Fathers & Mothers Against Parental Alienation

10/03/2026

Enough is enough. At some point, we have to stop whispering about family court and start demanding accountability from the people and institutions that have enormous power over our families and our children. Parents should not have to watch years of their children’s childhood disappear while they fight through hearings, attorneys, child support enforcement, custody disputes, false allegations, parental alienation, and court orders that sometimes seem impossible to get enforced.

And yes, we need to talk about Title IV-D and the money attached to the child support system. This is not some imaginary program people made up on Facebook. Title IV-D is a federally established child support enforcement program, and federal funding and performance based incentives are part of how that system operates. At the same time, federal data says the overwhelming majority of child support collections are distributed to families. Both facts matter if we are going to have an honest conversation about whether the incentives, enforcement priorities, and outcomes are actually serving children and families the way they should.

What I am demanding is ACCOUNTABILITY. Show us where the money goes. Show us what outcomes are being measured. Show us how quickly parenting time and custody orders are enforced compared with financial enforcement. Show us what happens when a safe and loving parent is wrongfully pushed out of a child’s life. And show us who is held accountable when the system gets it wrong. Stop telling parents everything is being done in the “best interests of the child” and start proving it through transparency, due process, meaningful oversight, and measurable results.

This is bigger than fathers. It is bigger than mothers. It is about children, parental rights, family court accountability, child support reform, Title IV-D, parental alienation, custody enforcement, judicial accountability, and protecting the parent child relationship. Children do not get another childhood, and parents do not get those stolen years back.

I wrote a book about this called The Parent They Tried to Erase because I know what it is like to live through this. I am going to keep speaking about it, keep asking questions, and keep demanding answers. If government systems exercise this much power over families, then the public has every right to demand transparency and accountability from them.

Protect the children, not the system.

TheParentTheyTriedToErase.com

10/02/2026

I keep saying this because we have spent far too much time talking about fixing a system that I believe is fundamentally built around money instead of families. Title IV D sends federal funding to states for operating child support enforcement programs and includes performance based incentive payments tied to measures such as collections, establishment of support orders, and paternity establishment. That is exactly why I believe we need to have a serious conversation about whether these financial incentives are helping families or simply keeping families tied to a system. Imagine what could happen if we stopped building family policy around how much money can be collected and started building it around keeping safe, loving parents actively involved in their children’s lives. Put the focus back where it belongs. On the child. On parenting. On cooperation. On keeping families connected whenever it is safe and possible.

I believe we need to stop funding a system that can turn family separation into an ongoing financial process. Take that money and energy and put it toward helping families stay together, helping parents resolve conflict, protecting children from abuse, and making sure children have meaningful relationships with both safe parents. Children need love, stability, time, guidance, and presence. You cannot direct deposit any of those things.

That is why I am calling for the abolition of Title IV D as we know it and for a completely different approach to family policy. Stop measuring success by dollars collected and start measuring success by children who are safe, supported, and able to maintain healthy relationships with their families. Protect the children, not the system.

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TUF Dad Marcus Ferry Sr.

10/01/2026

A parent’s presence cannot be replaced with a payment. Period. I will keep saying this because somewhere along the way we started acting like financially supporting a child and actually being a parent are somehow the same thing. They are not. Yes, parents have a responsibility to financially support their children, but a direct deposit cannot hug a child. A payment cannot show up to a ball game, help with homework, listen when something is wrong, teach life lessons, create memories, or tell a child they are loved. This is one of the biggest conversations we need to be having when we talk about child support, family court, child custody, parental rights, fathers rights, mothers rights, coparenting, and parental alienation. A child needs more than money. They need love, time, guidance, stability, attention, memories, and meaningful relationships with safe and loving parents. We need to stop measuring a parent’s value by what comes out of their paycheck while ignoring what happens when that parent’s presence is pushed out of their child’s life. And this is exactly why I keep speaking up. Children are not financial transactions, and parenting is not a payment plan. If we are really going to talk about the best interests of the child, then we better start talking about protecting healthy parent child relationships just as seriously as we talk about collecting money. Childhood does not wait. Those birthdays, holidays, ball games, school events, bedtime conversations, and ordinary Tuesday nights do not come back.

Protect the children, not the system. Protect their relationships. Protect their childhood. Stop pretending money can replace a parent.



