10/07/2025
Katharine Hepburn, in her own words:
"When I was young, my father and I went to buy circus tickets. As we waited in line, I noticed the family ahead of us—a family I would never forget. They had eight children, none older than twelve. Their clothing was modest, clearly showing they lived on a tight budget, yet everything they wore was spotless and well-kept. The children were remarkably polite, standing two by two behind their parents, each pair holding hands. Their eyes sparkled with anticipation as they chattered about the clowns, the elephants, and all the wonders they'd witness that evening.
Their enthusiasm made it clear this was their first circus—a night that would become a treasured memory. The parents stood at the front, radiating quiet pride. The mother clutched her husband's hand, gazing at him with complete adoration, as though he could do no wrong. He beamed back at her, clearly delighted to bring this joy to his family. When the ticket seller asked how many he needed, he answered with confidence, 'Eight children's tickets and two for adults, please.' Then came the total. I watched the mother's grip loosen, her head bow.
The father's smile vanished, his lip trembling. He moved closer to the window. 'I'm sorry—what was that?' The woman repeated the amount. He was short. How could he possibly face his children and tell them there would be no circus tonight? My father saw everything unfold. Quietly, he reached into his pocket, withdrew a twenty-dollar bill, and let it fall to the ground. We weren't wealthy people ourselves. Then he picked it up, touched the man's shoulder gently, and said, 'Pardon me, sir, but I believe you dropped this.' The man knew immediately what my father was offering.
This wasn't charity being thrust upon him—it was dignity preserved in a moment of quiet desperation. He met my father's gaze directly, grasped his hand with both of his own, clutched that bill like a lifeline, and with his voice breaking and tears in his eyes, said, 'Thank you, sir. You have no idea what this means to us.' My father and I returned to our car and headed home. That twenty dollars had been meant for our tickets. We missed the circus that evening, yet we felt something far more profound than entertainment could provide—a deep, abiding joy. That night taught me what true generosity looks like. The one who gives receives the greater gift.
If you wish to live a meaningful life, learn the art of giving. Real love isn't about what you hope to receive—it's about what you're willing to offer, holding nothing back. Never underestimate the power of generosity and kindness toward others, for giving brings a happiness nothing else can match. Make it your purpose to brighten someone's day through selfless acts."
~Katharine Hepburn
