09/11/2026
Nobody warns you how strange it feels to watch your last child practice walking across a stage that means the house is about to go quiet for good. She is proud, genuinely, deeply proud, and grieving at the exact same time in a way that does not make logical sense but feels completely true anyway. 🎓
She has stopped trying to choose between the two feelings. Grief and joy were never meant to cancel each other out. They can exist together, side by side, the same way they have for every mother watching a child step into the next chapter while she quietly steps into one of her own.
Has a milestone with your child ever brought both pride and grief at the very same time?