The Connective Issue

The Connective Issue Spreading awareness by sharing my journey with Hypermobile Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.

I haven't been sick in a really long time. I take a lot of vitamins, supplements, and herbs that help boost my weak immu...
07/22/2025

I haven't been sick in a really long time. I take a lot of vitamins, supplements, and herbs that help boost my weak immune system. We both woke up sick (24 hours apart), after feeling fine the night before. And I have family in town that I don't get to see very often...what terrible timing 😭

I have chronic bronchitis and EVERYthing goes right to my lungs. Please pray that I'll get lucky and that won't happen this time🙏🏻

What are some of your go-to remedies? We use:
-oil of oregano
-herbal tincture for cough/cold/flu
-colloidal silver
-thieves essential oils (topical, diffused and cleaner), and other EOs
-liposomal vit c
-elderberry syrup
-fire cider
-ibuprofen (to reduce inflammation in the sinuses)
-antihistamines
-Oscillococcinum
-high potency multivitamin
-propolis spray
-electrolytes
-onion syrup
-low/no sugar foods during sickness
-nasal lavage machine
-nebulizer

I have been making these kinds of decisions for 20 years. Is doing the thing worth the pain/symptoms/flare ups later? So...
07/19/2025

I have been making these kinds of decisions for 20 years. Is doing the thing worth the pain/symptoms/flare ups later? Sometimes it is. And that can be hard for healthy people to understand. We have to find joy SOMEwhere. There's pain everyday anyhow🤷🏻‍♀️
So do the fun thing! Do it as much as you're willing to deal with the pain later. And don't feel guilty when you need to recover!
It's a whole different mindset to get used to. And for your family to get used to/understand.

Yep!! 💯
07/18/2025

Yep!! 💯

My hubby bought this ice therapy machine for me, used (like new)... It is so fabulous! It came with a shoulder wrap, tha...
07/18/2025

My hubby bought this ice therapy machine for me, used (like new)... It is so fabulous! It came with a shoulder wrap, that I use for my head and neck -- works great, looks ridiculous 🤣

*BIG UPDATES* New test results & treatment plan:I'll make a video later, explaining this more. For now, I'm recovering i...
07/12/2025

*BIG UPDATES* New test results & treatment plan:

I'll make a video later, explaining this more. For now, I'm recovering in bed.
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Opthalmologist:
•Everything clear, no nerve swelling (vision is not compromised).
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Brain:
•Could have intracranial hypertension or small Chiari malformation, but neither are showing signs that require surgical intervention. I'm not a good candidate for shunts/stents anyway, and my vision is not being compromised, so no need. Possible diuretics in the future if headaches don't resolve with other therapies. Lumbar puncture deemed too risky for now.
•Some dural sinuses and that are too small, could be from birth. May be looked at in the future if needed.
•Some crowding at the foramen magnum (hole in the bottom of the skull), possibly due to IIH or borderline Chiari.
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Tethered Cord:
•Possible. I do have symptoms, and doc said almost all EDSers have some extent of tethering. Specialist PT will find out more during sessions, then defer to back surgeon if tethered cord release is needed.
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Lumbar spine:
•L1-S1 (entire lumbar spine) degenerative disc disease, arthritis,
2 bulging discs, 1 torn disc, facet joint syndrome, stenosis
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Cervical spine:
•C2-C7 - degenerative disc disease, facet joint syndrome, arthritis, bone spurs, stenosis, slight nerve impingement, dessication (discs drying out)

•Hypermobility causing vertebrae slippage (too much movement, aggravating other conditions and symptoms in the neck)

•C0-C2 - couldn't get definitive imaging without upright MRI (I cannot have due to spinal cord stimulator). So do I have Craniocervical Instability (C0-C1) or Atlantoaxial instability (C1-C2)? Probably to some degree, but not enough to show spinal cord involvement lying down. Doc's overall summary was that my neck IS hypermobile, but they aren't seeing great long term results with cervical fusions in EDSers, so they aren't doing as many. Mine doesn't warrant surgery, and I never wanted it anyhow. Need to stabilize and strengthen for sure, bc according to him, "this neck won't last another 50 years."

