07/17/2023
I never had a REAL group of friends before I met these girls.
In high school I was in a “friend group” who all talked shiii about each other and all made exclusive plans behind each other’s back. I remember once being in the back of the car with these girls in high school and watching them all dance and I just sat there. I never felt welcomed and comfortable in the “friend group.” I was excluded from things all the time and couldn’t wait to get to college and meet new people.
When I got to , I rushed to be in a sorority and was DEVASTATED that none of the “top houses” wanted me. I didn’t join one and felt so lonely and hopeless to make new friends. Luckily, Gd had much better plans in store for me.
was across my hall freshman year and we got along amazing. I still don’t know why she liked me then though! I look back at myself and I was a MESS! But she always loved me and accepted exactly as I was. And this biiii Kim was so inclusive to me. She invited me to everything with her other friends who eventually became mine too. They all accepted my CRAZY self too.
Our friend group is so so so special to me, because we are all so REAL TOGETHER. There is no space for talking shi about each other. There is no space for bullshiii. There is no space for negative energy. It is just REAL that is left. It is like 5 strong, but completely different personalities and energies in one room. But we all love each other for who we are.
I love these girls an absurd amount, and I am so grateful that they give me space to not hold back my love for them.
I can’t wait for our annual trips and to watch you all grow and meet your children one day. I LOVE YOU MY USC GIRLS. FIGHT ON FOREVER✌️❤️💛
And to my amazing community of girls, if you haven’t found a group of loyal friends, be patient. You never know what is in store for your future. I would love to hear where you are at with you friendships in life. Who are your closest friends? Do you have a friend group? Have you ever been in one? Can’t wait to read your stories in the comments.