Gentleman Within

09/18/2025

Activate Matrix mode on your Casio F-91W and determine whether or not it's authentic!

09/16/2025

There are many types of jackets for sartorial minded gents to experiment with, and (in my opinion) these are the best jackets for men that you’ll definitely want to know about this year.

I’ve written extensively about various types of men’s jackets, namely two classic styles, the denim jacket and the bomber jacket.

In this article I break down the 5 best fall and winter jackets for men, how to wear them (style guide) and where you can buy them at different price points. I’ve updated all jackets for 2025 and beyond.

These casual jackets are my top 5 men’s jacket styles that I feel are equal parts seasonally appropriate, versatile and stylish.

There are many types of jackets to experiment with from the bomber jacket, to leather jacket, denim jacket, harrington jacket, and field jacket – which round out my top 5.

09/14/2025

Are the AE Daltons worth it? Find out in half a minute.

09/14/2025

📈 3 Way to Get Rich (Slowly)

There's been a significant shift, especially since the pandemic, with more Americans directly owning stocks (jumping from 15% to 21% in three years, the largest increase on record).

This period saw an explosion of "amateur trading," driven by factors like anxiety and stimulus checks.

Many people, particularly Gen Z, now seek investing advice online, on platforms like YouTube and TikTok, often encountering unregulated advice and "get rich quick" schemes.

Many people are asking "how to get rich quick", and those online platforms showcase finfluencers and their rapid gains, such as turning $527 into over $100,000 with a meme coin.

So what are we to do in a world that's seeking to "get rich quick"?

Do the opposite.

1. Prioritize Long-Term Investing

Instead of chasing quick gains from volatile assets like meme coins or NFTs, focus on buying and holding long-term investments.

Think in terms of years, not days or weeks. Resist the urge to trade in and out of the market based on short-term fluctuations or online hype.

This aligns with the principle of compounding, allowing money to grow over time.

2. Be Skeptical of "Get Rich Quick" Schemes

If something "sounds like easy money," it might be a scam. The internet is full of people "lying about their returns" and promoting "pump and dump" schemes.

Before acting on any financial advice found online, research the source, look for evidence of bias, and cross-reference information from multiple reliable sources. Be especially wary of anything promising guaranteed quick returns.

3. Start Investing Early and Consistently

The best advice is to start now and invest on a regular basis. Set up an automatic transfer to an investment account, even if it's a small amount like $50 per month, into a diversified fund like an S&P 500 index fund. Dollar cost average (DCA) is your friend.

09/12/2025

🤫 Quiet Confidence Beats Boasting Any Day

Confidence is desirable. It shows you know what you stand for, you’re clear on your goals, and most of all, you have a positive relationship with yourself.

There are different kinds of confident behavior, though. While one man might boast about all his achievements, talk so loud no one else can get a word in, and display his dominance in an aggressive manner, the other can just sit quietly, say what he truly means, and get the girl anyway.

Why, I hear you ask?

From a scientific point of view, women actually prefer to go for calm, collected guys. This is because the stress hormone cortisol has a negative impact on the immune system and reproductive functions, making stressed-out guys worse potential partners.

In one study, women found low-cortisol men more attractive than high-cortisol ones, no matter how different their levels of testosterone were.

Yet another study has shown that women find confidence and assertiveness attractive, but rarely include dominance as one of their preferences. This essentially means you should be confident in your own skin but avoid asserting dominance every time you walk in the door.

What’s more, quiet confidence gives you three things that aggressive dominance doesn’t:

• Class
• Mystery
• Manners

And trust me, if there’s someone women would fall head over the heels for, it’s a classy mysterious man with good manners.

09/09/2025

The white sneaker has earned a spot in every stylish man’s wardrobe. Let me show you how to wear white sneakers and the best places to buy them.

First let’s start off with some of the best white sneakers on the market at three different price points for every budget. Some are trendy as ever, some are classics and there are a few hidden gems.

