04/17/2024
Husband's Ex-Wife Got Sick, SO MIL "Suggested" We Moved Her into Our Homes Bc She's Friendly.
So my husband has this ex-wife. Well guys, apparently she's really, really sick. So guess what? Everybody's suggesting that she moves in with us. But there's one thing that I can't seem to shake off: this feeling that she is faking it. My husband's ex wants to move in with us, and my husband's okay with it. I'm so mad right now that I think I'm going to explode. After everything that my husband and I have gone through, he wants to let the person who ruined our lives so many times back into our house. We're supposed to be finally getting some peace and starting a life together as a newlywed family, but there's been a damper in our plans, and now we're back to square one.
My husband and I have been married for over a year, but when we got married, his ex-wife had just given birth. They divorced when she was a couple of months pregnant after having problems for many moons. Andre and I knew each other many years ago. In data, she was his best friend and worked very hard to sabotage our relationship. And in the end, it worked. He broke up with me after she caused some misunderstandings between us, making me believe that he was cheating. We went without contact for 6 years, and in those years, he dated her and got married to her. The marriage was horrible, and he was deeply unhappy. And we bumped into each other again once they separated. It was clear that the feelings were still there. We became friends and eventually had a conversation about why we broke up, which was when we realized that she had actually lied. They did not start dating until about 3 months after we broke up. Either way, I knew he was a married man, and I did not want to start something with a married man, even though I really liked him and his marriage was basically done. I have too many friends who have dated married men. Wasted years of their lives thinking that the man would leave their wife for them. Most of the time, they did not. I had already been heartbroken once because of her, and I was not about to go through that again. It's worth noting that she knew that I was back in town. I'd seen her many times, and she ignored me. But then she thought that I was having an affair with her husband and publicly shouted at me, calling me names. And I guess you could say that was the last straw. That night, he came to me and told me that he loved me and did not want to be with her anymore. I let him sleep on my couch while I thought about whether he was being genuine or not. The next morning, he filed for divorce. She was not pleased and did everything to beg him, but he was set on being with me. He moved in with his brother and left her at their house. And during the divorce, she revealed that she was pregnant and then tried to emotionally manipulate him so that he would stay with her. Well, he offered support but told her that he did not want her. After the divorce was finalized, she did everything she could to interrupt our relationship. It was like she could sense when we were together, and she would call him for the smallest things. Being the gentleman that he was, he would come running every single time. She knew that she had him right where she wanted him. She wanted me to break and leave so that she could use the baby to snare him back into her web again, but it didn't work. I started to help him take care of her, and he said that when he saw how selfless I was, he knew that he had to marry me. So then he did just that. The baby came about 2 weeks before our wedding, and we still got married but postponed the honeymoon. We've not gotten the chance to go on the honeymoon, but as soon as we get the chance, we are taking it. We planned to go for our anniversary, but once again she ruined everything. This time she's sick. While I cannot blame her for the diagnosis that she got, I think that she's milking it a tad bit too much.