TheParentTheyTriedToErase.com

09/30/2026

Children are not leverage. Parents are not disposable. Families are not profit centers. I have reached the point where I do not believe another round of small reforms is enough. I am calling for the family judicial system as we know it to be abolished and replaced with something that puts children and families first, protects due process, demands accountability, and stops allowing financial incentives to drive decisions that can affect a child for the rest of their life. We cannot keep putting a fresh coat of paint on a system people believe is failing families and then call it progress. Children do not get a second childhood, and parents do not get those lost years back. When a safe and loving parent is pushed out of a child’s life, nobody should be celebrating a legal victory while that child is paying the emotional price. This is bigger than fathers. It is bigger than mothers. It is about children, parents, grandparents, and entire families. If we truly believe in the best interests of children, then it is time to demand transparency, accountability, meaningful enforcement of parenting rights, and a system where the welfare of children comes before money and bureaucracy. Speak up. Get involved. Contact your lawmakers. Tell your story. Stand beside other families. Stop accepting promises of reform as the finish line. We need a serious public conversation about rebuilding family justice from the ground up. Protect the children, not the system.

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ABC News Dr Jordan B Peterson KaRoL G

09/29/2026

Enough is enough. Parents, grandparents, families, and advocates need to stand together and start making some damn noise about what is happening in our family court system. When a safe and loving mother or father can be removed from a child’s life, we need to be asking whether anyone actually stopped and looked deeply at what was truly in that child’s best interests. We need accountability. We need transparency. We need real family court reform, because children should never become pawns in custody battles, parental alienation, high conflict divorce, or a system driven by money and bureaucracy. I will continue questioning Title IV D, child support policy, family court practices, judicial accountability, parental rights, fathers’ rights, mothers’ rights, equal parenting, and the weaponization of children because these conversations matter. A child does not get a second childhood, and a parent cannot get stolen years back. If you have lived through parental alienation, family court, false accusations, custody interference, or watching someone you love lose precious years with their children, then you already understand why people are demanding change. It is time to stand together, speak louder, demand accountability, and push lawmakers for meaningful reform. ABOLISH TITLE IV D. ABOLISH FAMILY COURT AS WE KNOW IT. PROTECT CHILDREN, NOT THE SYSTEM.

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Marcus Ferry Sr.ABC News

09/29/2026

Your hatred for the other parent should never take precedence over your child’s love for both parents. Whatever happened between two adults belongs between those adults. A child should never be forced to choose sides, feel guilty for loving Mom or Dad, hide their feelings, or prove their loyalty by rejecting someone they love. When anger, narcissistic manipulation, false accusations, parental alienation, or a high conflict custody battle turns a child into a weapon, that child is the one carrying the emotional consequences. I will continue saying it because too many families are living it: children are not pawns, leverage, property, or weapons in family court. They deserve the freedom to love both parents without fear, pressure, manipulation, or punishment. Childhood is already short enough. Stop making children spend it fighting battles that belong to adults. Children deserve relationships, not loyalty tests.

TheParentTheyTriedToErase.com

09/28/2026

I speak about parental alienation so much because I have lived it, and I know firsthand what it feels like to watch a relationship with your child slowly change while you are standing there powerless to stop it. Parental alienation does not always happen overnight. Sometimes it happens through constant manipulation, gaslighting, negative comments, false allegations, loyalty conflicts, and making a child believe that loving their mother or father somehow means betraying the other parent. Eventually a child can begin questioning their own memories, their own feelings, and even the love they once knew was real. That is emotional damage that can follow a child long after the child custody case and family court battle are over. This is one of the reasons I wrote The Parent They Tried to Erase, because I know there are fathers and mothers living through high conflict custody, narcissistic manipulation, parental alienation, and the weaponization of children right now. A child should never have to erase good memories of Mom or Dad just to keep peace in someone else’s home. They should never feel guilty for loving both parents. We need to keep talking about parental rights, family court reform, healthy coparenting, emotional abuse, and protecting children from adult conflict because children do not get a second childhood, and parents do not get those stolen years back. If you have lived this, witnessed it, or watched someone you love go through it, speak about it. Silence is exactly how these families remain invisible. Protect the children.

Stop weaponizing children. A child is not a weapon.
TheParentTheyTriedToErase.com

09/28/2026

Here we go again! Another mother being charged for…… Yup you guessed it… And yet Most of the time they say “it’s the father who has the temper”. Ferry Sr.ABC NewsSen. Marsha BlackburnDonald J. Trump

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09/28/2026

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