09/09/2025
My husband came home after working a long 12-hour day in 100-degree weather. The first thing he said was, "What can I do to help?" He says this often, no matter how hard his day has been. Heās not some "perfect" guy; he's just a good man. Men like him are real.
Heās the kind of man who washes the dishes while I cook. He fills up the gas in my car just to make my day a little easier. He cooks dinner for the whole family, even after a full day of work. He works six days a week, yet still comes home with a smile for his kids, gives me a hug, and asks, "Do you need help with dinner?"
Men like him arenāt rare; theyāre just good people. In our marriage, we help each other. We always ask, "What can I do to make your day easier?" I often hear women say they feel alone in their marriages, like they have to do everything by themselves. But men like my husband do exist, and everyone deserves a partner like this. Marriage is about teamwork, and you shouldnāt have to feel like youāre doing it all alone.
My husband sees the value in what I do at home with the kids. He comes in after a long, hot day, tired and sweaty, and still asks what he can do to help. He often takes over making dinner, not because he has to, but because he wants to. He values helping because we are a team. Itās not asking too much to want your partner to be truly involved. You deserve to feel supported. You deserve to walk into the kitchen and see him cooking or putting dishes away.
I'm here to tell you that men like this are out there, and theyāre not rare. I married a man who likes to help, does his part, and never makes me feel like Iām alone. Heās not some "perfect" husband; he's just a good man. Every day, he makes me want to be a better person for him. There are men out there who are so caring that they make you want to be just as caring in return. Theyāre real, not a fantasy. So, donāt settle for less.
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