The white sneaker has earned a spot in every stylish man's wardrobe. This article shows you how to wear white sneakers & where to buy them.

09/07/2025

💬 The Best Opening Line

When first meeting someone, whether at a conference or social gathering, what's the best opening line?

I've found that you can say literally anything, because it's not as important what you say, but in how you say it, so long as it puts the other person at ease and sounds passionate.

In fact, 80% of your listener's impression has nothing to do with your words. People will tune into your tone more than your text.

So instead of thinking about what to say, focus on the way you say it to make the best impression.

09/05/2025

A quintessential item for my summer, a refresher during my spring, a bracing backbone to a fall, and a warming hint of home in the winter, vodka is truly an evergreen spirit.

Skilled in the subtle, master of commingling, and sometimes tarted up with a flavor infusion, vodka is one of the most pure and innocent spirits but is perfectly adaptable to almost any occasion.

With a slight flavor profile and crisp finish, I encourage all of you to give vodka the attention it deserves. Much like its more spicy cousin tequila, vodka is often lambasted and abused through a lens of poor college-age decisions.

However, this gives the entire branch of spirits a bad rap. If we don’t let Jack Daniels ruin whisky for us (more on that later, don’t worry), then we shouldn’t let vodka named after some unpronounceable Russian author deter us from enjoying the more mature and invigorating options surrounding us.

What follows is a brief outline of all the exciting and, believe it or not, different flavors and forms even a straight vodka can take. Truly a flavor based in nuance, vodkas primarily have an impact based on their base grain, how many times they’ve been distilled, and how they were produced.

Vodka is fascinating in that it can be distilled from any organic material (there’s one made of oysters!) and takes its flavor from the ingredients while not having an aging process like brown liquors. Vodka can also be produced anywhere in the world, which gives it a much more international vibe. With even a little practice, you’ll be able to confidently pick out any of the major vodkas from a blind lineup.

The primary focus of this article is to highlight what I think is both good for the flavor and good for the price. As always, I aim to highlight spirits that are find-able at almost any liquor store and affordable for, hopefully all. Vodka, unfortunately more so than almost any other type of spirit, is ranked in the popular imagination based on the success of their various ad agencies.

Think, after all, of how many other spirits run such incessant ad campaigns as Grey Goose, Kettle One, etc. So, buckle up, and get your cocktail shaker ready. It’s time to explore some vodka.

Want to know our picks for the best bourbons drinks? Read on to find out the lucky 7 and what makes them certified classics.

09/02/2025

If you asked me to write this article just a handful of years ago, I’d say – “are ya kidding me?”. But things have changed…

Birkenstocks aren’t just sandals – they’re a lifestyle statement. Whether you’re into classic menswear, quiet luxury, or normcore minimalism, there’s a pair of Birks that might work for you. This guide breaks it all down. No fluff, just style intel.

In 2025, fashion is shifting. After a decade of sneaker obsession, men are rediscovering footwear that offers both style and longevity. Birkenstocks deliver both. They’ve gone from hippie staple to runway favorite, and today they’re as likely to be seen with a linen suit as they are with swim trunks.

Everything you need to know about men's Birkenstocks in 2025. Styles, sizing, outfits, care tips & which Birks are worth buying.

08/31/2025

💸 Money Reveals You, Not Reinvents You

They say money changes people. But here’s the truth:

Money doesn’t change who you are. It just amplifies it.

If you’re generous, more money gives you more ways to give.

If you’re reckless, more money gives you more ways to wreck.

If you’re disciplined? Now you’re dangerous, in the best way.

So the real flex isn’t waiting until you're rich to figure it out – it’s learning to act like a wealthy man before your bank account catches up.

💡 Money Habit

Track just one thing this week: Emotional Spending.

Every time you buy something (online, in-person, even a coffee), ask:

Was I bored?
Was I anxious?
Was it for validation or comfort?
Or was it intentional and aligned with my values?
You don’t need a budgeting app. Just open your Notes app and jot it down.

