Nechi Victor's Blog

06/07/2025

It's been ages

The same set I met Late Actor Junior Pope, I also met Sir Tammy Opusunju (AFUNWA in Shina Rambo ) when we dropped off at now Royal Paradise and Suites Hotel Awka to get some refreshments.

He literally made me feel at home that I forgot I was with a celebrity for the whole time we discussed.

His presence was soothing and full of genuineness.

I saw a man who doesn't care about title and status, a man who understands humanity and stands for it.

A man who never treated me like some nobody, but accepted to gist with me for more than 40 minutes even when other celebrities were around maintaining their steeze and composure.

I pray we meet again someday.

Mind you, there were many others on that set, but I chose to mention this two who showed genuine love not just hyped love.

Keep getting bigger Sir

Nechi Victor U

06/07/2025

I watched a Mother telling her Son that the truth is only what he makes it to be, in otherwords, he can twart the truth at his own will, he can twart judgements in favour of whoever he wants to support and it will be totally Okay.

I've watched Mother's tell their sons that they should lie and cover the truth in order not to get punished for the cr!me they committed, I've also watched Father's do same.

I've watched a Father get provoked because a woman brought her daughter whom the Man's Son impregnated, he sent the woman away and warned her to not set her foot in his compound again. I watched the woman going home in tears. The Father of the child might have been d£ath or does not want to get involved out of anger.

With all these, in order to make ourselves feel better, we succeeded in grooming a generation where lies have become the truth, and truth become lies.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where we have so many Men who does not care whose ox is gored, many Men who can take a life just so they have their way with a woman.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where the man youth refuses to do any work but throws money around, buy expensive cars, houses and lots of other things without any verifiable source of income, a generation where the man youth engage in k!dnapping, and mut!lation of human body parts just to get one otumokpo that will make his Money longer than Dangote's trucks.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where the female youth believes that her beauty is enough work to get her all the good things she will ever desire in life. A generation where the female youths are into low key prost!tution otherwise referred to as whookup, selling their privacy to the highest bidder.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where the Servants of God have taken over the positions of the Children of God, and the children of God the positions of the Servants. A generation who needs only your Money but not your well-being. A generation who enriches themselves at the expense of the poor. A generation of pulpit band!ts who'll declare cankerworms and catapillers to their gullible followers for failing to enrich their insatiable desire through extortion.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where the parents will sit and watch their little children commit fo¥n!cation under their roof and they will be shining teeth with their son ka mkpi ñuru akamu ọkụ. A generation where the parents receives extremely expensive gifts from their jobless children without asking the source of income used to make those purchases.

We have succeeded in grooming a generation where Men make exorbitant demands of submission but still end up in infidelity, prioritizing their zegzual desires than the well-being of their family. A generation where the Women prioritizes their beauty and feminist orientation than submit to their spouse, fail to incubate the right culture into her children but rather leave them to the mercy of the complicated world.

We can start today to do better.

A Sober Reflection 🪞🪞

Nechi Victor U

05/07/2025

Exactly 11 years ago this Month, I was on CHEZ PRODUCTION movie set of ERICO with this wonderful Man. A man who valued others than himself. A star who saw through others, not just his fellow stars but others too little to make a headline.

His meekness drew me close to him to ask for a picture, something I have never tried during my days in Nollywood, without hesitation he obliged and I took a single picture,,,,,,,, though Facebook Disabled the account I used to retain the picture but I hope to find it someday in one of my spoilt phones.

I had prayed to still meet him again when I finally make my comeback into the industry but life played a fast one.

Till tomorrow, I can still wholeheartedly say that you are one of the most kind-hearted man I have met in the movie industry.

Keep resting CHAMP...
Proudly Team SwagNation

Nechi Victor U

05/07/2025

04/07/2025

Dear Married Men listen up.

If a woman with a big backside is what you need, then get one and give yourself some measures of respect. Stop parading anywhere there are single ladies Chineke akpọọ gị ọkụ , for the sake of ụmụ ọma chineke nyere gị, kwaa your f***king d**k nga. Stop crawling under every skirt in order to find Peace.

There is no Peace anywhere outside your home, when you leave your home to find Peace which you will never find, you'll still go back to meet that chaotic partner whom you refuse to be in good terms with. Then, you'll end up having a taste of every girl you came across giving you millions of body counts which will be detrimental to your relationship in the nearest future.