A couple of days ago, she told us that she's been diagnosed with diabetes. She had a late diagnosis, so she was still very sick and had to spend some days in the hospital while her bld sugar was regulated. Tristan, her son, stayed with my mother-in-law and occasionally came to my house when she was in the hospital. My mother-in-law then told us that she was being discharged, but there was a small problem. She was still very weak and would need a lot of care. Her son was also too young, so she was going to have a bit of a hard time. She said she felt sorry for her and wanted to help in any way that she could. So she had a request for me. I said that it's okay if she wanted us to stay with Tristan while she recovered, but my mother-in-law said that Tristan was still too young and that he was attached to his mom. So she had another solution to this. I was open to any solution, so I listened while she told me this nonsense. She said that she wanted Pauline to move in with me and my husband until she got better. She was also not going to be working for a while, so she needed support. When she said that, I thought that she had to be out of her mind already. She's in my life and causes trouble when she can. Now imagine inviting her into my house. Words cannot describe how I feel about her. She's horrible to be around, and she hates me. She still has feelings for my husband, I know it. I told my mother-in-law that hl would freeze over before I let Pauline move in with us. She told me that I was being very selfish and Pauline was a mother, and she was going through something that I could not even imagine. "Where's your empathy? Stop being so selfish and actually help out!" she screamed at me. I hung up on her because I did not have the energy to deal with her emotional blackmail. As usual, she went to report me to her son, as if she thought that he could do anything about it. The house belongs to the two of us, and I've every right to refuse to stay with her. My husband said that it was not a bad idea. He begged me to reconsider and allow her to stay with us. It appeared that he had forgotten who she was and what she had done to us in the past. I reminded her of all the drama that she caused in our lives, but he said that she was his wife for 5 years, and of course, he still cares. It was like the wind had been knocked out of me. How could he still care when she's a rubbish person and manipulative? I could not bring her into my marriage. I don't trust her. For a person who was miserable in the last relationship, he sure does care a lot about her. He cares enough to even raise his voice at me. It appears he's never raised his voice at me in the past. I mean, yeah, we argue, but we like to keep a clear head and talk like mature adults. He told me that I was being selfish and that I did not care about TR. This is why I was being like that. He's mad. This has nothing to do with Tristan. I adore the little guy, and I understand that he's a part of my life, but I don't want peace in my house, and she does not bring peace. She brings violence. My husband and I have been just planning a lot over the past few months. We want to renovate, go on a vacation, and consider having children in a couple of years. Now, how are we supposed to do that when she's here? I hate her. I don't trust her. My sanity is slowly slipping away, and I'm also alarmed at the rate at which I've been smoking today. The entire pack is gone, and I think I'm going to start another one. I don't know what I must do. I mean, do you think that I should move out for a while so she could stay here and then move back in when she's gone? I still can't believe that my husband is. Being so selfish, update: she moved in, so I decided to relent and let her move in, but just for a short while until her health is better. She has to leave. I told Andre that the maximum I'll allow this is one month, and then she has to go. She's been staying with us for a month and a half now, and I know that she's fine. She doesn't have any more complications, but she's still staying here. I so want to kick her out, but I'll just be accused of being dramatic. The only release I get is when I visit my mom, so I convince on Sundays. My mother helps me to calm down, so she reminds me to be nice to her even though she's not nice to me. She's disrespectful and treats me like a maid. She cannot do basic things like cleaning up after herself, and I must do it. If I do not, then she complains to my husband, who then gets mad at me, and I feel bad. I don't want him to see me as a bad person, and there's Tristan involved, so I bite my tongue. I've been counting down the days until the end of the month so that she can leave. The time came and went, and I did not see her packing. She just got worse and complained about feeling weak. I was at work, and my husband was at home. I mean, imagine how triggered I was when I came back and saw him taking care of her. He was just feeding her soup while she was in bed when I walked in, and I brought her some food since she had to eat food that was healthy for her and free of sugar. I tried in all little ways that I could to make her feel comfortable. I can't be mean to sick people. I feel like a jrk when I'm mean to people who are sick. But seeing that reminded me that they used to be happily married. Worded, and I felt a stab of jealousy and anger in my heart. But hey, I let it go. If I started acting up, then my husband was going to just get well, pushed into her arms. She stayed for 2 weeks, and she does not show that she's about to leave. She also claims that it'll be difficult for her because the hospital is very far from her house, and she does not feel that she's ready to drive. Of course, I called bull crp on that. She has diabetes, but no eye problems or problem with their motor functions. This house is hl, and I hope that one day she'll just leave.
