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Garyvee, 4165 Coplin Avenue, Phoenix, FL (2026)

05/06/2026

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AITA For using my cousins deadname for my baby?

Pretty simple. My cousin is transgender. I was six when he was born, and my aunt let me pick his name. I'm not going to say what I picked, but it was a friends name at school that I really liked. And I still love the name. When my cousin changed his name, I was a little upset, but decided it was life.

I'm currently pregnant with my own baby girl, after doctors told me I'd never have a baby. Everything seems to be going well, and the only name I can think about is that one.

I brought it up to my cousin first, obviously, and he was pretty upset by it, but ultimately said it was my choice. He did say, though, that he probably wont want to be around my baby.

My girlfriend thinks that he's being weird about it, and while I think its a little extreme, I dont know what hearing his deadname will be like for him. I offered to spell it differently, but he doesnt like that either.

He told his mum and she's now trying to convince me to use a different name. Shes expressed that she would love for me to use the name, but its not fair.

We've tried coming up with new names, but nothing sticks. I've loved this name for nearly twenty years, and nothing else feels right.

So, would I be an a__hole if I still went with it? I'd appreciate judgement from other trans people (:

Edit to add; my girlfriend is trans! A few people think she's entitled, she only said what she did because she's coming from her own point of view.

05/06/2026

You created the chaos, I left you in it, I’m cruel? 🌪️

05/06/2026

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AITA for being a Karen at dinner?

Burner acct I don’t trust anyone lol.

I (21M) and my friends (22F, 23M, 24M, 21F) went out to eat for my friend’s (22F) birthday. We get a few rounds of drinks and then order our appetizers and entrees at the same time, and I made sure to tell our server to please pace the meal so that our apps and entrees were not served with each other.

The apps come and 5 minutes after that, all of our entrees were being served. Now all of us were a little frustrated given the fact that I told the server to pace the meal appropriately. We asked that they be taken back and that they wait for us to finish our apps. The server takes the entrees back and 2 min later, a food runner now brings us the same food that we had just sent back. We politely told him that we are still eating our appetizers and so he brings it back to the kitchen again.

So we finish our apps and now are ready for the entrees. About 20 min go by and we have nothing. Our server hadn’t come by to check on us at all and at this point we were both ready for another round and still hungry. Finally, only my entree comes out (nobody else’s) and my food is ice cold. I had wrongly assumed that my food was sitting on the hot plate waiting for me as opposed to just off to the side in the kitchen.

Now I had tried calling our server over but she didn’t come over until everyone else got their food. I told our server that my food was cold and without skipping a beat, she responded with verbatim “It’s not cold.” She hadn’t felt the plate or the food itself and so I was taken aback by the resentment towards me.

So now I was really angry and we end up calling over a manager over who is being very nice. We told her we hadn’t gotten the chance to order another...

05/06/2026

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AITA For Refusing when my husband told me to stop speaking my original language infront of our son?

I'm F28 from Asia, My husband M33 is Canadian. We've been married for 3 years. We have a 1.5 year old son. He has a habit of repeating everything we say which is a great learning method for him. He's very smart and pays good attention to every word he hears and also has a great memory.

I have family in Asia and so I tend to speak with my own language (persian) at home whenever I'm talking with them on the phone. My son have picked up a few words I said and he sound really funny when he's trying to say them because they're difficult to say. Anyways my husband came home and told him to listen to what our son was trying to say. He looked at me confused then he looked upset. I asked him what's wrong and he told me that what I was doing was wrong, that I shouldn't try to teach our son this language without telling him first. But I wasn't it just happened. When I told him that he argued that I should stop speaking like that home then. I was shocked. I asked if he was serious. And He went on about how I'm acting selfish by objecting to this decision but I told him I'm free to speak however I want plus he had no issues with that in the past. I don't see any harm in this. He argued for nearly an hour telling me that I needed to watch everything I say whenever I'm near my son. I called him ridiculous for asking me something like that and he didn't like that I refused to quit speaking with my original language.

He went out to meet some friends and then sent me a text talking about our argument and how much I hurt his feeling by calling him ridiculous and lashing out like that. I didn't reply because I needed to calm down before I talk to him but his texts kept coming in basically blaming me for starting an argument and refusing to understand...

05/05/2026

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AITA for telling my sister she is going to be a horrible doctor?

My sister (21F) is a 4th year med-student, and is one of the best students in her class. She is hardwoking and focused AF so she totaly deserves this and I am so proud of her.

My only problem with her is that, for the last 4 years, the only thing she knows how to talk about is how well she does in college, how much smarter she is, and how much higher her grades are.

I (24F), on the other hand, am a horrible student. I have decided to focus on my professional career instead of my academic degree. I have a high-paying, high-position full-time job.

With this job and the final semesters of my education, It is needless to say that I'm under an insane amount of pressure. And this reflects on an awfull habit i have: picking my nails.

