12/24/2025
I have been married to my husband for two years, but things have taken a very dark turn lately. He has completely stopped speaking to me because of a disagreement over money.
Before I even met him, I already owned my own hair salon and wig business. He is also employed. Last week, I mentioned to him that I planned to invest more capital into my wig stock. When he asked how much I had saved for it, I told him I had 6.3 million. Within just one hour of me mentioning that amount, he came back and asked me to lend him 5 million of it.
I was confused. I asked him, "Why are you asking for this money right after I told you I need it to restock my business?" This question made him explode with anger. He started calling me stubborn and "unsubmissive." He even threatened me, saying he would "break my bones." Then, he insulted my hard work, claiming he shouldn't have married a woman who already had a shop and suggesting that some "sugar daddy" must have paid for it.
I was so shocked I couldn't even defend myself. He stormed out of the house. Shortly after, his mother called me. She said, "Your husband told me you have money but refuse to help him." She then lectured me, saying a "good wife" should give her husband whatever he wants without question. I spent the night crying. Since that day, he has refused to eat any food I cook and stays out until very late.
Yesterday evening, he gave me an ultimatum. He said I have two choices: either I pack my bags and leave, or I must close my salon forever. He told me his friends said wig stylists are usually involved in "hookups," so he wants me at home. He offered to pay me an allowance of 100k a month if I quit.
I told him no. I cannot shut down a business where I sometimes make more than 100k in a single day. I am completely drained and lost. He has given me just 7 days to either change my mind or move out.
His mother is fully supporting his behavior. I am so afraid and don't know what to do next. I really don't want my marriage to end, but the pressure is too much 😭😭
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#"I have been married to my husband for two years, but things have taken a very dark turn lately. He has completely stopped speaking to me because of a disagreement over money.
Before I even met him, I already owned my own hair salon and wig business. He is also employed. Last week, I mentioned to him that I planned to invest more capital into my wig stock. When he asked how much I had saved for it, I told him I had 6.3 million. Within just one hour of me mentioning that amount, he came back and asked me to lend him 5 million of it.
I was confused. I asked him, "Why are you asking for this money right after I told you I need it to restock my business?" This question made him explode with anger. He started calling me stubborn and "unsubmissive." He even threatened me, saying he would "break my bones." Then, he insulted my hard work, claiming he shouldn't have married a woman who already had a shop and suggesting that some "sugar daddy" must have paid for it.
I was so shocked I couldn't even defend myself. He stormed out of the house. Shortly after, his mother called me. She said, "Your husband told me you have money but refuse to help him." She then lectured me, saying a "good wife" should give her husband whatever he wants without question. I spent the night crying. Since that day, he has refused to eat any food I cook and stays out until very late.
Yesterday evening, he gave me an ultimatum. He said I have two choices: either I pack my bags and leave, or I must close my salon forever. He told me his friends said wig stylists are usually involved in "hookups," so he wants me at home. He offered to pay me an allowance of 100k a month if I quit.
I told him no. I cannot shut down a business where I sometimes make more than 100k in a single day. I am completely drained and lost. He has given me just 7 days to either change my mind or move out.
His mother is fully supporting his behavior. I am so afraid and don't know what to do next. I really don't want my marriage to end, but the pressure is too much 😭😭"
