02/26/2026
Do you remember the first time you sat down at a dim sum table and didn’t know where to start?
I had the privilege of having dim sum with my family in Hong Kong as a kid. Dim sum 點心roughly translates to “point to your heart.” I learned about dim sum from osmosis - it was something I never paid too much attention to. The main idea is that there has to be har gow, siu mai, and cheong fun. “Yum cha” 飲茶 is the term we use to describe going to get dim sum. “Yum cha” literally translates to “drink tea.”. When I was a kid, going yum cha meant playtime with my cousins while the “adults” ate and chatted for 3 hours. I didn’t care about the food. My mom would make me eat a few bites, and I was off.
But after moving to the States, I realized I had taken the weekend dim sum gatherings for granted: the food, the unsupervised playtime, and, most importantly, time with my grandparents. Dim sum speaks to me differently since then. I also learn to appreciate how the dishes are made, and the fact that they actually “point to your heart.” Even my dad spoke of yum cha in my wedding speech. (Okay, I’m not crying, you are!😭)
My grandparents are long gone, and I have now lived in the States for over 30 years. Thanks to the Chinese diaspora, which has been opening dim sum restaurants here, the quality of dim sum in the States is impressive. If you haven’t tried dim sum, give it a go! I promise it’s a unique dining experience. I’ve curated a guide to these “gateway” classics—the ones that defined my childhood and maybe some of yours.
Swipe through for a dose of nostalgia and a deep dive into the essentials.