Kay Katt

06/02/2025

Parenting hack for your bathroom break!

05/29/2025

Ignore that first invite yall may have got to “life with Kay Katt” instead follow just “Kay Katt” I’m trying a new app thing and I messed up lol

03/23/2025

I’m sure it is true

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐇𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠: 𝐋𝐞𝐭'𝐬 𝐁𝐞 𝐇𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭🎓💰

You can pull a lot of thoughts from this meme, but here's one that 𝐧𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐭: the parent’s (often mom’s) 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝.

A secular system built for broad application will 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 replicate what sacrificial love does for a family. 💕 Homeschooling doesn't cost just $1K per year, per child, not even close. And that's while still 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 the cost of 24/7 labor behind it.

𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥. And just like any other educational institution, it comes with real costs:

✔ 𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 🏡
✔ 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 🏥
✔ 𝐅𝐨𝐨𝐝 🍽️
✔ 𝐄𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐲 💡
✔ 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐭 & 𝐓𝐞𝐜𝐡 💻
✔ 𝐆𝐚𝐬 & 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 🚗
✔ 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐂𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 ❄️🔥
✔ 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐔𝐩𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 📚
✔ 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐄𝐱𝐚𝐦𝐬 & 𝐓𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 🩺
✔ 𝐂𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐅𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐩 🍳
✔ 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐡 & 𝐒𝐞𝐰𝐚𝐠𝐞 🚮

That's 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 🍎➡️🍎

But this isn't just about financial numbers. This meme obscures the deeper 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 as well.

When parents 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 take on 𝟏𝟎𝟎% of a child's 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 and 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠, (𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥, 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥, 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬, 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥, 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥) they are choosing 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐬 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞.

And if the 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 can't admit that, then we have a problem—whether it's rooted in 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 or an indication that some families aren't actually putting in quality work. Both of those are troublesome, and both need to be called out.

— 𝐆𝐮𝐠 🖊️

#𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐆𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐃𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 ✍️ #𝐅𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 🤔 #𝐇𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 📚 #𝐇𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐌𝐨𝐦 👩‍🏫 #𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬 🔎

03/23/2025

I am by NO means AT all a perfect parent but that doesnt mean i havent learned a lot in my life about parenting and children and their behavior..a lot of parents do not realize the impact the SMALLEST things can have on children..
Yes every child is different and every thing impacts children in different ways as well… however it is important for parents to know what things CAN impact a child in negative ways…
Once again for the people who don’t read and always jump to conclusions it CAN impact negatively it doesn’t ALWAYS impact negatively….
For example….

1.Making a child finish every single thing on their plate when they eat CAN lead to an adult who forces themselves to finish everything even when they are full and then they have problems with weight and losing weight etc… they also feel anxiety when it comes to people seeing them eat etc.. it’s great to teach a child not to waist food but it’s not cool to force them to eat when they are full OR when they don’t like something! I’m not saying anything along the lines of don’t teach them to not waist or that they should eat good foods and try new things… of course that needs to be done but force feeding kids is weird behavior… teach them about portions and how to keep from wasting in the future and it will have a way better outcome

2. Making children hug you or other family members… or kiss…. This SOMETIMES and A LOT of times CAN lead to adults who are afraid to say no to the opposite s*x coming on to them or any s*x for that matter… they think they have to let people touch them or they will upset them or they feel obligated to let people physically disrespect them and that they have to smile n pretend to enjoy it…

3. Talking about your body negatively infront of your kids (I’m guilty of this)… this is super important for girls and their mothers! (Yes boys too but girls are held to a high beauty standard) by looking in the mirror saying “I’m f@t” or “I’m u9ly” your children start picking them behaviors up and start becoming negative about any and all their body parts especially ones they have been bullied about or they dislike themselves…

4. Kind of like number 1… the same applies for talking about yourself in general, like…. “I’m stvpid” or “I’m worthless” etc

5. Telling kids that if another kid of the opposite s*x picks on them or bullies them that they have a “crush” on them… this teaches that it’s ok to accept abuse and that abuse is a good thing… then they grow up thinking being pvnched in the face by their partner is ok as long as they love you or like you and show that too!

6. Making kids go to bed hungry… this is absolutely absurd idc WHAT a child does, keeping food from children is not ok for any reason… they end up not getting good sleep on an empty stomach which can affect learning and school the next day due to lack of good sleep and being tired and if they miss breakfast being tired and hungry even more so!

7. Using exercise as punishment… kids will grow up hating exercise due to the fact it was always forced on them and it is now a form of “bad” in their mind.. they will hate doing it and avoid it and in return can end up never wanting to do it.

There is a million more things I could say but those r the ones I see a lot or hear about a lot
Like I said… AGAIN, this does NOT apply to everyone that goes through this stuff but it CAN apply to many…

03/22/2025

Exploring the new and chunking the old

03/18/2025

Omgggg

03/17/2025