Update, guys: she's still here. There are many excuses, and my husband feels guilty about her condition. He thinks that being a single mother stressed her, and he did not do enough to support her. She's getting better, but she's still very annoying. But what she did today takes the cake. I think I want to leave and get some air. This house has slowly become toxic, and she's tried to ruin my marriage. I don't have proof, but what she did today is proof enough. I will not take this lying down. She doesn't know me, and I'm tired of her games. Unknown to me, she's been telling my husband that I'm cheating because I'm showing all the signs of a cheater. Spoiler alert: I'm not cheating. I was planning my anniversary, and now she's ruined the surprise. I have been planning my anniversary with the help of a party planner for months. I want something very elegant and beautiful that'll make us very special. I'm very obsessed with paying attention to details, so we've been talking every single day. Since it was a surprise, my husband was not supposed to find out about it, so I only talked to the planner, whose name is Franco, when my husband was not there and while he was asleep. Pauline clearly had too much time on her hands, and she decided to use that time to stalk me and report my activities to my husband. My car has a Tracker, and so does my husband. It's also very important to know where the other one is. I think we don't use the app that often, only when we think that the other's running late or we can't get a hold of each other. Well, she told my husband that I was meeting up with my boyfriend and told him where to go. She said that she had a source who saw me and Franco at the cafe and suspected that we were being too friendly. Franco's been working with me for years, and while we do have a casual relationship, we try to maintain professionalism at all times. My husband showed up in the middle of the meeting and accused me of cheating. Well, obviously, I tried to explain, but he said that he had been sneaking off and hiding text, and I denied it, but she spurred it on him to add insult to injury. My mother-in-law showed up, and she told me that she knew I was like this and that at least now her son knew the truth. I could not be trusted. I was so mad and told her to stay out of my business. My husband told me to shut up and told me that I needed to leave his house before the end of the day. Pauline did not even try to hide the smile on her face when it told me to get out. She looked so satisfied with herself, and I just wanted to slp that look off of her face. I told... Him to calm down. Franco was my planner because I was planning our anniversary. I showed my husband the files that were on the table, which detailed how I was planning it. Immediately, he turned pale and started to apologize. I was angry that he would even suspect this, believing the words of a well-known liar. I left them all standing there, got in my car, and drove off. I turned off the tracking app and just kept driving. Then the tears started to fall. I'd been so scared in that situation and so humiliated as well. How was I ever going to face Franco again after my husband accused him of such a disgusting act? We're so far along that I cannot afford to have someone else plan the anniversary now.
Well, anyways, guys, I slept in a motel and ignored all of my husband's calls and text messages. In the morning, I told him that we needed to talk about his ex-wife. He agreed, and we met up for coffee. What a waste of my time. He said that she was sorry and was really concerned, and he denied that she purposely did that to ruin our marriage. He then told me that she had also moved on but was uncomfortable with how I always saw her as a bad person. I thought that was all nonsense and that she was trying to drive a wedge between us. I also told him that she had stayed too long and needed to leave. He agreed and told me that she was going to also apologize to me. I got an apology text later in the afternoon, and I thought the issue was resolved. But when we got home, she was panicking. She said that Tristan was not waking up and his body was very heated, so she and my husband drove to the hospital, and they're still there. I know what he's going to say when he comes back. He doesn't want her to move out. I've seen how he loves spending time with his son, and since her staying with him for a while gives him time to spend with his son, he'll not let her go that easily. But I've tried. All that drama was for nothing. I was humiliated and accused of cheating, and all I got was a bland apology. My mother-in-law has been acting like nothing's happening and that my marriage is not under strain because of her. She supports Pauline all the time and does not care about me. I feel like she wants her son to get back with Pauline. Of course, people tell me that I'm just worried about nothing. When I tell them, but I have a feeling that she wants that. I don't care about what she or Pauline want, though. They will not succeed. My husband and I will come out stronger in this. I have a very good feeling about it.
