04/16/2025
Hey Friends!
I want to take a moment to express my appreciation for our connection here. As many of you know, I am a therapist and coach. My mission is simple: to do what I can, in my small way, to make the world a better place. I’m sure you’d agree that the world needs it right now.
As part of that mission, alongside my individual practice, I’ve spent the last few years creating an online course called the HeartFinders Self-Cultivation Course. Since its launch a few months ago, I've been thrilled to see our community come to life with 28 exceptional, purpose-driven individuals taking courageous steps toward real transformation.
Let me be honest—this post is a pitch for this course. If you don’t want the sell, if you don’t need it, if you’re not interested in self-improvement or aren’t ready to break free from being stuck and getting the great life you deserve, scroll on!
But if you’re curious, I’d love to share more about this and how it might resonate with you.
I love being a therapist. It’s my calling, and I believe I’m pretty good at it. But here’s the truth. Traditional talk therapy often only gets us so far. I see many people living below their potential, stuck in patterns that lead to unnecessary suffering. I want to help them thrive and feel great about themselves, and sometimes, talking isn’t enough.
This recognition pushed me to keep studying and learning, trying to come up with better methods to help people break free from what has kept them from becoming their best selves.
After decades of searching, I believe I’ve found the answer! Across cultures, from ancient philosophers to modern neuroscientists, they all say pretty much the same thing. As my favorite ancient sage, Mencius, put it, to find your lost heart, you need to self-cultivate. It seems pretty simple when you say it, but what does that mean?
There’s a reason why you don’t do the things you tell yourself to do. There’s a reason why you procrastinate. There’s a reason why nothing seems to change for you. It’s because you haven’t developed the internal muscles in order to be able to do the things you keep telling yourself you should be doing. Here’s the hard truth. In order to build those internal muscles you need to do daily work. If I told you to run a marathon today without having trained, would you be able to do it?
After working with people for these many years, here’s what I’ve discovered. People who are stuck have six basic traits: they don’t like themselves and beat themselves up, they avoid and procrastinate out of fear, they have bad habits, they don’t believe anything will work out for them, they are reluctant to learn, and they don’t take good care of themselves.
How many of those boxes can you check?
So what do you do? Here’s where self-cultivation comes in. It’s about developing six key attributes: self-compassion, courage, strength, positive imagination, wisdom, and self-love. This takes daily practice—what I call the Bhakti Marga, or the Path of Devotion.
Just like hitting the gym strengthens your body, exercising your emotional and mental muscles will make you stronger, more confident, you’ll get more done, you’ll be more capable, you’ll be free, and healthy.
Once you implement this practice, you’ll find your stuckness dissolving. You’ll feel great about yourself, you’ll have peace of mind and find fulfillment. You’ll live the dream!
I created the HeartFinders Course to make it easy for you to get all the tools you need to self-cultivate and free your natural ability to grow and become your best self.
In over 25 videos, the course includes all the knowledge you need to understand the most interesting subject in the world – you. You’ll gain insights into human nature, the secrets of what holds you back and how to overcome these internal obstacles.
With over sixty exercises, you won’t have to figure out on your own the exact things you need to do to self-cultivate and unleash your powers of action and growth.
Plus, you’ll connect with a supportive community of fellow HeartFinders who will lift you up and keep you accountable.
Does this make sense to you?
If this sounds interesting, here’s how to get involved:
If you still want to know more, watch the video at go.heartfinders.co for more details, or set up a free one-on-one consultation call.
If you’re ready to jump into your self-cultivation journey, visit https://www.skool.com/heartfinders/about.
I’m offering a seven-day free trial to get you started, and after that, it’s just $97 a month.
For the first five people to sign up, I’ll also provide a Five-Week Coaching Challenge, where we’ll have 15-minute sessions each week to help you stay on track.
Plus, you’ll get access to bi-weekly live Q&A sessions with me!
This is an incredible offer valued at tens of thousands of dollars!
If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to help!
