
06/30/2025
— Find someone to look after the baby and come to the dacha, I need your help, — demanded my mother-in-law, but I refused.
— Kira, this is simply outrageous! The baby is already six months old, and you’re still fussing over her like a fragile vase. At your age, I was already raising two kids, going to work, and managing a thirty-sotka vegetable garden! — Berta Alexandrovna’s voice on the phone was as categorical as always.
Kira took a deep breath, trying to stay calm. Little Olya had just fallen asleep after a long rocking, and the last thing the young mother wanted was to wake her daughter with a loud conversation.
— Berta Alexandrovna, I understand your concern about the garden, but Olya is still very small. She’s breastfeeding, and I can’t...
— Pump your milk! — her mother-in-law interrupted. — Find someone to leave the baby with and come to the dacha, I need your help. We have a big planting this weekend, and I can’t manage alone. Nikolay can’t do much with his back.
Kira looked at her sleeping daughter. She and Igor had waited so long for this child. They had spent five years paying off the mortgage on their small two-room apartment in a residential district, postponing having a baby until they got on their feet. And now, when they finally had Olya, the mother-in-law demanded she leave her with someone and go dig the garden beds?
— Sorry, but I won’t be able to come. Maybe Igor and I will stop by for a couple of hours on Sunday, but...
She didn’t get to finish. Berta Alexandrovna hung up.
— What did you tell her? — Igor asked when he came home from work. He looked tired — the construction company where he worked as an engineer was entering a busy season, and the workload had increased.
— I told her I can’t leave Olya. Your mother was very upset, — Kira rocked the baby in her arms.
Igor frowned.
— Mom is just used to everyone jumping at her command. She taught at a school for thirty years; the whole class marched to her tune. Now she’s retired and has no one to boss around, so she takes it out on us.
— But your sister never refuses her, — Kira noted.
— Sofya and Pavel live five minutes from our parents, and they don’t have a small child. Of course, it’s easier for them.
Igor’s phone rang. He looked at the screen and sighed.
— Mom. Looks like she’s going to try to persuade me now.
The weekend was approaching, and tension was mounting. Igor, caught between his wife and mother, suggested a compromise:
— Let’s go to the dacha as a family. We’ll spend the weekend there. I’ll help mom with the heavy work, you can be with Olya and help a little with something light. After all, our parents did a lot for us.
Kira looked at her husband doubtfully.
— Your mom will be unhappy that I’m not working at full capacity.
— I’ll talk to her, — Igor promised. — I’ll explain that your priorities are different now.
Kira agreed, though her inner voice warned that the trip wouldn’t bring anything good.
The dacha plot of Berta Alexandrovna and Nikolay Petrovich was a forty-minute drive from the city. The six sotkas had been turned by the hardworking hostess into a model farm: neat garden beds, a greenhouse, fruit trees and bushes, even a small pond with goldfish — a special pride of the mother-in-law and envy of the neighbors.
When Igor parked the car by the gate, Berta Alexandrovna was already standing on the porch of the house, arms crossed over her chest. Her short gray hair was neatly trimmed, and her face wore an expression of restrained displeasure.
— Finally, — she said instead of a greeting. — I thought you’d arrive by dinner.
— Mom, we left as soon as we could, — Igor hugged his mother. — Olya didn’t sleep well last night, so we had to wait until she ate and calmed down.
Berta Alexandrovna glanced at her daughter-in-law, who was taking a bag of baby things out of the car.
— When you were little, I adjusted the schedule around work, not work around the schedule.
Kira pretended not to hear the remark. She took the carrier with the peacefully sleeping Olya and headed to the house.
— Hello, Berta Alexandrovna. We brought you some city treats.
The mother-in-law barely nodded and turned to her son.
— Tomorrow we need to dig a big potato bed and fix the fence on Anna Sergeyevna’s side. She complained again that our bushes are shading her strawberries.
— We’ll do it, mom, — Igor nodded. — Where is dad?
— He’s in the shed fiddling with the tools. With his back, he can’t do much, so all hope is on you.
Kira went inside, trying not to pay attention to the cold reception. The small room was clean and cozy. Nikolay Petrovich, unlike his domineering wife, had golden hands and was constantly improving the dacha house. Wooden shelves, carved window trims, comfortable furniture — all made by him.
Olya woke up and started to whimper. Kira took the baby in her arms and began to rock her.
— You can put her on the couch while we have dinner, — said Berta Alexandrovna, entering the house. — You’re not going to hold her all the time, are you?
— She’s restless in new places, — Kira replied. — It’s better if I hold her a bit.
The mother-in-law pursed her lips but stayed silent. She began setting plates with treats on the table.
— Igor, call your father. We’ll have dinner.