Awareness → Control → Growth.
You’ll be surprised how many of your purchases are emotional reflexes – not actual needs.

08/29/2025

Let's unlock the secret to looking your best: dressing for your body type.

No matter your shape — tall, short, slim, athletic, or stocky — this guide breaks down how to choose clothes that flatter your frame.

Just a quick 3-minute read and you'll have the tools to dress with confidence.

Let's get started!

Tall & Lean: Add Balance

Have a lanky frame? Focus on adding visual bulk and breaking up your height.

Key Staples

Structured blazers, slim or skinny fit chinos, and sturdy shoes like brogues or white sneakers.

Pro Tips

• Avoid Monochrome: Use contrasting colors to break up your silhouette.
• No Vertical Stripes: Stripes on a talk, skinny man produces an even more slender frame than you already have.
• Go Slim: Slim or even skinny jeans are your go-to.
• Layer Up: Combine jackets and sweaters to add dimension.
• Mind The Details: A crisp cuff of your pants is adds layers to your look.
Short & Slim: Create Height

Smaller frame? Use clothing to elongate your silhouette and add presence.

Key Staples

Slim-fit suits, vertical stripes, monochromatic outfits, and slightly pointed-toe shoes.

Pro Tips
• Go Monochrome: Single-color outfits create a streamlined look.
• Keep It Fitted: Avoid oversized clothes that overwhelm your frame.
• Clean Lines: Pants with a straight taper from the thighs down towards the ankle keeps things clean.
• Raise the Waistline: Higher-waisted trousers elongate your legs.
Shorter & Stocky: Streamline & Lengthen

Muscular or stocky build? Streamline your look to appear taller and leaner.

Key Staples

Well fitted basic tees, solid colors, lightweight fabrics, and simple accessories.

Pro Tips

• Dark Colors: Navy or black slims your silhouette.
• Avoid Bulk: Skip heavy fabrics or oversized patterns.
• Tailored Focus: A perfect fit flatters your build.
• No Break: Your pants shouldn't spill over your ankles. In fact, you can opt for a more trendy no-break hemline as it makes you appear taller.
Athletic Build: Enhance Proportions

Have a more athletic, muscular frame? Highlight your versatility with tailored classics.

Key Staples

Tailored blazers, slim-fit jeans, fitted sweater polo, and versatile derbies or loafers.

Pro Tips

• Emphasize Fit: Tailored clothes enhance your natural, toned shape.
• Play with Texture: Mix wool, cotton, or linen for depth.
• Balance Colors: Pair bold pieces with neutrals for polish.
Larger Build: Flatter & Streamline

Working with a larger frame? Focus on clean lines, minimal bulk, and strategic fits to look sharp.

Key Staples

Dark, single-breasted suits, lightweight fabrics, pattern play, and structured jackets.

Pro Tips

• Go Dark: Dark colors and simple patterns are slimming.
• Avoid Too Tight Fits: Opt for more relaxed or structured, not skin-tight, clothing.
• Use Layers Strategically: Lightweight, streamlined layers can add style without bulk.
Universal Tips for All Body Types

No matter your shape, these rules elevate your style:

• Tailoring is King: A custom fit makes any outfit look premium.

• Simplify Patterns: Stick to subtle patterns to avoid overwhelming your frame.

• Choose Quality Fabrics: Lightweight, breathable materials like wool or cotton work for all builds.

• Own Your Confidence: Wear what makes you feel unstoppable. Confidence is your best accessory.
TL;DR: Key Takeaways

Dress for your body type to highlight strengths and balance proportions.

• Tall & Lean: Add bulk, layer up, avoid vertical stripes, break up height with contrasting colors.

• Short & Slim: Go monochrome, keep clothes fitted, use vertical lines, raise waistlines to elongate legs.

• Short & Stocky: Streamline with dark colors, tailored fits, and lightweight fabrics; avoid bulky patterns.

