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AITAH WIBTA, New Brunswick, NJ (2026)

09/11/2026

AITAH for “restricting” my body from my husband?

My husband 30M and I 23F have been married for 4.5 years. We have two kids together and ever since our youngest was born 18 months ago, my husband has been so obsessed with my b***s. He always has had an interest in them but it seems like he has taken this to a whole new level.

He is constantly touching, playing, pinching, and sucking on my b***s/ni***es. Every time he comes home from work (I'm a SAHM) I greet him at the door waiting to give him a hug and a kiss. The past few months, he has been dodging my hugs and turning his face away from me so I have to kiss his cheek rather than his lips and he immediately grabs my ni***es and pinches then pulls them through my shirt.

I hate it, so I brought it up to him one day telling him how hurtful it is that he would rather come home and pull my ni***es rather than give me a hug or a kiss. He then proceeds to tell me that my b***s are the only thing that makes him happy and I should be flattered he's still attracted to my body. I told him I don't want him touching my ni***es anymore when he gets home and if he keeps doing it, I won't greet him at the door anymore.

He then gave me the silent treatment for 3 days. When he was finally ready to talk about it he said that he has never once restricted his body from me and he feels like I don't love him because I've now 'restricted' my body. I told him that I feel like he doesn't love me when he goes straight for my girls rather than kiss me...

09/10/2026

Breakfast Battles: AITA for Not Cooking for My SO?

My partner and I live together with our two young kids. We both work 9-5s teleworking from home.

Every weekday I wake up an hour before everyone else to pack their lunches, make coffee, prepare medications, and prep breakfast for the morning for me and the kids. I used to prep breakfast for my partner, too. More on that in a minute…

I then get my kids up, fed, clothed and ready for the day and bring them to school. I then come home and take care of our miriad of animals before I start work on my laptop. Somewhere in there I might eat a piece of toast and drink tea in a travel mug to save time.

My partner rarely wakes up before I’m almost out the door with the kids, often not until I start work. When they do get up, my SO makes it a point to ask me to make them breakfast.

A bit of backstory - I used to prep my SO’s breakfast like I do the kids in the morning. But since my SO wasn’t getting up until later, they would get mad at me for giving cold food (they like a toasted bagel with cold cuts).

Then I would make my SO food when they woke up, which generally meant stopping whatever I was doing at work to tend to them when they needed it.

Then I got fed up of feeling flustered at work, and a bit resentful at having to take care of all the morning responsibilities myself when they were supposed to be there. I told my partner that my work time is my work time - even if I am at home, to treat it as if I am in the office....

09/10/2026

UPDATE 2: AITAH for telling my daughter her much older boyfriend isn't welcome in our home?

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First off, apologies to everyone for not updating sooner and my lack of replies. I post and read everyone's replies and messages, but it's so overwhelming that I struggle to know who to respond to. However, a lot has happened in the past week and enough people asked for an update so I thought I would provide one.

For context for those who haven't read the original post and first update, my 20-year-old daughter Ellie brought home her boyfriend, Tom, from college for the first time. He turned out to be 44, and it's been a huge shock to my husband and I. I met him (without my husband) and my daughter for brunch without feeling entirely comfortable about the situation, but my biggest priority is not losing my daughter.

After I came home from brunch, I spoke to my husband about the possibility of Tom and Ellie joining us for dinner one evening. My husband was completely against it, but I told him that if we still wanted to exercise some degree of control over the situation before we pushed Ellie away entirely, this was something we had to agree to. It took a lot of convincing but my husband agreed and we invited Tom and Ellie to come round the Saturday just gone.

Before then, I ended up talking to my oldest daughter and Ellie's sister, Holly (23) about the situation. Holly was shocked and Ellie had told her nothing. Holly decided to do some social media digging but struggled because Tom didn't have much of an online presence. She said she was coming to dinner on Saturday; although I was reluctant because it seemed like it would spiral, I eventually said yes.

So, we...

09/10/2026

Small update AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes?

I didn't expect this to blow up. I came on here to look for general advice and now I have thousands of people taking my in my DMs. I'm gonna be answering some questions that I'm getting asked about the most.

