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Today’s Sunday reading hit me differently.Many times we wonder why men of God or people we admire still remain close to ...
09/21/2025

Today’s Sunday reading hit me differently.
Many times we wonder why men of God or people we admire still remain close to the rich—even those we think live wrongly. But today’s reading gave me another perspective.

It said: if you make wealth through illegal means, make good friends with it, so that when it fails you, you’ll have a place to fall back on. At first glance, it sounds like an endorsement of wrongdoing. But if you look closely, there’s wisdom in it.

Think about it: an evil man who still keeps company with good people stands a greater chance of repentance than one who cuts himself off. That person who knows he’s living wrongly but still comes to church is reminded every day that something isn’t right. And when trouble eventually comes, he may remember God and find the courage to start afresh. But the one who completely stays away from the presence of God is the one most likely to give up entirely—even to the point of taking his own life.

So here’s my reflection and question for us: as Christians, should we cut off completely from a brother or friend because his ways are impure, or should we keep the door of friendship open—using every opportunity to remind him that God is always waiting with open arms?

This, I believe, is worth thinking about.
What do u think?

My brother please some weekends, give your wife break from kitchen and take over. She will appreciate it greatly. Let he...
09/21/2025

My brother please some weekends, give your wife break from kitchen and take over. She will appreciate it greatly. Let her be on bed while you get food ready for the family. Hspppy Sunday

Yesterday, my child asked me a question that got me thinking. I was at my desk working when she came up and said she had...
09/18/2025

Yesterday, my child asked me a question that got me thinking. I was at my desk working when she came up and said she had a question for me. I said, “Ok, shoot.” Guess what she asked?

“Can you put me on TV just for money?”

At first, I was lost. So I asked her, “Why do you ask?” She replied, “Just answer me first.”

So I said, “No. I cannot put you on TV just to make money.” You needed to see the glow on her face when I said that. She smiled and said, “Yes, you answered right.”

That moment shook me. I went ahead to explain to her: “If you love it and want to be on TV, I can support you. But I will never put you there just because I want you to make money for me. You are a child — it’s not your duty to make money for me. It’s my responsibility to provide for you. Your only duty is to be a child.”

Her question made me reflect on how some parents use their kids for content creation. These children are placed in front of cameras day in, without thinking of hiw they feel.

Before you decide to create content with your child just for money, think about the long-term effect. Is this really what your child wants? Is it truly beneficial to them? Or are you simply doing it because of social media money?

If the only reason is money, let’s call it what it is: child labour.
Please lets allow kids be kids and not take away their childhood by subjecting them to scripted life

Someone should please console me over the lose of my delicious coconut rice. I have not football the mind to bury it but...
09/16/2025

Someone should please console me over the lose of my delicious coconut rice. I have not football the mind to bury it but finally I have to let go . Imagine making this delicious coconut rice on Saturday night for Sunday only to wake up on Sunday morning to realise that it has gone soar. The heat that weekend was too much. I could not put it in the fridge after cooking because it was late in the night and still hot.

This thing has been paining me ee. I had to put it in the fridge like that but today, I finally decided to trash it as there is no remedy .

Somebody should just tell me to stop crying.

09/15/2025

The only reason why we find it hard to forgive ourself for our mistakes is pride.
We think we are so perfect to make a mistake

A couple who wedded on Saturday did not attend their thanksgiving mass today because they fought on their wedding day an...
09/14/2025

A couple who wedded on Saturday did not attend their thanksgiving mass today because they fought on their wedding day and are yet to talk to each others
Husband abandoned the wife at the hotel reception. Abeg, how many years this marriage go last?

This children dragged me to the gym yesterday , now all my mys le is paining me.
09/14/2025

This children dragged me to the gym yesterday , now all my mys le is paining me.

They said we should start going to the gym.
09/13/2025

They said we should start going to the gym.

It’s not yet winter but house is already getting cold. Thank God I have balcony to enjoy sun. See the kind hair wey oyib...
09/11/2025

It’s not yet winter but house is already getting cold. Thank God I have balcony to enjoy sun.

See the kind hair wey oyibo people cut me. Collect my 35$ and dis this on my head.

Pepper soup indomea
09/11/2025

Pepper soup indomea

The way notable Igbo women with even “good marriages” are now lending their voices against wrong notions about marriage ...
09/11/2025

The way notable Igbo women with even “good marriages” are now lending their voices against wrong notions about marriage — I honestly see it as a good thing.

For too long, Igbo women were told that marriage means endless patience while the man is free to do as he pleases. News flash: today’s woman is no longer buying that crap.

I was on Chioma Ifeanyi-Ezeh’s page and saw her calling out Igbo men. This is a woman we all know has a loving husband, but that has not blinded her to the reality on ground. And I’m honestly glad more notable Igbo women are lending their voices.

Most of our Igbo brothers have a lot of unlearning to do. For too long, Igbo women were told marriage is patience while the man is free to do as he pleases. News flash: today’s woman is no longer buying that crap. Women are now prioritizing themselves and encouraging others to do the same.

I see some people defending and saying Chioma is stereotyping Igbo men. But let’s be honest — it is not stereotyping. Igbo women actually suffer this the more because in Igbo land, divorce is treated like a taboo. A Yoruba woman can marry five times and have kids in each marriage and nobody cares. A Hausa woman can divorce at will. But an Igbo woman? They will insult you, insult your family, and keep you trapped. Maybe religion amplified it too, since we are told “marriage is for better for worse.”

That’s why I keep telling even my own blood brothers: if you are not ready to treat a woman with fairness, dignity, and respect, then be ready for one of two things — “secondary singleness” (because she will leave you) or frustration in the marriage (because women these days no longer give a damn).

Marriage in our time is no longer about fear — it is about partnership. ✨

The way food stuff is getting expensive these days ee. Imagine buying this 2$.
09/09/2025

The way food stuff is getting expensive these days ee. Imagine buying this 2$.

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