•Loss of natural curvature of the neck + unnatural left curvature likely caused by muscle spasms
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*Incidental finding:
•1.2 cm cyst/nodule on my thyroid. Followup with PCP/thyroid specialist for ultrasound.
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Treatment plan:
•Specialized physical therapy for EDSers (Mt. Pleasant), build the right muscles in the neck
•Muscle relaxers/pain control, estrogen for muscle retention + bone loss prevention & menopause symptoms
•Rx hard cervical brace to stabilize hypermobile neck (do not have to wear 24/7)
•Possible tethered cord release surgery if needed
•No other surgical interventions needed at this time
•Continue conservative plans/rxs for decreasing non-epileptic seizures
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I am so very thankful to have answers, and doctors who know about these conditions (I'll list them in the comments, in case anyone is interested). I know that's a lot of medical terms/diagnoses that probably sound scary. But none of it surprised me, and much I already knew from over 25 years of dealing with this stuff. I am very grateful to have a treatment plan that gives me hope for improvement, and doesn't involve surgery (for now).
I'll ask for prayers that the financial gets worked out (especially since this new specialized PT doesn't take insurance, but doc said she's only one of two people in the country trained for this that he trusts). And for good results about this thyroid nodule. 🙏🏻






07/11/2025
Today, true love looks like the dishes being washed.My kids are at their grandparents'. I told my husband last night tha...
07/10/2025

Today, true love looks like the dishes being washed.

My kids are at their grandparents'. I told my husband last night that I'd do the dishes today.
I woke up to the sound of him washing them (yes, we have a dishwasher, but he's always preferred to hand wash). He did this before he got ready for work, just so I wouldn't have to do anything but rest today. We leave this evening for Charleston, for yet another doctor's visit. An appointment that he took off work for, and got a hotel room so I wouldn't have to get up so early in the morning to travel (first appointment is very early, and it will be a whole day of testing and follow-ups). He's a tattoo artist (i.e. if he doesn't work, he doesn't make money).

This is true love. Sacrifice. Honoring vows. Being a caretaker if that season comes. Total, selfless love of another human, expecting nothing in return.

He literally tucks me in bed every night and makes sure I have everything I need to be comfortable.
He has dried many tears; built me up when I had nothing left; carried all of my body weight when he had to; carried more of my stuff than a pack-mule more times than I can count; stayed by my side at appointments and in hospitals; taken care of all my personal needs after surgeries; taken care of the kids, house and dog while I've been in bed; sacrificed more of his own time than I'm even comfortable with; spent more money than we'll ever know on my healthcare, always saying that I'm worth it; and continuously prayed over me; all while working full time, and fixing our cars and house when things break (and other people's too).
And he does all this with no complaints--only prayers that I get better, while saying it's his privilege to care for me and assuring me this is just the season we're in and it will get better.
I pray he's right. My health issues started as a teen. He knew about them and married me anyway. It has gotten significantly worse in the last several years, but he's still here.
And I am so very thankful every day.
It's hard to not feel like a burden. But he does a good job of squashing those thoughts for me.
I read almost daily of partners leaving because of this horrible illness. Which makes me even more thankful for my amazing husband.
It'll be 20 years this fall, and I'm still head-over-heels in love, like a teenager with butterflies. And not because of all the things he can do for me. But because of his heart, his sweetness that most people don't get to see, his commitment to family and God, and the way he loves me, no matter what.
And he's pretty darn cute too😊

I pray for this kind of love for everyone. It's not always easy, and humans don't naturally want to compromise, sacrifice, or forgive. I'm thankful for a loving Savior who gives us the strength and guidance to do so.
I can't imagine struggling through this alone, and I know many of you do.

I truly hope you all find a love that looks like the dishes being washed. 🙏🏻✝️






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