07/14/2026
She slapped me four times in the country club lobby while I was seven months pregnant, then kicked me when I crouched down protecting my stomach. And the sickest part is she did it because I dared say the chair she stole had been set aside for me by the event staff.
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I’m still shaking typing this because people keep saying “there must be more to it.” Yes, there was more to it. The more to it is that some rich, loud stranger decided my pregnancy meant I was being difficult, and a whole room treated me like I was the problem until she went too far.
This happened at a charity fundraiser at Briar Glen Country Club last night. I was there because my friend Lena invited me and had already warned the organizers I’m in my third trimester and can’t stand packed into a lobby for long stretches. They put a chair near the host stand for me while we waited for the ballroom doors to open. Nothing dramatic. Nothing fancy. Just a chair.
I had my doctor’s note in my bag because I’ve had dizziness this whole pregnancy and I’m used to people acting like a pregnant woman asking to sit down is some giant scam.
So I’m standing there with one hand on my lower back, and this woman I’ve never seen in my life comes sweeping in with two other women and a glass in her hand, looks right at the chair, and sits in it like she owned the building.
I said, as calmly as I could, “Excuse me, that chair was set aside for me. I’m pregnant.”
She looked me up and down, actually smirked, and said, “You’re pregnant, not dying.”
I said, “I didn’t say I was dying. Staff put that there for me. You can ask them.”
That was when she got louder on purpose so people would hear. “Oh please. Every event has one woman demanding special treatment.”
I told her, “It’s not special treatment if it was arranged beforehand. And maybe don’t lecture strangers while you’re wearing your husband’s mistress’s bracelet.”
Yes, I said it. Because ten minutes earlier in the check-in line I heard her bragging to another donor that the bracelet was a “sorry gift” after she found out he was still sending money to the woman in Charleston. She was already loudly humiliating someone else like she wanted an audience. I should have left it alone, but the way she looked at me like I was trash just set me off.
The second I said that, her face changed.
She stood up so fast the chair scraped hard across the marble, got right in my face, and hissed, “Watch your mouth.”
I said, “Then keep yours off pregnant women.”
She slapped me. Once, twice, three, four times so fast I barely had time to turn my face. My ears were ringing. I lost my balance and dropped into a crouch with both arms around my stomach, and she kicked me in the side and said, “Stop performing. Nobody owes you special treatment.”
The whole lobby went weirdly quiet.
Not shocked quiet. Watching quiet.
One man actually muttered, “Ladies, calm down,” like this was mutual. A woman near the floral table said, “She shouldn’t have provoked her.” Someone else kept filming instead of helping. The hostess looked frozen. Lena was yelling my name from across the lobby but people were blocking her.
And this woman just kept going, standing over me while I was crouched on the floor.
“Get up. You’re embarrassing everyone.”
“Pregnancy is not a VIP pass.”
“You think carrying a baby means the world stops for you?”
I remember covering my stomach and saying, “Don’t touch me.”
She laughed. Actually laughed. “Then stop using the baby as a prop and move.”
That’s the part that made me sick. Not just that she hit me. That she felt comfortable enough to stand over a pregnant stranger in a country club lobby and talk to me like I was some manipulative inconvenience on the floor.
People only started moving when I screamed, “I’M PREGNANT!”
Then two staff members rushed in, Lena shoved through the crowd, and one older man who had been pretending to be busy with his phone suddenly started saying, “Call security, call security.”
And right when security came in, the woman who hit me pointed at me and said, loud as ever, “She started this because she thought being pregnant made her more important than everyone else.”
Then the room got dead silent when the events director looked down at the folder that had fallen out of my bag and saw exactly what I had brought with me.
If you were there, tell me honestly: if a seven-months-pregnant woman has a chair reserved because of a medical issue, and a stranger slaps her, kicks her, then calls her dramatic while people watch, who exactly is the real embarrassment here?
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