06/25/2026
Family Spotlight ✨
Josh and Benny’s love story began on January 3, 2013 - a true Grindr success story. Josh’s profile read, “tell me what makes you unique,” while Benny’s highlighted five words: “Family, Friends, Travel…” Their first coffee date at a local café lasted until closing time, followed by hours driving around town just talking. Less than two years later they were engaged, married in 2016, and on January 13, 2022, they officially became dads to their son, Ari.
Now living in Minneapolis, the couple built their family through domestic infant adoption after initially exploring international adoption and encountering significant barriers. Parenthood had always been part of the conversation - even on their very first date. Just months after getting married, they began the home study process, knowing adoption could take years. They were right: after nearly five years of paperwork, waiting, hope, heartbreak, and perseverance, Ari came into their lives.
For Josh, some of the most meaningful moments happen at bedtime - after the books are read and lights are off, when Ari shares his biggest thoughts, questions, and excitement about the world. For Benny, joy comes through adventures together: sporting events, travel, and building memories as a family.
The couple has been intentional about honoring Ari’s adoption story through a beautifully open adoption with his birth family. Every May, they celebrate “Family Day” - the anniversary of Ari’s legal adoption - by gathering with his biological family, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. “People often say Ari is lucky,” they share, “but honestly, we feel like the lucky ones.”
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Their advice to LGBTQ+ people dreaming of parenthood: rely on your chosen family, trust your path, and take pride in the way you build your family. Love is what makes it whole.
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