09/11/2026
I didn't ask for any of this. Is what every teenager eventually thinks of the life their parents created around them.
It doesn't matter if they're perfectly comfortable, they're living inside someone else's decisions, and sooner or later they need to find out how to make their own.
In Sidney Lumet's Running on Empty, Judd Hirsch and Christine Lahti play former hippie anti-Vietnam protesters who bombed a na**lm laboratory in 1971 and accidentally blinded a janitor in the process. Seventeen years later, they're still on the lam, dragging their two sons through a life of fake identities and sudden relocations, and their oldest, played by River Phoenix, is starting to realise that the cause his parents sacrificed everything for has become the thing that's suffocating him.
The parents aren't the villains of the piece, though. They genuinely believe that what they did was right, and maybe it was. The bombing was an act of conscience against a war that history hasn't been kind to. But conviction has a cost, and when you're so defined by a choice you made before your kids were born, those kids end up paying for it whether they understand it or not. Danny doesn't argue politics with his parents, he doesn't tell them they were wrong, he just wants to play piano and maybe go to Juilliard and have a girlfriend he doesn't have to lie to. He wants a life that belongs to him.
Phoenix got a Best Supporting Actor nomination for playing Danny Pope, though he's really the lead. Naomi Foner's screenplay was also nominated and won the Golden Globe. This is a performance movie. The actors carry some hefty issues on top of the central teen melodrama, particularly a scene between Lahti and her estranged father, played by Steven Hill. That's one of the most devastating five minutes I've seen from that decade.
You can tell he's thought about what it looks like when the cause outlives the conviction, and the kids are left flipping the bill.
The movie made under three million dollars theatrically, but Roger Ebert gave it four stars and called it one of the best films of the year. It's still one of my faves from the era.
I rented this as a teenager and while my suburban life looked nothing like Danny Pope's, that feeling of being stuck inside a world that fully belongs to your parents, of knowing that their version of how things isn't necessarily yours, that's about as universal as it gets.
Every generation inherits a mess it didn't make, and the brave thing, maybe the only thing, is to walk away and figure out your own mess.
The rest can keep running. -Pop