IWOM

06/27/2025

As a Black man, I don’t just get dressed—I suit up.

Every day, I put on armor.
Not the kind you see in movies.
Mine looks like a well-rehearsed smile, a lowered tone of voice, a pause before I respond.
It sounds like “yes sir” when I want to say “why?”
It feels like silence when my soul wants to scream.

I wear strength, because softness is mistaken for weakness.
I wear calm, because anger could cost me my freedom.
I wear success, so no one questions if I belong.
I wear pride, but Lord knows—some days I’m just tired.

This armor is invisible to most.
But heavy to carry.

I’m not sharing this for sympathy.
I’m sharing this because there’s power in naming what we endure.
And because some of us are out here learning how to take the armor off—piece by piece—and still feel safe.

To my brothers who get it: I see you.
To those who don’t: ask before you judge.
To everyone: give us room to be whole.

06/21/2025

"I may not walk in your shoes, but I see your path, I hear your truth, and I stand with your fight to live boldly, freely, and fully. Your existence is powerful. Your journey is valid. Your pride is sacred." 🏳️‍🌈

06/21/2025

💭 Letter to the Brother Who’s Struggling Mentally (From One Man to Another)

Yo Bro,

I don’t know exactly what you’re carrying… but I know the weight.

I know what it feels like to wake up and not feel like yourself — to be surrounded by people but still feel alone. To feel like everything is on your shoulders, and still tell the world, “I’m good.”

Truth is, most of us were never taught how to deal with what we feel. We were just told to “man up,” keep pushing, and never let ‘em see us sweat. But that ain’t strength — that’s survival. And too many of us are just out here surviving.

Let me tell you something real: It doesn’t make you less of a man to say, “I’m not okay.”
It makes you real.
It makes you human.
It makes you brave.

There’s no shame in needing help. No weakness in needing rest. And no failure in not having all the answers.

You don’t have to suffer in silence.

Talk to somebody. Cry if you need to. Sit your pride down and pick your peace up. Your mental health is just as real as your hustle. Don’t wait for a breakdown to realize it.

You’re not alone in this. Not now. Not ever.

Keep going — but don’t keep hiding.

Respectfully,
Cory — A Brother Who’s Been There Too

06/21/2025

06/19/2025

THE MOST EVOLVED
A truly self-aware person recognizes the complexity of human behavior.
Understanding someone doesn’t mean you agree with their values — it means you’re emotionally intelligent enough to hold space for differences without judgment. Misunderstanding often stems not from malice, but from lack of experience, unhealed trauma, or the unwillingness to see beyond our own perspective.

In many situations, what we call "weird" or "different" is just unfamiliar. And for Gen Z — a generation striving for authenticity and mental wellness — this is where emotional maturity kicks in.

The most evolved individuals are often the ones who’ve gone through pain, grown from it, and returned with more compassion, not less. These people don’t shame others — they guide them.

Let’s normalize growth over cancelation.
Let’s replace judgment with curiosity.
Let’s stop labeling people as "problems" and start recognizing that healing is a process — not a personality

06/16/2025

Sometimes we think we’re just running for fitness — but really, we’re running for alignment. 🏃🏾‍♀️💭

Running helps people tap into their IWOM (I’m Working On Me) journey in ways that go way beyond the physical. Every step is a release… a moment to clear your head, strengthen your focus, and reconnect with your purpose.

It’s not about how fast or how far — it’s about moving with intention.
When we run, we’re not running away from life… we’re running toward healing, growth, and the best version of ourselves. Running is peace in motion.
That’s what IWOM is.

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06/16/2025

"Being at that peaceful stage in life where your not tripping on anything or anyone. Protecting your energy, moving with purpose, and letting peace lead the way. If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive."

06/16/2025

🌱 Welcome to IWOM – I’m Working On Me! 💫

This isn’t just a page—it’s a movement, a lifestyle, and a community built on growth, healing, and purpose. We’re not a brand; we’re a collective of individuals committed to bettering ourselves and, through that, uplifting the communities around us—one step at a time.

Here, progress is celebrated, setbacks are lessons, and support is always real. So whether you're healing, grinding, evolving, or just showing up for yourself—you’re in the right place.

Let’s build, grow, and glow—together. ✨

10/13/2024

Post them the f---k off. Not a 'you' problem.

10/13/2024

Say it with your chest.