04/02/2026
Self-reflection is an indication that we have arrived at emotional maturity & religious responsibility.
Yes, when we engage in mindful self-reflection we can gain a deeper understanding of our ego, it’s influence, & ultimately, move beyond it’s limitations to achieve greater self-awareness & personal growth towards pleasing the Creator.
The ego is the part of the mind that mediates between the conscious self & the external world, shaping our sense of individuality, thoughts, & self-esteem. It is influenced by past experiences, beliefs, & societal expectations, often leading to a self-narrative that may not be entirely accurate.
While the ego is essential for survival & navigating social situations, it can also create barriers to self-awareness & personal growth.
Self-reflection is a powerful tool for personal growth, & understanding - its relationship with the ego is necessary for navigating this process. The ego, often associated with our sense of self & self-esteem, can sometimes hinder self-reflection by creating biases & resistance to honest self-assessment.
The "commanding self,"
“ان النفس لامراةً بالسوء “
is the lowest level of the human ego, in Islamic ethics - it drives individuals toward immediate gratification, laziness, & disobedience to the Creator. It is the source of inner battles, leading to actions like selfishness, overindulgence, & rage.
The ego is viewed as a significant internal challenge that must be subdued to achieve closeness to the Creator (تقوى). An inflated ego can ruin good deeds, leading to performing good acts for praise (رياء), which leads to spiritual destruction.
Among the many signs of an unchecked ego include an inability to take correction, feeling offended when others succeed, & the need to always have the final, superior word.
We ask Allah swt to accept our efforts. Ameen.
Dr. Mohamed Abdul Hakeem