09/18/2025
While I was with my dying mom, my husband was lying to me!
My husband, Evan, and I have been together for five years. We married young, but we were both financially stable, had decent jobs, and were excited to start building a life together. We had just started trying for our first baby when life blindsided me.
My mom, who's always been my rock, my best friend, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. The doctors gave her six months. Six months.
I'm her only child, and my dad has been out of the picture for years. There was no one else. I knew I had to be there for her. Evan said he understood completely. He told me, "Go be with her. She needs you."
So I packed my things and moved three hours away, back to my childhood home, to help her through treatments, doctor appointments, everything. I was there for every chemo session, every night she cried from the pain, every morning she forced a smile just so I wouldn't break down.
It was brutal — physically, emotionally, mentally. Watching someone you love slowly disappear is its own kind of torture.
And here's the thing: Evan and I talked every other day. He sounded worried, supportive. He told me he missed me. He told me he was "managing the house" while I was gone. He said he had a lot of chores to keep up with since I wasn't around. He always sounded a little stressed, but I thought it was just the weight of us being apart.
He never visited. Not once. He told me it was because of chores he had to do daily and that he wanted to give me "time with my mom." I believed him.
Six weeks ago, my mom passed away. I buried her, handled her estate, packed away her clothes while sobbing into them. I went through the darkest weeks of my life. And the whole time, Evan told me he was keeping busy, keeping the house running, "grieving with me in his own way."
Finally, when the dust settled, I drove home. I thought walking through that front door would feel like relief. Like I could finally rest, finally lean on my husband after weeks of holding myself up.
Instead, when I opened the door, I froze.
I realized that while I was with Mom, Evan was not bored AT ALL, and all the things he told me were a total lie.
The smell hit me first. Sweat. Grease. Then I saw the mess: empty pizza boxes, sticky cups, dirt everywhere, a stain I didn't even want to identify on the rug I'd picked out last year.
And then I saw Evan.
HE WASN'T ALONE. ⬇️