
08/02/2025
I did not set out to be the family obituary writer. But in my first job at the old Today's Spirit daily newspaper in Hatboro, 40+ years ago, the only open writing jobs were weather stories and obits.
Few are prepared for the loss of a loved one, and even fewer can write about that person while grieving. Here's what I've learned...
Get the core information correct, and remember that memories and stories are also very important.
Core information: Name, age, hometown, spouse, survivors.
Signature stories: What was she/he passionate about? Get descriptive. Be colorful.
Legacy. What was she/he known for?
Examples: Served the homeless, had the best decorations on Halloween, snappy dresser, beautiful church singer, loved to pull scary pranks…
Option to include a cause/causes people can donate to instead of flowers.
Photos of lisianthus and pansies gifted to me (via a Garden Club gift card by my bff) after the passing of my father last December. I ordered plant plugs and planted them in May.