Updates: Yesterday, my husband and I had an anniversary dinner with some of our family and close friends. In a couple of days, we're leaving for a week-long holiday on an island. Both of us have already had our leave days approved, and this is also going to be our official honeymoon since we never had one. Our extended family is large, and we have quite a few friends, so what I had planned to be a dinner quickly turned into a small party. I should have been happy after all. Everything turned out well. My planner had not abandoned me after my husband caused all that drama. But my day was not going as well as I wanted it to, and the fault belonged to my mother-in-law, Pauline, of course, but because there were guests, I could not say anything. I never gave a moment to sit down because if there was any minor inconvenience, I was called. Never mind the fact that I hired people to work at the party, but every time something happened, it always appeared that the servers were busy. Instead of doing things on her own and not bothering me every chance that they could, they called me all the time. It was getting very annoying, and all I wanted was for everyone to leave so that I could rest. I did not show my exhaustion to my husband, though. I knew it would end up in a fight, and I did not want us to fight because of those two. That's when I began to suspect that they were actually in cahoots just to try to ruin my anniversary. This was, after all, the first anniversary of the woman who "ruined" her marriage, as she likes to call it. Everyone knows that the marriage was already over by the time I came around. If she wants something more accurate, she would remember that she broke us up the first time with her lies. I played music in my head every time she talked to me and pretended to care when in reality I did not. They were draining, and I needed to take a break. It was then that I noticed my dress was stained, and we had not even taken the picture yet. My mother-in-law pointed it out and said that it looked like I was at a kid's birthday party and that Tristan looked even neater than me. Pauline joined her in laughing. That was the last straw. I was out of this, so I disappeared for over an hour. Well, I went to sit at the back of the house, and we had a swing set there. It was there that we got to the house, and I sat there while I tried to calm myself down and tell myself that this was not the end of the world. Even if my wedding anniversary was not going the way that I wanted, I told myself that my mother did not raise a quitter. Got up.. And went back to the anniversary. Then I went upstairs to put my backup dress on. It was not as pretty as the one I wanted to wear, but hey, it is what it is. As I was exiting the room, I saw something strange. She did not see me because I was rounding the corner, but it was Pauline. She was eating the cake, the one with sugar. I'd gotten a sugar-free cake for everyone who did not eat sugar, but the cake that she was eating was the chocolate cake I bought, which was loaded with calories. I thought fast and took a picture of her. She looked around, polished off the cake, and went back to the party. I followed shortly after and heard some commotion outside. I went to check, only to find the kids playing. But then something caught my eye. They were playing with a plastic bag. I took the bag and was shocked to find Pauline's medication. I asked them who put it there, and they said that they saw her throw it in there. I opened up the bag and started checking everything. She had tons of bottles of insulin, and she also had different injections, all of which were not open. I checked the dates on some of her prescriptions, and it showed that this was medication for several months. This meant one thing and one thing only: she wasn't taking her medicine. How did she expect to get better if she did not take her medicine and ate cake? I needed to tell my husband so that he would know that she was irresponsible and was not interested in recovery. I knew that she was well something else, but this was top-level stupidity right here. Because I was not about to make a scene and let her ruin my anniversary even more, I stored the medication in a safe location and then went back to the party. About an hour later, the party ended. The cleaners were about to come tomorrow, so there was not much to do but sleep. My mother-in-law said that she was going to leave and be back the next day, but I asked her to stay, saying that it was too late for her to be traveling, and we had enough beds. She agreed wholeheartedly to sleep over, falling for my trap.
The next morning at breakfast, where everyone was present, I asked Pauline if she enjoyed the cake. She said yes, it might have been sugar-free, but it was tasty. I said, "No, no, no, not that one, the one that I told her that she could not eat because it had lots of sugar, you know, the chocolate cake." She laughed and said that she did not eat the chocolate cake. My husband told me to let it go, so I showed him the photo. "What is this, Pauline?" I said. "I'm sorry, it was just a cheat meal." She tried to look innocent, but I rolled my eyes, and she was quick to think on her feet. But there was no way that she was going to be able to explain this one. I showed them the medications and explained that she never once took them and that she's been throwing them away. She was speechless, opening and closing her mouth like a goldfish. She tried to say something so many times, anything to explain that she had been irresponsible and was not taking her medicine. But then she pointed at his mom. "She told me to fake the condition so that I could get back together with you." I'll let you guys know what happened in a bit. I'm being called in for a meeting at work.