The dinner passed in a tense atmosphere. Nikolay Petrovich, a quiet and good-natured man, tried to ease the mood with stories about dacha neighbors, but his wife kept interjecting with sharp remarks about modern young mothers who “pamper their children too much.”
— In my time, children weren’t held in arms for hours, — she said, watching Kira trying to calm the crying Olya. — They were put in the crib and had to get used to being independent.
— Mom, she’s only six months old, — Igor gently objected.
— So what? You were that age when I went back to work. And nothing, you grew up normal.
— Times were different, — Nikolay Petrovich added. — Nowadays, young parents pay more attention to their children, and that’s good.
Berta Alexandrovna gave her husband a dissatisfied look.
— Of course, you’re always on the side of the young. That’s why they ride us like pack animals.
After dinner, Kira was putting Olya to bed while Igor helped his father in the shed. Berta Alexandrovna was washing dishes, loudly clattering plates. It was obvious she was displeased that her daughter-in-law hadn’t offered to help.
When Olya finally fell asleep, Kira went out to the veranda. Her mother-in-law was sitting there with a tablet, studying the weather forecast.
— Tomorrow will be a good day for planting, — she said without looking at Kira. — I expect you to help me with the carrots and beets. Igor will be busy with the potatoes and fence.
— I’ll try to help when Olya is asleep, — Kira replied cautiously.
— If you wait until she falls asleep, we won’t finish before autumn, — cut in the mother-in-law. — Put the stroller near the garden bed so she can breathe fresh air. She won’t melt.
Kira pressed her lips to keep from saying something sharp. She understood arguing was useless. It was better to wait for the morning and deal with problems as they came.
The night was difficult. Olya, unused to the new place, woke up every hour and cried. Kira barely slept, rocking her daughter. Igor tried to help, but the child only calmed down in her mother’s arms.
In the morning, exhausted from the sleepless night, Kira went to the kitchen, where her mother-in-law was already bustling by the stove.
— Finally, — she threw over her shoulder. — I thought you’d sleep until noon. Breakfast is on the table, eat quickly and get to work. We need to finish the main work before the heat.
— Good morning, — muttered Kira, feeling broken. — Olya didn’t sleep well, I’ll feed her now and...
— Feed her after work, — her mother-in-law interrupted. — Nikolay will sit with her while we’re in the garden beds. He can’t do much with his back anyway.
Kira gave a helpless look to Igor, who was spreading butter on bread.
— Mom, Kira needs to feed Olya. It won’t take long.
— There’s never enough time if you waste it thoughtlessly, — Berta Alexandrovna snapped. — When I was your age, Igor, I worked, kept house, and still managed the dacha. And you always have excuses.
Nikolay Petrovich, sitting in the corner with a newspaper, coughed quietly.
— Berta, let the kids have breakfast in peace. The whole day is ahead.
By noon, the tension peaked. Igor was working with his father on the fence, and Kira was trying to help her mother-in-law with weeding, occasionally distracted by crying Olya. Berta Alexandrovna demonstratively sighed and shook her head every time her daughter-in-law went to the stroller.
— In my time, children weren’t held all the time, — she repeated. — They got used to independence from the cradle.
Kira remained silent, preserving her last bit of patience. She understood any response would only worsen the situation.
Suddenly, the gate opened, and Sofya and Pavel — Igor’s sister and her husband — entered the yard. It was a surprise — usually, they warned before coming.
— Mom, Dad, hello! — Sofya, an energetic woman resembling her mother in her determined character, hugged her parents. — We decided to come help. Pavel took the day off.
Berta Alexandrovna beamed.
— Now that’s a surprise! That’s what I call real care for parents!
The comment was clearly meant for Kira, who was rocking the crying Olya at that moment. She greeted Sofya and Pavel, trying not to show her irritation.
— How is my niece? — Sofya approached Kira and stroked Olya’s head. — She’s so big already!
— Growing, — Kira smiled. — Just a bit restless in the new place.
— Spoiled the child, — Berta Alexandrovna inserted. — Sofya and Pavel understand the importance of helping parents, while some just fuss over their baby.
Sofya glanced quickly at her mother’s daughter-in-law and frowned slightly.
— Mom, Kira has a small child; it’s not easy for her.
— I also had small children and still managed work and household, — Berta Alexandrovna retorted. — Well, let’s get to work. Sofya, help me with the greenhouse, and you, Pavel, go to the men fixing the fence.
When her mother-in-law walked away, Sofya quietly said to Kira:
— Don’t pay attention. She’s always like this. I grew up with it and got used to it.
Kira nodded gratefully. It was nice to get a little support.
At lunch, Sofya unexpectedly spoke about the dacha neighbor, Anna Sergeyevna.
— Mom, do you know what Anna Sergeyevna is telling the neighbors?
Berta Alexandrovna tensed.
— What lies has that gossip made up now?...
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