They have gotten horrible to the point where I went to see a dermatologist with fear of an infection of some kind. He then gave me some ointment, and told me that, overall, everything was fine, and not infected, so I shouldn't panic. A couple of weeks go by, as I continue with the tratment/apointments and my nails actualy get a lot better.

In the meantime, there is a family lunch, on which my sister sees my nails and starts scraming for everyone at the table to hear about how they were "DEFINETLY INFECTED", and "so horrible", how my doctor "obviously had the wrong diagnostic", and that if she were my doctor she would "immediatley change the ointment for the treatment".

Side note: she had no idea of the progress with the treatment, she hadn't seen my nails before I started going to the dermatologist, we do not live together and see each other only every few weeks.

I then lost it.

I screamed at her saying that she would never be my doctor since couldn't even respect basic confidentiallity (she told everyone present about my issues), and that she had no intention of actualy helping me and that her...

05/05/2026

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AITA For "shaming" my sister for offering to breastfeed my baby?

So, I'll get straight to it. I have an eight month old and a two year old. My sister has a three month old, a two year old and a four year old. Her best friend has a three year old and a newborn (I dont know exactly how old the baby is).

All three of us breastfeed. The difference is, my sister extended breastfeed. All three of her kids are still feeding, and her friends are still feeding also. I weaned my oldest at a year and I plan to do the same with my younger one.

They also wet nurse for each other (is that the correct terminology?) so one of them will have all the kids and feed them while the other goes partying or something. Their older kids dont really care who they get their milk from, and even if they are together they sometimes wont feed from their own moms.

Anyway, we were all at a family get together and I was complaining about not being able to go out with my friends because I'm still breastfeeding. I made a joke about switching my baby to formula so she could stay with our parents. Older sister (mom of seven) agreed and said she'd have the baby if I wanted.

My other sister stepped in and said that she'd have the baby, and could nurse her so I dont have to switch her. I guess I looked a little grossed out because then she added that she could also feed her pumped b__ast milk instead.

I declined, and kept talking to my other sister about formulas. I am genuinely thinking about switching my daughter over, so it wasnt intended to make my sister uncomfortable.

After a while she came back over and added, "You can just say no or that it weirds you out, you dont have to try and make me uncomfortable,"

To which I replied, and here is where I may be an a__hole, "Yeah, it fu**in weirds me out. Its creepy and I dont like it....

05/05/2026

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AITA for quitting being a bridesmaid 3 weeks before the wedding?

My (22f) best friend (22f) who I’ve been friends with for 8 years is getting married in the first week of February and I was supposed to be her bridesmaid. Her fiancé (28m) has always been an absolute d__k to me because he has past beef with my older brother (27m) so we do not get along at all but I tolerate him for my best friend’s sake.

The real drama started when my best friend’s fiancé decided to call my brother a j__kie two days ago. For context, my brother struggled with a d__g addiction since he was 18 but has been in recovery for a year now. The comment was completely uncalled for. It happened two days ago, I went over their house, her fiancé asked me “how is your j__kie brother?” Obviously trying to start drama for no reason (he does that constantly) I obviously got offended because I’m protective of my brother. So I called him a “fcking cnt.” and we got into a bad fight. During this argument my bff said absolutely nothing in my defence even after he called me names.

I dropped out of the wedding and now my “best friend” is mad at me and saying I’m overreacting because “technically your brother WAS a j__kie” and I should just ignore it when her fiancé makes dumb jokes. And now she’s claiming I’m trying to ruin her wedding and purposely stressing her out.

So AITA?

05/05/2026

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AITA for refusing to apologize to my cousins for embarrassing them at my wedding>?

Posting at the suggestion of my sister. Also, long story short. My husband passed away suddenly in February of 2020 of a brain tumor just 3 months after being diagnosed.

I (37f) was 6 months pregnant at the time with our first child and was a complete train wreck and couldn't function. My parents and in laws made the executive decision to move me back to my very small home town, which was 600 miles from where my husband and I were living. Its been good, I work remote and my parents are retired so they can watch my baby while I work.

A lot of extended family (including 2 cousins I grew up with) and friends still live here and have been super supportive. I developed a friendship with a guy across the street named Josh (27M) and earlier this year our friendship turned romantic. We kept it quiet because I felt guilty over dating just a year after my husband died.

We got engaged in July and announced our relationship and everyone (including my cousins) expressed how happy they were for us. Well, a couple of weeks before our wedding, I went to my Aunt's home (the mother of my cousins) and she asked who was coming to the wedding. I ran through the short guest list and mentioned her daughters.

She had a strong reaction and said 'Do not invite those two. They are a couple of miserable bi***es.' I was pretty shocked, and asked why and she just said 'Don't do it, you don't want them there, trust me.' So, I called her son and asked him what in the hell was going on. Apparently, these cousins that were just so happy for Josh and me had been completely raking us behind our backs.

Saying things like I must not have loved my first husband if I moved on with Josh so quick, and that he must just be interested in me for the life insurance money ($40k) because why else would he want me, and that he would just end...

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