Update: Hey, I just had an opportunity to upload and then go back into the meeting, but I'm back now. Let me tell you what happened next. My husband got up and toppled the chair that he was sitting on. He was silent for a moment, and then he started, well, calling her crazy. He said he could not believe that she took advantage of his hospitality. "We aren't even ever getting back together. You're terrible for my mental health. I have a wife that I love, but you do not respect that." She just looked down, and for once, she was dumb and had nothing to say. My mother-in-law tried to calm her son down and tell him that, well, there was a misunderstanding, but he simply ignored her. I suspected it, my love, especially when she tried to make it look like I was cheating. I added fuel to the fire because why not? That witch was well on the hot stove today, and I was going to make sure that she did not wiggle out of this one. She said that she loved him and missed him, and that was what she did. I told her that she was just trying to seem innocent, and I then asked her what role my mother-in-law played in this, and she gave me the answer. My mother-in-law did not like me; she preferred Pauline because they had a stronger bond and she felt that I stole him from Pauline and did not want Pauline to be sad, so they faked her diabetes and brought her back into the house so that she could have me kicked out and replaced. Clearly, that didn't work because they were now exposed. "She's lying; she acted on her own," my mother-in-law tried to save her skin. It was very funny to watch them turn on each other now that the truth was revealed. I have the text to prove it," she said as she scrolled through the phone. We read through the text, which confirmed that she was right. I told them that when we got back from work, they better not be in our house, and they tried to beg us, but my husband told them that when we got home, they'd better be nowhere to be found. Then tomorrow is our last day of work before we finally go on our vacation.
Final Update: 2 months later. Hey, guys, sorry I've been a stranger. Some things have been happening lately, and it's just a bit crazy. We had a wonderful week away where our love was once again rekindled with all the misunderstandings sorted out. We had a clear vision. One thing we agreed upon was that Pauline was not a fit mother and was in danger of Tristan. We also agreed that within a year or two, we would have another child to keep Tristan company. We came back from the honeymoon all smiles, and his mom and ex left us many messages, each one ranting about the other. We ignored them and instead consulted with the lawyer about getting custody of Tristan. When she found out we wanted to take her child from her, she lost it and broke a window in her house. Cameras across the street caught it, and we used it as evidence that she was not emotionally stable. Well, there was also an investigation into how she managed the fake diabetes. I wasn't really involved in all of that though. As long as she was caught, I didn't care. But I do know that she and my mother-in-law got community service and a fine. They were lucky that they did not get jail time because the crime they committed was a very serious one. But Pauline's luck ran out, for she lost custody of her child. If she ever wants to see him, then she asked to see him with my husband's permission. Andre is not her biggest fan right now and will not even entertain the idea of her seeing Tristan. He's also banned his mom from our house and refuses to talk to her. She's tried to explain, but it's clear that she's lying. Maybe if she told the truth, the truth would set her free, and he would be more inclined to forgive her. Living with Tristan has been wonderful. I feel like a real mom, and our bond is growing stronger. I mean, he loves playing games with his father, and he likes the food that I make. He's been teething lately, so he's not feeling that well, but the doctor gave us some stuff to use on him. Being a mom is fulfilling, and Pauline took that for granted. Now she has no Andre and no Tristan, and I hope that this is a lesson to her that lying and scheming will get her nowhere. I'm so relieved that she's finally out of our lives after using us for months. She just does not know how to stop or how to respect people's boundaries. I still cannot wrap my head around what she did, and she managed to fool us so easily. Well, that'll never happen again. And at least now my husband's aware of just how dangerous she is. Well, what's next for us? I have no idea, but I know it does not include a crazy baby mama.
f**k hell
Can you guys believe the audacity behind mother-in-law and Pauline? I mean, that was absolutely ridiculous to the fact that they would just plot this entire thing to try to break up Op's marriage. I mean, how much more toxic can you have someone in your life? I mean, guys, I want to know your exact thoughts about this story. Say, for instance, you were in Op's position and your life is a living hl with these two people in it, and Paen is just faking it this whole time, and you finally found out what happened. What do you do? Drop your comments down below. Thank you for joining me on today's video. And if you guys are new to the channel, f**k