I was thinking about asking Wendy about the tapes and where she threw them out at but I saw a comment that told me to don't ask her, because it might give her some time to hide it or lie. Instead when I went back home I checked in the outside trash cans and the kitchen one and I still couldn't find them. Trash day isn't until Thursday so I was confused.

I finally went up to ask her and at first she wasn't gonna tell me. I threaten with divorce like one you guys said and she gave in. It turn out she kept the video tapes in her car until trash day arrived because she knew I would look through the trash.

So now I have the tapes, thank god. Another question asked was did Eleanore know about the tapes? No, I didn't want to ruin the surprise until if I knew that I had a backup.

She didn't know about them now and I'm not planning on telling her until her birthday, the only problem is that I'm afraid that Wendy might tell her. One more question is people asking if I'm considering divorce. Wendy never did anything like this before and I don't wanna ruin a 6 year relationship.

But at the same time I really do think she needs some type of help. I'm considering asking her to go to therapy and I'm really considering our relationship. Wendy is really good with my daughter and my daughter loves her...

09/10/2026

AITA Wife wants 100% in case of untimely end?

I am wanting to ear mark 5% of just my $1M life insurance policy for my sister. Here's the details. I (35M) and my wife (33F) are family planning with our second child due in a month.

I have 500k in life insurance through work and will be adding another 500k in private coverage. Our net worth is just below 1M with about $100k equity in our house 200k in my retirement, 50k liquid. She has about 250k in retirement and 100k liquid.

Plus stuff. My sister (32f) has been married for a few years with a stepson. They would like to family plan for more, but want a house first.

It seems to me they are pretty much paycheck to paycheck. I don't foresee them getting a house soon. $50k would make a material difference in them getting a down payment (I might add this as a stipulation to get my/our money).

Wife says our 2 kids would need everything I can leave them. Wife makes about 100-150k, though probably on that lower end if I weren't in the picture. Last detail: I have an older brother (37m) who is single and not family planning, so he can get my video games and miscellaneous, sorry buddy.

So I would like to update my will to allocate 5% of my insurance policy to my sister. WIBTA? Edit: a few things.

Lots of people seem shocked at this scenario. Everyone should take a small amount of time to realize that everyone dies at some point and your wishes should be known. Notes to loved ones that are easily discoverable are good ideas too.

It would be better to help now and not rely on dying for a windfall. I'll try and figure out what...

09/09/2026

AITA for refusing to give up my bedroom for my niece and nephew?

I (19F) still live at home with my parents while I attend college. I pay for my own tuition and contribute to household expenses when I can, but since my school is local, living at home saves me a ton of money. Recently, my older sister (27F) and her two kids (5M & 3F) moved back in after her divorce.
She's struggling financially, and my parents are letting her stay here rent-free until she gets back on her feet. I get that it's a tough situation, and I've been helping out with the kids when I can. The issue is that my parents want me to give up my bedroom so my sister's kids can have their own space.
We have a small house, and my sister is already taking the guest room, so the kids are currently sleeping with her. My parents think it would be better for them to have their own room and are asking me to move to the couch or "make do" by squeezing into their office space. I said no. I've lived here my whole life, and this is still my home.
I need my own space, especially since I have a heavy college workload. I don't see why I should be the one to sacrifice my room when this situation isn't my fault. My sister is upset, saying her kids are uncomfortable, and my parents are disappointed in me for "not being more understanding." Now the whole house is tense, and I'm wondering if I'm being selfish.. AITA?

09/09/2026

Aitah for denying my sister's lies in front of her in laws?

I am 25F and have an older sister Kate 30F. She and I were never close due to our age difference and because she hated that our dad married my mom and had me after divorcing her mother. Kate claims dad told her he never loved her mother and that my mom was his true love, that our dad always compared the 2 of us and asked her why she has to be a dificult child and that overall dad loved me more.

On the other hand, dad claims nothing she says is true, that she was very problematic and insolent. These claims are backed up by my mother and dad's parents so I assume Kate was never 100% honest. Anyways, these are their problems that do not concern me.

