05/02/2026
Chaperoned my son’s first middle school dance 🥹
He had decided he wasn’t even going to go, but I told him this is part of growing up—learning how to show up in spaces, even when you’re not sure how it’s going to go.
Found out today that none of his “fancy” clothes or shoes fit 😅
Did his hair an hour before, hyped him up the whole drive there.
At one point, I found him sitting in the corner with a Capri Sun…
“You don’t have to dance, but you can’t be over here by yourself. Go stand with people.”
When I saw him again?
Conga line🕺🏾
Dance circle 💫
Sea lion 🦭 (ask your gen alpha kids)
And just like that…he found his way in.
Moral of the story:
Don’t count yourself out before you even try. 🥹
You don’t have to know exactly how to show up.
You just have to be willing to step into the room.
***en
PS: He didn't ignore me during the party 🥹 even stood with me as we secretly picked out the best dressed boys of the night. These kids have style🤌🏾