Whatever it is that you think will give you peace or relaxation in a Woman, find it and keep for yourself and stop gallivanting in the midst of single ladies, making the chances of single guys finding true love thin.

But then, who am I to advice an adult whom i have no control over.

A Sober Reflection 🪞🪞.



Nechi Victor U

03/07/2025

You only need this truth

03/07/2025

"If Real Life Was Like Social Media"

I wake up at 6:03am. Looked in the mirror. Still no abs.

Brushed my teeth with my favorite toothpaste. No promo deal yet, but manifesting. 🧼✨

Made toast. Took 47 photos of it. Ended up eating it cold.

Sat in traffic for 45 minutes. Made eye contact with a goat on a bike. No context.

Got to work. Did absolutely nothing until lunch. Felt productive. Posted about it.

Called it a “mental health break” and took a nap at 2:30PM. Coworkers thought I was in a meeting.

Posted a filtered selfie captioned “just woke up” even though I took 10 angles and Facetuned it twice.

Texted “LOL” but wasn’t even smiling.

Ended the day with a deep caption about growth and healing — while eating Indomie in bed, watching a show I’ve seen 4 times.



What would your day look like if real life was like social media? 😂👇 Drop your version in the comments.

Nechi Victor U

03/07/2025

Stop trying to be perfect, nobody is

03/07/2025

The seed you sow today will come back to haunt you tomorrow.

Sometimes I just look at how some parents receive disrespect from their children and I just shrug and say it's well deserving. Train a child in the way they should go and when they are of age, they will never depart from it.

It's sad to say, but the Igbo tribe of today took training a child rightly to mean maltreatment. Nigeria would have been a lovely country where everyone would have loved to get a wife from.

Inasmuch as it is the traditional duty of a woman to cook for her household, anyone can participate in that duty regardless of their gender, but this can be achieved based on the ideology inculcated in both parties from time memorial, you don't expect a child who never learnt to cook to wake up someday and start cooking. It is a thing of process and it takes time.

Many of our parents today never wanted their children to do any house chores, hence it is being entrusted into the hands of maids and house boys, most of them will embarrass you for trying to correct their wards leaving the children mannerless and ready to disrespect an adult at any moment in time.

To most males, cooking is not a thing and they can do it at any moment happily even if their wife is watching Telemundo and laughing out loud. Most people derive joy in cooking like those who use that opportunity to eat to their fill.

Bottom line is, train your children to adapt to every environment they find themselves in without hurting other people's emotions.

A Sober Reflection 🪞🪞

Nechi Victor U

02/07/2025

01/07/2025

CALL ME AWKWARD BUT READ TO BE INFORMED. 👇👇👇👇

My Parents used to tell me that where a Child goes and returns home, that Child might as well go there and never return home.
( It's literally an adage for the Wise. )

Hence, they told me to everly tell people around my whereabouts. The World is not a safe haven, so everybody should be mindful of the path they tread.

I was in the same bus with this beautiful Nurse yesterday evening, a charming lady and more. Actually heading same direction as me, she was discussing with her boyfriend when her mum called,

"Hello Mum"

"It's already late and you haven't returned, where are you?" Echoed the voice in the background.

"I'm headed to Ifeoma's house mum, she isn't feeling fine and I'm going to administer some injections to her"

"Make sure you finish on time and come back home, it's already late" the mum added from the other end.

"I will, Mama".

She ended the call 🤙 and smiled to her boyfriend.

If this girl eventually gets missing or worse ( God Forbid ), the mum will be all over Ifeoma and her family for her daughters de@th, when ifeoma didn't even know the whereabout of her friend.

The more reason I don't make friends with unreasonable people.

That Angel you see today might turn to a dem0n tomorrow, but some girls are not ready for this discussion.

No matter how much you've falling in love with anybody, make sure that any of your siblings or close relative is aware of who you are rolling out with.

Any Man that is afraid of coming to meet you in your house, in the presence of your family members is not worthy to be your boyfriend. Call it awkward, but you'll soon understand.

Many people have been k!lled, buried and forgotten without a trace, all because they couldn't tell their family where they are headed and who is taking them out.

Have Sense this 2025.

A Sober Reflection 🪞🪞

Nechi Victor U

02/09/2024

Porsche.