Some time ago Kate reached out to me and told me she got engaged. I said congrats and everything. She told me she has a favour to ask.

She told me her MIL is very family oriented and it does not sit well with her that Kate is estranged from her family. In her words, future MIL considered something is also wrong with Kate and she is also to blame for being no contact with her family, fearing Kate will also influence her son to do the same thing. What Kate wanted from me was for me to meet her in laws for them to see she does not hate her family.

I joked that future MIL sounds a little insane and I agreed to help her because at the end of the day I never hated her and I don't think she hated me neither. The fact we are not close does not mean we hate each other or want bad things to happen to...

09/09/2026

AITA for being furious that my husband and his mother hid that she lost her pension to a scam and now expect me to financially support her?

I am 27f and I am a nurse. I make good salary as private nurse for firm, which provides care for rich families. ( Six figures in my country, not usa ). I am proud of my career. I wanted to be doctor, when I was teen, but it wasn't possible for my family to provide me medical education and at that time I felt self hate to be nurse.
But by age of 20, I became a nurse. But now I love it. This job has made possible for me to buy my own house, car and travel outside the country. Good pension plan and other savings. I can raise a family on my own income.
I have / had a boyfriend say rob 28m, who is into heart speciality and we felt in love during hospital visits. He was the one to pursue me. He is soon going to be heart surgeon.
His mom has always made passive aggressive comments about me being a nurse. We got engaged recently. And all of his relatives were at family dinner party, held by Rob's parents last week.
So his mom and aunts at dinner table joked around that a heart surgeon like rob can get any female doctor as wife. Rob took offense and said nia ( me ) is very much independent and makes a good salary herself to take care of whole family.
But his mom went on. I have had enough. I have respect for housewives but this time I fired back. I said his mom and aunts all are gold digging house wives , with no life skills outside raising kids. They live on their husbands money who are rich. Some of them started crying. And started shouting. Eveyerone including rob asked me to apologise. I...

09/09/2026

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister?

My parents had me (16f) and my sister (14f). We lost our dad a few years ago. My mom has heavily favored my sister since she was born. To the point she has raised my sister to be a pretty s__tty person to be around. At least she is to me. Dad noticed it and called mom out and at some point they did therapy where apparently it came to light that the grandmother she named me after, was a person my mom had a lot of resentment toward. Why she named me after her then I will never really know. She claimed not to realize at the time. But she at least has some resentment toward me based on that. She also had some PPD when I was born and claimed the early months with me were a very dark time.

Whenever we fight, she takes my sisters side regardless of what happens. Sister takes food off my plate? Won't get in trouble. If I yell at her for it? I get punished. If I take food off my sisters plate in return? I get punished.

Sister takes something from my room? Nothing said. I bang on her door after she locked it and try to get it back? Punished for harassing my sister and making noise.

I tell my mom about this stuff happening? She says something about learning how to share or my sister being the baby or my sister needing more so let it go.

My sister loves to gloat that mom loves her more. My sister has told me that mom has told her she loves her but tolerates me. My sister told me mom wishes I had died instead of dad. She told me they talk about that stuff. She...

09/08/2026

AITA for refusing to give the veil I made for my daughters to my future daughter in law and also not making her own veil?

When I was younger I made my two daughters veils for their weddings. I did some embroidery on them and they are very beautiful. My younger daughter is already married and used it for her wedding. My other daughter is gay and will probably wear a tux for her future wedding. I am still holding onto it in case she wants to use the veil or make something else with it. Maybe a pocket square.

So one veil is still in my home and the sorry came up at dinner about how I made them for my kids. My future DIL has been talking about it since.

She asked to use the one that I have saved for my daughter. I told her no and she told me that my daughter won’t be using it anyways so what is the harm. Still a hard no from me.

She asked me to make her a veil for the wedding in a few months, I told her no to this also. I have arthritis and I can’t really do that anymore. I explained why and this started an argument

She thinks I am a jerk for not doing this and I am not accepting her in the family. My reasons are above.

She called done a jerk and my son is telling me to suck it up and give her one. My daughter ( the gay daughter for clarification) is happy I held onto her veil

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