• Athletic: Emphasize fit, play with textures, balance bold colors with neutrals.

• Larger Build: Stick to dark, structured, relaxed-but-fitted clothing; layer strategically without adding bulk.

• For all: Get used to tailoring, simplify patterns, choose quality materials, and wear it with confidence.

08/26/2025

Whether you’re in your 20s or 60s, dressing your age is about confidence, quality, and intention.

Here’s how to nail down your style at every stage of life. Let’s keep it sharp and quick.

First things first though...

Why Dressing Your Age Matters

Your style should reflect your life stage. Your goals, achievements, and vibe. It’s not about rigid rules but about projecting authenticity.

Dressing your age means owning your look with purpose, whether you’re hustling in your 20s or embracing elegance in your 60s.

Your 20s: Experiment & Build

This is your decade to play with style and lay a solid foundation.

Key Staples

Stock up on classic tees (white, navy, black), slim, straight or relaxed fit chinos, dark jeans, a navy blazer, and versatile shoes like brown brogues and white sneakers.

Pro Tips

• Try Bold Colors: Use the color wheel (analogous, complementary) for vibrant, cohesive looks.
• Focus on Fit: Well-fitted clothes show off your physique.
• Build Versatility: Create a capsule wardrobe with mix-and-match pieces.
Your 30s: Refine & Upgrade

Refine your style with quality pieces that scream “I’ve got this.”

Key Staples

Invest in tailored suits (navy, charcoal), premium fabrics (wool, cashmere), and signature accessories like a quality watch or leather belt.

Pro Tips

• Declutter: Ditch outdated pieces that don’t fit your vibe.
• Grooming Matters: A neat haircut and skincare routine elevate your look.
• Skip Trends: Stick to timeless pieces for lasting impact.
Your 40s: Master Sophistication

You’re established. Your wardrobe should reflect that with polished, confident choices.

Key Staples

Go for structured suits, high-quality athleisure (Twillory, Vuori), premium accessories (luxury watch, briefcase), and classic outerwear like a wool overcoat.

Pro Tips

• Tailor Everything: Perfect fit is non-negotiable.
• Layer Smart: Pair blazers with sweaters for depth.
• Store Properly: Use suit bags and cedar shoe trees to keep clothes pristine.
Your 50s, 60s, & Beyond: Timeless Elegance

Embrace comfort and individuality while staying stylish.

Key Staples

Stick to tailored classics (navy blazer, white dress shirt), comfy fabrics (cotton, wool), statement accessories like a fedora or pocket square and braces (suspenders).

Pro Tips

• Dress for You: Wear what boosts your confidence.
• Adapt to Occasions: Tailor outfits for work or leisure.
• Add Flair: Experiment with textures or a bold tie for personality.
Universal Style Rules

No matter your age, these tips keep you looking sharp:

• Avoid Youthful Trends: Don’t chase looks that don’t fit your stage.
• Invest in Quality: Fewer, better-made pieces last longer.
• Tailor, Tailor, Tailor: Fit is everything.
• Shoes Matter: Keep them polished and in top shape.
• Details Count: A pocket square or quality belt makes a difference.
• Stay Fresh: Refresh your wardrobe with timeless staples when they've worn out.

TL;DR: Key Takeaways

Dressing Your Age Matters: Align your style with your life stage to project authenticity, maturity, and confidence.

20s: Experiment with colors and patterns, build a versatile wardrobe with staples like tees, chinos, blazers, and focus on fit.

30s: Refine your style with tailored suits, quality fabrics, and grooming; declutter and avoid trends.

40s: Master sophistication with structured suits, premium accessories, and thoughtful layering; invest in storage and tailoring.

50s, 60s, & Beyond: Embrace timeless elegance with classic pieces, comfortable fabrics, and personal flair; dress for confidence.

Universal Tips: Prioritize quality, tailoring, and details; keep shoes polished, update your wardrobe, and wear everything with confidence.