely

05/17/2024

For those with childhood trauma, their past is living within them and usually, they want nothing to do with it, but there it is.⁠
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Survivors don't spend time dwelling on or living in abuse. Ironically, we put a lot of energy, if not all, into suppressing and forgetting as best we can.⁠
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It should be thought of more like the abuse won't let the survivor go, rather than the survivor making a big decision to move on from it.⁠
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That phrase or idea doesn't work. And survivors don't long for body memories, flashbacks or breakdowns at work. They're just trying to get through their week.⁠
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Until our past is witnessed, shared, processed and healed, which takes time, money and energy, it will manifest in most of our daily lives. It will pop up in everything, from our thoughts about ourselves in the morning, to how we engage with others.⁠
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The phrase "You're living in the past." implies choice to which the survivor didn't have in childhood and doesn't have in the present. It also dismisses horrifying things that children go through and then are later blamed for. It's a very shaming phrase, usually said while the survivor is trying to process.⁠
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Snapping fingers or clicking our heels and telling ourselves that we dismiss or forgive what our family systems did, and we'll be different from now on and stop being affected by the emotional, physical and sexual abuse is bullsh*t.⁠
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They would have done so if it worked like that.⁠
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WE are all here for a reason. Your Souls mission will be unique to you & it is the path we are walking right now otherwise we simply wouldn't be on it. We all detour away from it at times but the Universe nudges US harder & harder until we are back on track & the detour will have taught US many lessons along the way. So you cannot not go 'wrong'
Bringing up our Children in the most conscious way we can is a Massive Soul Mission so please never think your not 'doing' your Unique Mission because you are & your very much needed. Thank YOU